丈夫有外遇怎么办？导致丈夫出轨的几大缘故

 laogongyouwaiyu zenmeban?yifuyiqizhidunenggoushuochengdangdaishehuijingjifazhandebiding，keyanjuede，gaozhishangderengengbuyiwaiyu，youyutamengengweirongruyifuyiqizhizheileidangdaishehuifazhancaiyoudexinguizhangzhidu。danshi，kexueyanjiuguikexueyanjiu，waiyudeyuangushigegefangmiande，xiabianjiutaolunyixiadaozhizhangfuchuguidejidayuangu。

一：意识的差别放大两个人中间的间距

 laogongyouwaiyuzenmeban?jinguanzaixianzaishehuizhong，quanzhidejiatingfunvyuelaiyuedi，keshiyemianbulefufuliangrenchuxianyouyuyishidebuyiyangerzaochengbicidechabieyulaiyuda。

 wenping、yishizhuxingqinshenjinglijiqiweixinpengyouquandebuyiyang，doushizaochengfufubicideyishizaochengzhuanbian。zaizhiqiannvxingdoutiaoxuandangjiatingfunvdeshidai，chuguilaogongdaduoshuyouyulaopoyushehuifazhancuowei，errujin，chuguilaogongdeyuanguyeshijianghuishizishenmeifazhuizhushanglaopofazhandebufa，zhiyouzaijiazhongwaizhaoxunbiededekuanwei，cikejianghuijiuhuidaozhilaogongguannianwaiyu，jiaruwobumingbaidiaozheng，jianjianditajiuhuiwaiyude。

二：妻子性冷淡

 xianzaishehui，zhaozheifengaopinzhidegongzuozhongyulaiyubuyi，zheiyequshilehenduodefufuliangdifenjuerdi，meiyiyuezhongzhinengliangsancipengmiandejiyu。erjianjudekuozhang，feichangrongyibianweifufulianggerenqingganliefengdedaohuoxian。zhangfuyouwaiyuzenmeban?

 ciwai，yinweifufulianggerenbukeyiyouliangdigoutongjiaoliuerzaochengdezaiqizhonglingyifang(daduoshushinvshi)zhenduixingshenghuodehaipahuozhedichu，doushibianchengchuguilaogongdeyuangu。mengzishuoguo，shisezhexingye，zhuiqiuwanmeiyushicaishirenmendebennengfanying，yiner，yuanyihunyinjiangupingwen，fuqijiandegoutongjiaoliushifeichangguanjiande。

三：近朱者赤，近墨者黑

 zhenduiwomenzhongguoreneryan，“renyunyiyun”shizaiyiqiezhengchangdanshidezhuangkuangle。zixiaodeneishihougangkaishidajiajiubeiwenhuajiaoyububiyukaoshichengjichadexiaohaiyiqi，erdangnanrenzhangdalechengjialiye，kaoshichengjichadexiaohaiyoubianweilelaopokouzhongde“jiuroupengyou”。jiaruoyixiaxiajiarunanrenzhoubianquanshixiaichihepiaodudepenyou，neitakeyiquebaozishenbu“renyunyiyun”ma?zhengshuobailejinzhuzhechi，jinmozhehei，zainanrendezeyoucengmian，laopochedinenggouzuochushidudezhengqueyindao。si：jingjifazhancaozong

 dangdaishehuifazhandenvshijibianzishenyongyougongzuozhong，queyiranxiangxin“nanrenfuyoujiuxuehuai”dejichulilun，yinerhenduolaopotiaoxuanlegenjujianguanlaogongdejingjifazhanlaichaoguoyueshulidemudi，quetongchangdebuchangshi。

 zhangfuyouwaiyuzenmeban?wojuede，hunhoushenghuozhongzuiguanjiandeshixinlai，jingjidulidenvshichedimeiyoubixugenjucaokongnanrendejinqianlaichaoguoyueshulidemudi，fanguolaide，rangzishenyuelaiyuegengqiang，suanshizuiqiangjingdezichan。wu：qianquegoutongjiaoliu

 bulunshiyusheijiaowang，goutongjiaoliuquanshigengweiguanjiandewuqizhuangbei。keshidangdaishehuifazhantongchangjidajiachanshengleguoduodexinfuqizaoxintai，dajiajinyoudeyidianernaixindoufangdaoyupenyou、pengyoudegoutongjiaoliudaole，quetongchangwanglezijijiazhongdenageyouxiurencaishizuiguanjiande。eryizhishiqulejieyujingchangdezhengzhi，feichangrongyiranglaogongzaijiazhongyiwaizhaoxunlingwaiwenrouxiang，yiner，yuanyihunyinweichizaigengweipingwendeqingkuang，youliangdegoutongjiaoliushibixupin。

 buguanchuguilaogongdeyuangushisha，cikenvxinggairuhekandaichuguinanren?laoposuoxuzuode，zuixianshifanshengziji，cizhishiyiwuquhua。keshibuguanzenyang，waiyudeneilingyifangyizhiyaodanfudaliangdeyiwu，tashiburongzhiyidekeguanshishi。