男人为什么会出轨，媳妇咋办?

 laogongchugui zenmeban?haijideyoubudianyingjiao《10nianhunyinnandaoshuoyaobaijiduanzanxinghunhouchugui》,henqifaminxin。zheibudianyingnenggoutiyihunyinzhongchuxiannantidefufubicikanyixia，jinerjinkuaisikaozishen，yingduizishendehunyin。zaihunyinzhongchuxiannanti，tongchangshigegefangmianyuangude，yaoxuehaochuantouzhuangkuangkanshizhi。danglaogongshuciaishangyoufuzhifuxifugaizenmebanni?

一、自我反思，思考自身

 dangdaishehuijingjifazhanxunsu，nanrenxianghujingzhengyeyulaiyumenglie，ruguoniyushanglelaogongshuciwaiyu，nigaizenyangjiejueni?zaijiazhongshenghuozhongyoushiyewufajunheng，fuyoudemeiyoushijian，youshijiandemeiqian。

 yinci，meiyoujinshanjinmeideren。erxuduoxifuzaijiehunhouhuanshiqidailaogongbaquanbudeshijianfangdaozishenshoushang，jiaruyidianermeifazuodao，bingbushimaiyuan，jiushishuochize。

 shijianjiule，laogongdexinxinhuibeixifuyanlidajidehuaweiwuyou，jianjiandijiuhuizaixinlichendingchuxuduohenman。nanrenyoushiyizhibazishendeqingmiandoukanbiquandouguanjian。yinci，jiaruniyaoaita，bixuyaoxuezhejitamenchongzudeqingmian。xuehaojitamenbixudelejiehezhongshi 。yiqiezijiderenshouquanshiyoudixiande。

 nanrenainideneishihounenggoujiangnichongshangtian，buaizhenideneishihoukandaojiufan，tashirendequexian。yincirenzhongzaiyouzhidaoziming。lejienaxiegaishuo，naxiebuyaoshuo，naxiegaizuo，naxiebuyaozuo，neiyangnenggoubaliangrendeguanlianjiejuehao。

 jiaruyizhichenjinyuzaiziwodeshijieli，neimajiumeifagaijinxianghudeguanlian。yinci，nikeyizhuiyixiaguoqudejiaowangfangshi，shifouduitaguidingtaigaole，shifouchangchanghuixiaotidazuo，shifouchangchangmaiyuanta。youshifenqiquanshijishaochengduode。

 zaihunyinzhongbicideyingxianglishigongpingde，haodelaogongquanshinvxingtengchuqude，yiqiedeyouyideguidingquanshishengchanzhizaoxianghufenqihejiedidejinshucuihuaji。ruguonibukeyifanmiandeshangxitadeneishihou，tayeburongyiyiyiyangdeshixianlaiduidaini，bicixianghuzhijiankanbuxiguanxing，jianjiandideqingganjiudanle。jiaruzheiyineishihouhaiyouwaibiandenvxingbawangyingshanggong，nanrenmeiyouburongyixindongde。

 yinci，youshichuguinanren，weibijiushishuoqueshimishangleqitanvxing，youshijinjinmouxieouran，zaiziranhuanjingcuihuafanyingxiadewukenaihe。ruguofancuowu，jiarudajiameiyoufeichanghaodegoutongjiaoliu，yizhiyichaomadexintailaikandai，neimazhangciyiwang，bicihuigengweidishengshu。jibianmeiyouliyi，qingganyehuaweiwuyou。

 yinci，yaoxianggaijindajiazhongjiandenanti，zhuyaodejiushishuowanquandifanshengziji，bubitaizishen。hunyinzhongrenmenbujinshihelingyifangyikuaierguoshenghuo，gengguanjiandeyaoyinaxiedexintaikandailingyifang，yinaxiedexintaiguidingzishen。

二、改变现状，重构温暖

 hunyinzhongdeliangren，wangwangbashiriguobianchengwenkaishui，rangdisanzhechenxuerru，tingdayuangujiushishuobumingbairenzhenyunying。hunyinkaoliangrenyunying，zailingyifangweizheiyijianulishi，duifangyaomingbaiqianjiuhelejie。deyongganenzhixinbanimendeaiheqingganliudongxing、xunhuanxitongqilai，neiyangdehunyinnenggoubianwei“huo”shui。yaomingbaiaixiliangrenzheiyibeizideyuanfen。

 mingbaienaifeichangrongyi，baitouxielaonandedadaoli，yishizhuxingzaifanmang，haiyaoquchuxianghudeshineikongjianquwennuanxianghudeneixin，rangxingfukuailezhihuazaixinlifanyong。hunhoushenghuochukaiyouyanjiangcuhegezhonggeyangsuosuiyiwai，yeyaochanggoutongjiaoliu，baohanganqingdezhuiyi。

 fufubujinshiqinren，huoshipengyouhezhixin，nanrenzaiwaibiandouzhanxianwanqiangdeyibian，jiasuanshitaquxiamianzhaodediqu，shitashizuonenggouwujuwushu，shifangyalizishendediqu，yincinvxingyaojinanren1gewennuanqingjingdeziranhuanjing，tahuishifangyalizishen。

 nanrenxiangshuo，nibutantayeyaoshuo;nanrenbuyuanshuo，nvxingzaiwenyewenbuchuqu。yinciyaoxuezhezuo1gehaolaopo，xuezhezaihunyinzhongdamopaoguangzishen。laogongshuciaishangyoufuzhifu，xifuzaban?-zhangfuchuguigaizenmeban

三、了解老公，用心仪他

 laogongwangwangshuciaishangyoufuzhifu，bixushiyijiazhongshiqutajuedeyingdangyaodeai，yincicaihuiqianyilingyiban。keshiduilingyifangeryan，yeyaoyingduini，taneiyangdejiaosebanyanyouxideyebixutinglei。tayouyucongjiazhongshiqutayuanyideguanai，zheileiganqingdequeshaorutong1geneixindeyaoqiuxiangtong，yizhibujingyidiqipanxuduorenkeyilejieta，kaolvta，jitamenyuanyideneixinxingfukuaile。

 jiaruzheiyineishihouchuxian1geqinpeita，jiqita，zunzhongtadezhixingyouyadenvxing，nanrenjiuhuirenweizishenmishanglezheiyinvxing。wojuedebingbushi，tajinjinkaolvlezuoweinanrendebeishangxi、beiqinpei、beizunzhong、beigaoduzhongshidexintaizhuangtaiyaoqiu。bingbushiyiweizhezhenilaogongjiuqueshiaineinvren。

 congguzhijinshiduoshaoneiyangdeshili，disanzhejibianzainianqingmaomei，keshimeiyouhetatongganku，shijingbuzhushijiandemoliande。buxiangxin，shijiannenggourangnicankaodaan。neimayaozenyangyingduizhangfuchugui?