老公有外遇怎么处理：怎么让他收调整心态呢?

 laogongyouwaiyu zenmechuli?1gechuguinanren，jiurutuojiangdeyema，jiaruniyaocaokongta，jiuyoudianernanle。youyutajiranwaiyu，jiuxuehaoleanquanfanghu。niyaoquhuitadexin，chufeishitajuededaohunwailianfaweiwuqu，buranmeibanfatahuihehaoruchu。neimazuoweilaopo，chuguinanrenhouzenmerangtashoudiaozhengxintaini?

第一种办法：要先控住自身的心态

 laogongyouwaiyuzenmeban?jiarulingyifangqueshiwaiyule，neimatabuxianglihundehua，tazaijiazhongzhuyaobiaoxiantongchangerzhongzhuangkuang：yaobulengdan，genniaidabuli，yaobuwushixianyinqin，laibiaoshuduinidekuiqian。

 keshiwuluntaruhezuo，nibixugaoqingchu，taxianjieduanhaibuxianglihun，biaomingniyizhizaixuduocengmianyounagedisanzheerwukebinide。laogongyouwaiyuzenmechuli?keshiniruoyaoturanzhijiankanduantadeqingsi，yexudajiazhongjianjiuhuiyouxuduodemaodunhehenman。yuefazaijinghuangdeneishihou，yuefayaozhuyaobiaoxiandedandingcongrongyidianer，chenwenyidianer，neiyangninenggouhaiyoujihuiquxiangfangfa，xiangfangfachulidajiazhongjiandenanti。

第二种办法：不必去闹，更不必蛮不讲理

 nanrenzuifangandejiushishuoneileihujiaomanchan，manbujianglideren，nikeyigaoqingchu，yiqieyoufencun。jiaruniyaonao，neimanijiyoukenengjiuhuibazheiyinanrenzhenshideyinxiangdisanzheerdehuaili。youyunanrenzaijiazhongyaobuganjuewuqu，yaobuganjuefawei，jiaruzaipengdao1geainaodenvxing，nanrenningyuanlusujietoudoubuxiangyaohuijiale。

 yinci，zheiyineishihouqianwanbiemanbujiangli，zhishiyaomingbaixuehuifangxiazishendequanbupianjian。doushuo：qixianwuhuoshi。yuefazaishouqideneishihou，yueyingdangchengdazishendebuju。nvxingruguoxincunhuoda，xionghuaikuankuo，hennanmeirennenggouweinanzhuni。youyunixinlideqiangjingzaoyishengyulerenhe。

第三种办法：要明白第三者儿的思绪并和她见上一边

 xuduodisanzheerwangwangxiangfuzheng，buyidingquanshiyibiannanrenhao。zhishiyibiannanrendecaifu，yingxianglihezishenzhigaoqiyangdeyishizhuxing。laogongyouwaiyuzenmeban?jiaruoyixiaxia，jiarudisanzheerkeyijingjiduli，jingshenshizhidandu，ganshenmefeidequzhao1gejihundenanren，jibiantaduoxihanzheiyinanren，tayeburongyihezheiyinanrenzhangqixialai。

 yinci，nikeyirangdisanzheerjianniyimian，nikeyirangdisanzheerlejieniyunilaogongburongyiyouyu1gedisanzheererfenli，keshijiarulaogongqueshixiangyaochechuzheicihunyin，niyehuiyuanyi。keshilaogongcihoujiuyibushi1gejizhideren，zhishi1gelilehun、panbianlelaopoxiaohai，taobizerendenanren。yingduineiyangdenanren，disanzheerweishenmehuiyaoni?

第四招：你可以认真给男人做些爽口的饭食，买适合的衣服裤子

 nikeyijinanrenzuoshuangkoudefanshi，maitiehedeyifukuzi。rangnanrenjuededaonishifendekeyizuo，keyijiazhongzhenglidefeichanghao，gezhonggeyangnantijiejuedefeichanghao。neiyangdajiazhongjiancaiyoudaliangdelianlianbushe。

 yaolejieruguochuguinanren，wojuedetaneixindoushiyoufenqide，bujinjuedehunyinfawei，yucitongshijuededaohunwailianyouwenti，lingwaiyoumeifaxuehuifangxiahunwailian，zaineiyangdefenqihedanxindangzhong，tayemeibanfabazishenderichangshenghuojiejuehao。yinci，nikeyirenzhenyingxiangnanren，rangnanrenjuededaonishifendeaita ，jiarunanrenjuededaonibixutashi，tajiuburongyihulvezheiyidianer。