发觉老公有外遇怎么办呢?

 laogongyouwaiyu zenmechuli?jinjinianlaizaochengliyideyaosudangzhong，waiyuweiliediyi，waiyuyinyuebianchenghunyindejiaodaxiongshou。richangshenghuo，nanrennvrenwaiyudechangyou，danshizaiqizhongyouyinanrenduojian。jiaruzairichangshenghuozhong，fajuezhangfuchuguizabanni?shehuixuejiachuxinzhao，3geliucheng，rangzaoshouchuguinvrenyibumangran，shaoshoushang。

首先：理智接受现实，操纵好本身心态，不吵不闹

 xuduonvxing，zaifajuezhangfuchuguideneishihou，duanshijianneijiufengkuangle，bingbushixiangbashiernaoda，diujinlaogongdeyanmian，jiushishuoyikuernaosandiaosi，xiangranglaogonghehaoruchu。wojuedeneiyangzuoguodenvxing，tongchangzuizhongdouhouhuimojile，youyuyuwangqueshiwujiyushi，zongshirangshieryuelaiyuehenzao。

 laogongyouwaiyuzenmeban?zhangfuchugui，queshishiqiancuowancuowufakuanrong，keshixuduoneishihou，zhangfuchugui，bingbuyiweizhetayibuaizheni，yibuzaiyizheiyijiazhong，jiarucaiquyouxiaoqiadang，shierhuanshinenggouliuanhuamingde。danshiruguonijiangshiernaoda，neimatayuanyipeini，yechengbuzhushehuiyulundegongzuoyali。

 laogongyouwaiyuzenmechuli?changyandao，jiachoubukewaiyang，zishenjiazhongdeshier，huanshiandilichulihao。tebieshizaishiquqishengzidejiazhong，waiyuzheiyangdeshiqingjiarudasixuanyang，henjianghuihuiweihaidaoxiaohaiyibeizi，jixiaohaidejianglailiuyouhuizhibuqudexintaichuangshang。yikuernaosandiaosijiugengbieshuole，naorendiaosidejieguo，tongchangshishanglezishen，hailinglingyifangnaoxin，naizhijianghuizaochengyixiangbudaodecanan。

 jilaoyidianer，yishizhuxingyuanbenjiuduojiannankunku，keshiyaoshinengjingxialai，renshijianjiumeiyoutongguobuledekaner。huoxu，zaizaoshouzhangfuchuguizheiyangdeshiqingdeneishihou，yuanyijingxialaihaowuyiwenmeibanfa，zaizheileineishihou，hebuxianzhaodianyouxiaodefaxiefangfa，shiduxuanxiezishendexintai，jinkenengqinfenderangzishenpingjingxialai。

其次：回望往日，理性的剖析

 renshijianmeiyoumomingqimiaodeaihenzhijian，waiyuyizhiyouyuangude，zhaodaozhangfuchuguideyuangu，nenggougengqiangdejuecejianglaizaban。zaipouxideneishihou，buyaorangxintaishangxialezishendelixing，shuangyankandaode，buyidingjiushishuokeguanshishi，yejinkenengbiebaquanbubuzhengquedouwangnanrendetoudingtui。

 nenggouneimashuo，dangnizhuyaobiaoxiandechongzuhao，neimayaoshilingyifangbingbushineileimanmandehuaxinnan，jichudouburongyishebenyibianyizhenzireqingquhuihuaizheifendezhibuyidexingfukuaile。

 jirannikeyihelingyifangconglianaizouruhunyinshengdian，neimalingyifangdaduoshuburongyishineileizhenshidehuaxinnan，yincizaizaoshouwaiyudeneishihou，niyehenbixucongbenshenqupouxinanti。zhaodaolingyifangwaiyudegenbenyuanyinsuoshu，nenggougaoqingchuzheizhongnantiyeyoumeiyouchulidejianghui，jianglaikefouzaici。

 tongchangqingkuangxia，chuguinanrenquanshiyououyude，doushiyouzhengzhaode，xixinhuiwangwangri，tongchangkeyibangnixunzhaolingyifangwaiyudezhijieyuanyin。laogongyouwaiyuzenmeban?bingqiehuiwangwangri，yekeyibangnimingquedajiadeqingganebianshuiping，zhenduijuecejianglaidemaixiang，yongyoutingdadexiezhu。

接着：谨慎思索，做出挑选

 hunyinzaoshouwaiyu，yuanyizaizaiciyiwangdeningjingyishizhuxingzaoyimeibanfa，keshizaoshouwaiyuyebuyidingjiuwubiliyi。hunyinbuxiangdangyuganqing，yibushiliangrendeshier，zhishishiguan1genaizhihaoduogejiazhong。

 liyijishenpangderenchanshengdesunhai，tongchangyuanchaonidexiangxiang。bicidebabamamawuxuzaiduo，zinvbuxingfukuaile，babamamajiumeibanfagaoxing，zaoshouzijizinvliyi，babamama1gebutaihao，houbanbeizidoumeibanfakaixinqilai。

 jiarudajiayongyouxiaohai，nijiudegengweishensishulv，wulunchengnianrensheidecuo，xiaohaiquanshikeliande。jiaruyouyuxinliqinaonanping，jiuyishirexueliyi，jiuzaisuonanmianderangxiaohaizaoshouliyijiating，xiangyoubushangyiqiezhengchangxiaohaisuoyouzhedexiangxifuqindeaihuoshimuqindeai。huoxuwaizaiyaosuzhongguishiwaizaiyaosu，bulunshibabamamahuanshixiaohai，doujinjinniyizhizaixiajueceyiqianbixujinshensisuodeyuangu。

 zhenshiyaoguoshenghuo，shinizishen，zaoshouchuguidehunyinshibushizuigaizaici，kefouhaizaici，neiquanshinizishenbixujueceheerweiqinfendeshier。qicisuoshuodehuiwangwangri，jiunengfeichanghaobangnichulizheizhongyilv。nanrenwangridezhuyaobiaoxian，jinideaijiqiduizheiyijiadegulianshuiping，zaitingdashuipingshangjuecelejianglaishibushizuigaizaici，kefouhaizaici。

 dangniganjuelaogongwangrisuanshifeichanghao，waiyujinjinyizhenzizhicuo，jianglaihainengzaici，neimajinkenengtiaoxuanqukuanrongchuguilaogong，caiyongmouxieduicequtigaoziji，zhidoudisanzhe，zuihouwanliuzishendehunyin，baochijiazhongdexiangxi。dangnixixinsisuo，ganjuedajiadehunyinzaoyiyoumingwushi，zhikaoyizhanghunshuweichi，nilaogongzhenduidajiaxianghudejiazhong，yeyibuyounaxiechuiqingzhiqing，neimajiudegengweijinshensisuole。

 dangniduizishenjiaoweiyouzixinxin，duitayeyeyoubixuzixinxin，neimahebuqinfenshizhewanliuchuguilaogongdexin。dangniganjuezaoyiquanwujianglaikexun，neimafangkaishouyebuyidingbingbushi1getiaoxuan。

 zhangfuchuguigaizenmeban?wojuedeshuochuanlejiushishuoyiduanhua：duojianjianglaikaolvdao，keyizaici，jiujinkenengqinfenqufenlidisanzhe，zhengjiuhunyinbaochijiazhongxiangxi;jiarulingyifangzaoyisixintadisibuhuigai，jianglaimeishenmejianghui，neimajiulijifangkaishou，yifangpengshanghenshen。