对象脚踏两只船了，我该怎么办？

shenmejiaojiaotaliangzhichuan？lingyibanjiaotaliangzhichuanlegaizenmeban？dangqiduijiaotaliangzhichuandefenxihuoxunenggoubangshangnie。

一、脚踏两只船

1、释意

 shenmejiaojiaotaliangzhichuan？xingrongduishiqingdepianmianxingeryouyouyuyuxiangfa，huoyibianzuankongziergenbuyiyangde2gecengmiandouweichiguanlian。

2、词组

2.1、duizheixieguandianbujiandingbuyi，jiaotaliangzhichuanderen，yaoweichigaokuanbidejingxing。

2.2、jiujinggensheihao,nidexintaiyaoqueli,bubijiaotaliangzhichuan。

2.3、ganqingdaoshangjiaotaliangzhichuan，weikongdaozuizhongshizhulandashui---yichangmeng。

二、脚踏两只船的人心态分析

 1、jiaruchuguizhejiaotaliangzhichuandeyuangushizainizheiermeiyouanquangan，yincipobudeyibingchijiaotusankubiaozhun，yibianhuranzhixu。sikaoyixiaxia：niduita（ta）shifouzugouhao？dangnizuodechongzuhao，lingyifangbutaikenengyemeibixuquchugui，wenchongbudingwufengpinjiedeshengjidan。

 2、“renmenbuyi”tongchangshigetuiweihuoshitichufenshoudetuoci，bubixinyiweizhen。tuiweideneishihou，yanwaizhiyitongchangshi“jutizhixingbukeyi”，“bukaolvdaoyiguolianshidaodedixian”，“babamamagongzuoyaliguoda”zheixie，huanjuhuashuonizishenqutuiliba。duiyufenshoushi，yanwaizhiyinenggouwei“wozaoyixunzhaoxinshijiele”，“nizishenyouguoshi”deng，geweinenggouchongfenfahuicongmingzhihuiqutuiduan。lingyige，meishenmezhenshishijiyiyishangdebuyi，gengmeiyoulijingguoduanshijianjiunenggoujiancechushibushi“heshi”，wojuedeshuobailede“heshi”jiuzainiyinianzhicha，ganqingdanle，daziranjiu“buyi”le——yaoshiyouqinggan，liudehuahefengjiedouheshi。

 3、bierenchuanyang“zijiyehuodetingbucuo”deneishihou，bubijianxinta（ta）zheihuadeyuanyi。fenchaiyouer：zheibanrenshibucenglianqing，neimata（ta）shiqidaiaiqingdelailin，erziwoanweizhi——zhenshiduiganqingdandingcongrongderenbenzhimeiquchuanyang，youyumeizheidingyi；jiaruta（ta）youguoganqingqinshenjingli，neimanenggoulejieweizheizhongxiangyuanlaiqinglvdeyouxing——“meiniyuzhouxiangtongzhuan！”

 4、fenshouzhihoushuobaile“zuopenyou”，qishizhishijianglingyifangzuoweichubeijin，fangzhiwanquansipolianpierwuhehaozhijianghui，zhihoutangruohexinrenqinglvchuxianyiwai，haiyoujiangjiujizhifangshi。renmenchangdayingmachishaohuitoucao，keshiwomendoushiren，bingbushima。shuobaileall or nothingbiaozhunhe“fushuinanshou”，wojuededanshishirenmenfangbuxiaqingmianeryi。youyurenmenzaisisuolianqingluojixingdeneishihou，tongchangfanlegulongxiaoshuodashenpkdeguojiguanli：sheixiandong，sheijiushu。

 5、duiganqingbuzhongshi。zaixunzhaoxinrenqinglvdeneishihoutongchangzijuedeshi“woshitabixuzhaodelingyigeyidaban”。wojuedeneiyangde“duifang”takeyixunzhaohenduo，yincixinxinranjuedezishenwaiyuleshizishenzhaodao“zhenshideduifang”。

三、另一半脚踏两只船了该怎么办

 lingyibanjiaotaliangzhichuanlegaizenmeban？dayuejiushishuofenlichulai。jiarushuobielifenhenduozhongduoyang，zheileishilingrenmeifaxuanzede。

 xuehaoweihuyixiaxiazishenba，liruyibuneimazaihulingyifangle，xinlijiangtadebuweijiangyijiang。neiyangnenggourangzishenhuancunyixiaxia。shizhegejiribulianluota，kanyixiatadefanying，jiarushuoqueshibudaoyueni，neibiaomingdajiayemeixi，shuodaodinilifadiantiaoziyitoure。

 xuduorenyizhinashanjierenyieryanshi，zheibingbushishanjierenyibushanjierenyidenanti，tashirenpinwenti，penyounenggouyouxuduo，qinglvzhiyouyouge。

 dangnipengdaozheiyangdeshiqingdeneishihou，quanshilingrenmeibanfajiejuede，wulunshinayangdechuliguochengdoushiwomenyiqiganjuehendiaonan，fangsong，jilingyifang1gejiyu，doushiweiziji1gejiyu。fangkaixintaizhuangtai，douhuiyouchulidefangfa。