老公婚外恋是什么原因？我该怎么办

 zhangfuhunwailian zenmeban?nanshengshishijuedegongjinenglixiaodongwu，duiqiancai、quanli、xingdeguandianjichucongbennengfanyinglaikan，jinyoudechabieyejinjin1gejiyuheyongqidenanti。zhangfuhunwailianzenmeban?shinanjiuhua，meiyoucuo。danshilanqingbuyidingdaibiaofuzhushijian，bafengliuyunshidangfanchiderenzhongjiushao

 nanshengshishijuedegongjinenglixiaodongwu，duiqiancai、quanli、xingdeguandianjichucongbennengfanyinglaikan，jinyoudechabieyejinjin1gejiyuheyongqidenanti。

 shinanjiuhua，meiyoucuo。danshilanqingbuyidingdaibiaofuzhushijian，bafengliuyunshidangfanchiderenzhongjiujishaoshu。kexianrujinzheiyishiqizainanshengdeguannianzuishenchu，ganqingbingbushisuoyou，xingdexiangxiangquewukebimian。

 zenmefangdisanzhe?zaitongchangzhuangkuangxia，1gechengshunanrenburongyisuibiantanxian，danzaiwaijieheneibubiaozhundoupizhundezhuangkuangxia，daziranjiuhongselimingle。

1、情感失去考虑是首因。

 renweinanshengtoushiquanshiyibianxing，zheiyijiaofagaidazhule，zhineng8%denanshengshuoyuqiubumanshitamenwaiyudeguanjianyuangu，er48%nanshengjuedeqingganshangshiqukaolv，shitamenwaiyudezhuyaoyuangu。

 “renmendewenhuayishuyizhijuede，nanrenyongxiashenshuohua。”niumanshuo：“danwojuedenanshengdoushizheizhongganqingdongwu，tamenqidaizishenhuodelaopodechengzan，yeyuanyimeinvmengaoqingchutamenyibiangaohaorenheernulideqinfen。”

 zenmefangdisanzhe?nantiqujueyu，nanrenaixiangnvxing，tamenfeichangshaojiangchuzheizhongtihui，yinciruguonidelaogongbixuhuodeyidianerhaowuyiwendeneishihou，nihuoxubuyidingnengfajue。

 “henduonanshengganjueguidingtarendekuanweibuliyunanzihanqigai，yinertamendeganqingbixujingchangbeihushi，”niumanshuo：“keshininengpeiyangzheizhongzaihunyinshenghuozhonghu2、juedabufenchuguinanrenshichangyouxiuchigan。

2、绝大部分出轨男人时常有羞耻感。

 diaoyanshuoming，66%dechuguinanrenshihouyouxiuchigan。zheiyiyijuyixiekepa：bingbushizhinengwuchidehundancaihuitoushi。zhangfuchuguiwogaizenmeban?niumanqiangdiao，shishishang68%chuguinanrencongmeixiangqiguozishenhuichuguixingwei，erqietamenjibenshangdouqidaizishenmeiyoutoushi。danxianeryijian，xiuchiganwufarangnanrenzhongzhiwaiyu。

 “nanshenghenshanyubaqingganxitongfenqu，”niumanbiaoshudao：“tamennenggoukefuzheizhongxintai(ruxiuchigan)，shaohouzaijiejueta。”yinci，jiusuannidelaogonglishitajiangyongyuanzhongcheng，yebiejixiwangyuneihuishixian。yuanyihuodelixianghuazhongdehunyinshenghuo，wubinilianggongtongfendou，qishishifenguanjian。

3、有过外遇亲身经历的的朋友会助力。

 chuguinanrenzhong，77%youzhe1geyiyangyouhunhouchuguidedepengyou。yuzheixiehuitoushidepenyouhunyiqi，huishinanshengganjuezheileichuguixingweishizheijianyiqiezhengchang、mingzhengyanshundeshi。tadezaiqianyishizhonggaozhizishen：wodehaopengyoushigehaoren，jinjinqiaqiaopanbianletaxifu，dayuezaihaolaogongyemianbulewaiyu。

 nimeibanfayanjinnidelaogongyu“chanmaolaoxiansheng”wanglai，niumanshuo，danninengtiyitamenqumouxieyinyoupianshaodediquxiaoqianshijian，liruquduanlianshenti、qucanyindianyongcanerbingbushiquyedianhuogeting。lingzheizhongduice：genzheixieyunijiazhiquxiangxiangfangdehexiejiatingjiaoyou，chuangjianshejiaoquanzi——zheijiangzaojiuchuzheizhongweihuhunyinshenghuodeziranhuanjing。

