出轨的男人离婚，之后他始终未再成家立业，应不应该宽容

 chuguidenanren zenmewanhui?zheiniandainaxieshierchangyou，youshiniwangwangkeshouzishensuokeshoude，youyuzainideshixianheqiankunli，juedeneiyangzuojiushishuoqiadangde。

 dangchuhelingyifangliyiyouyutawaiyu，yiqizhixiaganjuelingyifangyingdangdanfuqiquanbudebuliangyingxiang，yincinianqingqisheng，lilehunzhi。laogongyouwaiyuzenmeban?xiangbudaoxuduonianyihoulingyifangqueshizhongmeiyouzaichengjialiye，erwomenrengrandanshennannvzhe。huixiangdaodangchujiushi，xianrujinzaoyiwuhenjiwuteng。zheiyineishihoulingyifanglaizhaodaoqidaizishenkuanrong，shibushigaikuanronglingyifangni?

最先，假如始终也没有完婚，表明 他内心也有你的影子

 chuguidenanrenzenmewanhui?lihunzhihoutashizhongyemeiyouwanhun，huoxuyouyuduihunyinheganqingdecaiyi，huoxuyouyutaxinliyeyouni。jiranzheixienianyemeiyouwanhun，neimajibianhelingyifangfuhunyouyounaxiebunengni?quanshijiedeyuanfenxuduo，keshihuoxudajiazhongjianjiuzheiyangmingkuderen，bixuqinshenjingliyihuijiannankunkucailejieyuanxianxianghushizheibandelibukai。

 jiaruxianghuxinliyeyoulingyifang，weihejilingyifangjihui。zhongjiuzhuihuimoji，lingyifangjirannengzheixienianweizaichengjialiye，laikanhuanshixinliyoulenide。yinci，yaoxuehuifangqiyiwang，congtoukaishi，duixianghudouyouyidingdezhangwo，jiaowangqilaiyingdanghaibingbushineimadecangbaiwuli。

次之，大家要好好谈谈为何这么多年始终单着

 dajiajirandouhaidanzhe，jiubalingyifangdangpenyouxiangtongliaoyixia。huoxuhuiyouxindefajue。huoxudangchushizheichangwujie，huoshishizheichangbudeyi。xuduoneishihouzijimeibanfaweichijieshenziai，erdajiajiranlilehun，huanshiyebuxiangyaozaiwanhun，huoxujiushishuodajiaxianghudexinyoulingxi。

 dajiaxinlidouyeyoulingyifang，meirennenggouqudailingyifang，suirandajiazhongjianyougerenwaiyule。keshidajiahuanshiganjuexianghushishihede。laogongyouwaiyuzenmeban?huoshilingyifangyouyudajiadehunyinduiganqingyoumouxiekegumingxindeganshou，juededoumeiyouerhundebixu。zijidanjiule，huoxujuedezaihaozijiquanshibubiyaode。

 shijizhongrenmennenggoukanjianxuduojibianliyidefufuhuanshiganjueyuanxiandelingyifanghao。lijingxuduoshier，shiguanghejingyanjianzhang，yueduofeichangrongyihuilejiemouxieren，mouxieshi。

再度，要明白自身的婚姻自身作主

 zishendehunyinzishenzuozhu,bubiyizhiqutingtarendetiyi。jiarujuedehaixiangkaolvdaohelingyifangyiqi，erlingyifangdequeyeshizhonghaixiaizheni，neimashizhequjienalingyifang(canzhao:zenyangzhenshixinlijieshouchuguideairen)。henduonianqianbukeyikuanrongde，rujinqinshenjinglileneimaduoshier，yingdangshinenggoukuanrongdele。

 taguodemouxielutongchangjiushishuoyibianyingzhaojianglaidelu。renzheiyibeizimeiyouchedideshunshunlili，bingbushijifanxiazheteng，jiubuqingchuaixiyiqidexingfu。40suiqianhuoxusheiliqusheiyiyang，keshi40suizhihou，queshihuanshibutong。yaomingbaigaiaihuxianghu，nenggoujiejuehaodajiaxianghuguanxi。

 jiushiyiyi，rujinbaogui。yiwangdejiuyaotayiwang。jiarujinshizhongjiuyuanfennonghou，neimahaiyaoxuezhesuiyueran。jiranlaila，haiyaoshenkailiangshouqureliehuanying，jiushinidezhongguijiushinide，bulunshiyibenhaoshuhuanshiziji。

 yaobushiqinshenjinglizheixieyinyou，jiubuqingchuyuanxianniyeshizheibanzuigaidenghou。yinci，xuehaokuanrong，kuanronglingyifangjiushishuokuanrongzishen。zijijiaruleizhe，huanshiliangrenwomenyiqizoujianglaideluba!