老公出轨了怎么办?如何挽留他的心

 laogongchuguile zenmeban?chuguinanren，jichulilunshangeryanshibunengkuanrongde，tiji‘waiyuwanliu’ziyan，henduorendouhuihaobuzaiyi。keshishishishangyishizhuxingyizhinanrukehuyaoqiu，meiduanhunyinbudanbaohanleganqing，yeyoujiazhong、babamama、xiaohaijiqigecengmiandequanyienyuan，jishizaoshouchuguinanren，tongchangyebingbushiyishirexueliyijiunengleduande。

 zhangfuyouwaiyuzenmeban?suirandangjinshehuichangdaodeshirenrenpingdeng，keshihaowuyiwendeshi，nvshizaihunyinzhonghuanshichuzai1gexiangduixinglieshihepugongdeyingxiangli，liyiduinvshidaozhidesunhai，tongchangbinanshigengda。laidaozhonglaonian，yongyouxiaohaidehunyinzaizheixingfanyingdegengjiaxianzhu。

 yinci，zuoweiyiweinvshi，zaizaoshouwaiyuzheiyangdeshiqingdeneishihou，yebubiguoduyuwang，gengbukeyizhianzhaojichulilunquzou。bulunshicongjiazhongcengmiankaolvdao，huanshicongbenshencengmianeryan，liyibuyidingjiushishuozuiheshi，nengwanliunanrenxinhuanshijinkenengyaowanliu。duiyuchuguinanrenhou，gairuhewanliunanrenxin，dagainenggoucongxialie2gecengmianzheshou：

最先，更改并全面提升自身，提高本身的诱惑力。

 laogongchuguilezenmeban?yexuxuduorenjiandaozheihua，huichayidewen:"benlaiwaiyudeshinanxing，xubuxuyaowogenggai?"。wojuededadaolifeichangjiandan，nanxingzenmehuiwaiyu?tongchangzhineng1gecankaodaan，shinibuzuxiyinzhutale。

 zheierchangshuodebuzuxiyinzhu，jianghuishimouyicengmianyejianghuishigegefangmiandenanti。liruniliangbinbanbai，niduihunyinbuzufangzaixinshang，nijiangaidezhongxindianqianyilaidaoxiaohaishoushang，huoshichunsuijiushiniwufadailaitaneileishenmiganhecijixinggan，yihuoshijiaowangdezhangshijian，chuxianlekuzaohekesuxing。shijishinacengmiandeyuangu，neidenizishenqulianxishijilixingpouxi，keshiquanmiantishengzishenyizhifeichanghaodetiaoxuan。

 zhangfuyouwaiyuzenmeban?xianjiangxiashenxingrongyancengmiandenanti，rongyanshibabamamasuoci，bingbushishuogenggaijiunenggenggaide，keshininengchuanzhedabandegengweidedang，haikeyishidutiaoxuanxieduicebaochizishendeshenxingherongyan。

 xuduodenvxing，zaihunqianchuanzhedabanshishangchaoliu，kanqilaiqingchunnianshaoxingganmirenliangli，erwanhunyihou，queyouyuyishizhuxingsuosuisuofan，bujingyijianhushilezheixingdenanti。yixienvxingbenlaishenxingrongyanyebucha，queyouyuhushileweihubaoyanghechuanzhedaban，nongdedanshisanshichutou，jiufeitoudaerhuoshixingrongkugao，kanshangquzhenshishiwushikaiwaidemoyang。nenggouxiangxiang，1gehuolixingruidadenanrenmeiriyingduineiyangyigenvhai，huishinaxiedetihui。

 huoxu，shenxingrongyanjinjinwaizaiyaosu，benzhidecengmiandoushijuebuhushide。benshendesuzhiheqichang，jiqiduihunyinsuozuochudewusifengxian，quanshixiyinzhunanrendezhongyao。

 yixienvshihunhoujiuzhaizaijiazhong，yitiandaowanxiedaihaizimangzhejiawuhuo，youshijianbingbushidamajiangjiangwanpaijiushishuokandianshijuhuoshidayouxi，jingjifazhanshangchediyikaolaogong，nianlingjianzhang，xingqingqueshizhongruyi，chukaipugongdenghou，jiushishuomaiyuanyuanyan。zhuyishixiangnanrendexixinshibuzude，neiyangxialai，jishixixinzaiduodenanren，yexuyehuixinshengyanfan，waiyuyewusuoweilexiqidedongxile。

 yincizuoweiyiweinvshi，jishiduomang，chouxieshijianqufengfuduocaizishendezhuanyezhishi，tigaozijideshejiaomeiti，xuemouxiexiyinzhunanrendejiqiao，huanshihenbixude。genggaitigaonizishen，wuxingzhongyezhanshichuniyizhizaihunyindangzhongguanjianyingxiangli，dangnanrenjuechadaoniyeshitayishizhuxinghegongzuojuebuhushidehaoqizideneishihou，tayaoshibingbushineileihunzhangguoduwukejiuyaodehundan，doushilixingdequhuizishennatiaotui。

次之，掌握第三者，主动进攻。

 guyuyouyun，zhibizhiji，baizhanbaisheng，disanzhehaowuyiwenjiushiniqingchangshangdeyishengchoudi，yuanyizhanshenglingyifang，jiudexianzhangwolingyifang。duofangweidezhangwolingyifang，zaihuiguotouxiangzhezishen，jiaoweidajiazhongjiandeyoudianhequedian，yongnibenshenjuyouyoudian，jingonglingyifangdequedian，tongchangnengjiedaoshenxiao。

 tongchangqingkuangxia，disanzhetongchangnianqingpiaolianghuoshiyongyounisuoquefadezhenshishenfenyingxiangli，yihuoshibinigengmingbaishanjierenyi，genghuigouyinnanren。

 qingchunnianshaorongyanhezhenshishenfenyingxianglizheileiyoudian，tongchangjiushinimeifafanmianjibaide，nizhiyoucongcebianquzheshou，lirutanianqing，tameimao，neimajiuhetabiwenroubitiexin;tayouquanyoushi，jiuhetabirongyan，biyinyoubenshennanrendejiqiao;tashanjierenyi，ninenghetabirongyan，bigongzuoshangduinanrendexiezhuzheixie。

 huanjuhuashuoyiduanhua，bushangnenggou，chengxianzishendeyoudian，conglingyifangshoushangzhaodaodebugou，qinfentigaozishen。ranglingyifanglejieniyeshitameifatidaibunengjibaide，neimashiluodetajichudoushianranlichang。

 huoxu，youshihouyehuipengdaoneileijiaoweizhizhede，neishiyuetajianjianmian，lixingdehetalaichangwendou，rangtagaoqingchutayunilaogongzhongjianshibutaikenengde，doushihenbixude。danshi，bixuyaojilaolixingzheiliangzi，qiewuqiemoyuwang，bubibazheileipengmianbianweizheichangfengbo，ruguoshiernaoda，nilaogongwuloutinengxia，neimajiuqueshiwufamibule。

 zuizhongshuojiju，wanliunanrenwaiyudexin，yeyaoyou geqiantitiaojian，jiushishuoneirenzuigaixiangquwanliu，jiaruneigerenshuodaodikoushixinfei，yingyongmouxiefangshijiangnipiannadao，wanhunyihoujiutianxingpulu，benzhibukejiuyao，neimaneiyangdenanren，zhenxinshiyimeibixuzaiquwanliu，zaolizaohao。