4、赏析男人的女人最非常容易变成其外遇的另一半。

 zhangfuchuguiwogaizenmeban?40%chuguinanrenshigongzuozhongjiejiaoyigenvren。“yiban，tatoushidelingyibanshigongsibangongshilishangxita、zunzhongta、duitadeqinfenzantanbuyidenvxing。”niumanshuo。

 “zheijiushishuo‘jialiyaotahuijuedeyoushiyongjiazhi’delingwaiguanjianyuangu。”haoyundeshi，ruguonidelaogonggongzuozhongjuedetaiguoyouxianshi，huiyouxianzhudejingshishujuxinhao：jiarutaguoduodechengzanhuotanji1genvyouguimi，yuanchaoguotatijidenantongshi，neimaxianzaikaishizhutihuodongxianibijiaomingandechuxu——hetadingyiqingxipengyouzhongjianxiangchudexiandule。

 jiaruzhinengtaheta，neimaxianghugongzuozhongdaotaiwanshibushinenggoujiena?tamennenggouyouyuhuibaogongzuobianduliyiqiqulvyouma?yibiantantao1gexinxiangmuergonggongjinwucan?wenyiwenta，jiaruniyu1genantongshizuozheizhongshi，tajuedezenyang。

5、出轨男人的另一半并不是比自身的媳妇好。

 chuguinanrenzhong，zhineng12%derenjuedepintouderentibizishenlaopodejuyouyouhuoli。huanjuhuashuo，nanrenbingbutaiaiyibiancong1gegengmeilidenvrenneilihuodegengqiangdexingshenghuoerwaiyu。

 “dabufenzhuangkuangxia，tatoushishiyibianmibuganqingshangdekumen。”niumanshuo：“taduiyigenvrenzaochengjuede，xingshenghuojiezhongerlai。”dangnidanyoutachuguixingwei，neimeniyingdangjizhongzhuyilishidajiadeguanliangengweitianmeiqinmijiechu，erbingbushizhizaihuxianghurentishangshibushikaolv、fuqishenghuoshifouzugouxinxian。

 (danniyixugaoqingchufuqishenghuodebiyaoxing——zheijiushinidelaogongbiaoshutaduiniqinmiwujianheaideyouxiaotujing，yinci，qingmingquezheishizairichangshenghuozhongyoubixudeyouxianquan。)

6、出轨男人前总有某些真相。

 chuguinanrenzhong，zhineng6%derendaolejieyigenvrendedangrihuoneitianwanshangyouliyuqichanshengleguanlian。shijishang，73%denanshengzailejieyigenvrenchaochuyiyueyihou，caichanshengwaiyu。zheidaibiao，ninengzaitapanbianniyiqianjiandaozheixiejingshixinxineirong——ninaizhinengzaitawaiyuyiqianjiuxiangdaozheishi。

 liuyizheizhongpubiandeshujuxinhao：tabujialideshijianhenduo、tayibuwoyiweiqiuhuan、tagongchugengjingchang、tahuiguadiaonindedianhua。nizuilijidefanyinghuoxushizhiyita，dandabufennanshengdoushifouding，naizhixuanchengtaxiangdouwusuoweileguoyaotoushi——tebieshizaishizaitahetafashengguanxiyiqian。shubuzhi，niumandetiyishi，guanzhunikeyicaozongdewupin——nizishendegerenxingwei——lingzhedajiadehunyinshenghuomaixianggengqiangdechujing。

 chengzantashibiezaiyouyu、youxianxuanzekaolvdaodajiayiqideshijian、zaifuqishenghuozhonggengjijixie。jitamen1gejiangnifangdaoshouweideyuanyin。

 yichengxiangdaidetanbai，niyouguandajiahunyinshenghuodetihui(zaidutishi，buyaozaitidaolingyiren。)shizhetanbai：“guanyuwodeguanlian，worenweirenmendeyijingsangshimouxieguanjiandewupin，danwobuyuanyitamencongcixiaotui。”yiqi，jianchibuxiemiqiezhuyidajiadeguanlian，quzuozheixiekeyiweichihaozheixieguanliandeshier。