老公出轨了怎么办？怎样用坚强的心挽留出轨的婚姻?

 laogongchuguile zenmeban?danghunyinzaoshouwaiyu，yiqiezijineixinshangdoushimengzhuheiying。wojuedewulunniyeshiyoushang，huanshikaixin，nantizaoyichuxianle。youxiaodefangfajiushishuomianduinanti。youyuweiyouniganrenqingdeshier，nicaikeyijibaita。yinci，wulunniyeshinanrenhuanshinvxing，zheiyineishihounibixuyaorangzishenneixinqiangdaderen。

 laogongchuguilezenmeban?yaoquexinrenshengdaolumeiyoutongguobuledekan。jiranlaotianyefenpeineiyangdejingkuangrangni，neimanibixuyougongzuonenglirangzishenbaituojiongjing。

一、要学好迁移自身的集中注意力

 huoxunichenjinyuzaichuguidehunyinzhongbunengziba，ruguonipengdaoqingganweijizenyangjiejuedeni?wulunniyeshizenyangdishangxin，nantidouburongyiyouyunideshangxinerchuli。chuguidenanrenzenmewanhui?

 ninengshizhezuomouxienizhiqiancongmeizuoguodeshier，ninengqunizhiqianxianglaicongmeilaiguodediqu，ninengqukanzhenihaozhangshijiandouxiangtanwangkeshishizhongmeiyouqutanwangderen，huoxuyouyuyihuirangzishenkaixindejiaotongchuxing，doushirangnichanshengxingfudeqingxu。ruguonixuehaoleqianyizishendejizhongzhuyili，shifenshifenfengfudeneishihou，shenmehunyinzhongdesunhaihaoxiangdoushibeixiaochuxuduo。youyunizhonghuigaoqingchu，renhuozhuyouxuduoyouyiyideshiqingyaozuo。

 hunyinyehao，gongzuoyeba，quanshiduanlianrendejingjichang。zhinengtairanziruo，nenggoudengxianshizhi。ruguonixuehaoqianyizishendejizhongzhuyilideneishihou，ni，jianjiandihuiyiwangshenmesunhai，shijianzhangle，nijiuhuifaxianquanbudesunhaiwojuedequanshizheizhongchengcaihemolian，dangnizhongaimianruandeneishihou，nizaoyijuyoulejianqiangdexin。zheihuoxushizaicuobaizhonghuodedezuizhenguidecaifu。zenyangyongjianqiangdexinwanliuchuguidehunyin?

二、要学好让自身强劲

 renzheiyibeizi，zongshiyiweizishenkeyiyizhongderenxuduo。wojuedejixuxiaqu，nijiuhuifaxian，renyishengzuihouhuanshiyaoyikaoziji。yinci，nikeyixiangfangfazaishiluozhongjiandaoqidai，zaitongchuzhongzhaoxuntongchu。ninengjianmanzishendeshenghuodejiezou，keshijinjinlinshidechuanqi。chuguidenanrenzenmewanhui?ninengrangzishenzaishifangyalizhongxinlihuodewending。

 ninengrangzishendezhuanzhanghuodegengqiangjingdechongfenfahui。zheiyiquanshijieyuanbenjiumeiyoujinshanjinmeideren，meiyoujinshanjinmeideshier。jinrinibukeyijienade，mingribixuhaihuizaidudesunhaini。yinci，yaoxuezherangzishenqiangjing，baquanbudebeijudoucaizaijiaoxia。

三、重新定义婚姻的使用价值

 hunyinzaibixushuipingshangweihaizheyigerendexingfu，danhunyinbingbushirenshengdaoludesuoyou。jibianlingyifangpanbianleni，cuoguolenidexinlai，keshilingyifangzhongjiujilenihunyin，lingyifangyiqianjiushiniyixiangzheyaohuanduyibeizideren，bukeyichenjinyuzaizhangfuchuguigaizenmebanzheiyinandianzhong，yaoxuehaozouchuqu、yaodoukankai。jiaruhunyinmeiyoujiaohuinijingshenshizhichengcai，neimaneiyangdehunyinbimeiyounantigengweikongbu。

 zaimeihaonianhuali，yizhihuichanshengxuduorenmenyixiangbudaodeshier，keshiruguobushizheizhongshiqing，niruhepanduan，niyeshizheibandimingan?dabufenrenyizhichuzaiyishizhuxingdeshunjingyunijingzhong，xiaozhangdibuqingchuzishendaodishishei，keshiruguoniqinshenjinglilerenshengdaoludecuozheyihou，nijiuhuifaxian，wojuedequanbudekaixinhetongchu，zuishaoquanshiyibianzhengshirenmenyiqianaoguo。jiranneiyang，weiherangzishenxuehaokaixinduoxieni?

 hunyinshi“0.5+0.5=1”，jiarunikeyirangzishendeneixinqiangdaderen，jiukanchuanchuguidehunyin，zhibuguoduishijihunyinweimandezheizhongxuanxiebale。jiarunikeyiwangjiguoqu，eryounengzhiliyuzenyangrongqianiyulingyifangdemaodun，neimachuguidehunyinwanrudebingdehuacaozhiwu，lijingyizhi，bixuyehuibaozhongshentide!