婚姻自测:你会拥有金婚吗？

 nikanlelianxuju《jinhun》erqiehenxiaitama?　niqipanxiang《jinhun》dezhurengongneibanyouzhelingrenmanyidejinhunma?niyaolejie2gexiangaiderenzenmecainengxieshoubingjiantaguo50nianfengchuiyudama?　tashi1gequweieryansurenzhendejiance——kanyixianinengfouxianglianxuju《jinhun》lidenanrennvrenzhurengongxiangtongxieshoubingjianlaidaojinhunneitian。hunyinjingyingfangfayounaxie? wodehunyinsheizuozhu ?

 《jinhun》wangwangwomenyiqigandong，youyutadezhurenwengqinshenjingliderenhejibenshangshirenmenmeigerendouyiyangdoushizaoshoude。 wushinianxieshoubingjian，budandaibiaoxianghuqinshenjinglishiqidefengchuiyuda，haidaibiaofenbieyaodanfubuyiyangdeyihuo、tongchu、renshouhejianchibuxie。

bazishengouxiangcheng《jinhun》denanrennvrenzhurengong，niliang(ta)dehunyinhuilaidaonatianni?

第一章：完婚时，人们不明白婚姻

 ruhemianduihunyinkongjuzheng?《jinhun》gushiqingjie： laopowenlishitianjinren，jialipaixinglaoer;tahaokankailang，chongbaieguoyanqingxiaoshuo，duiaiqingyuhunyintianmanlanmanyaowang，xiaoqingdiaobijiaoyanzhong，haijiaoguijiaozongyoujiepizhengburongyiguoshenghuo;laogongtongzhishichengdouren，jialipaixinglaoshao，dushengzi，taxinggewaixiangyoumofengquyiqifengfa，danshifenjutiquefaxiaoqingdiao;chuhunshi，tamencongxingqingdaoshenghuofangshirongbujin，youhenzaozuofumu，hunhoushenghuozhongcongchichuanzhuxingdaohaizijiaoyudaopoxizhijianzaidaoxingxingwei，shishichuchufenqi，changchangweisuoshidadefantianfudi，guizailianggerenhuailingyifang，zhengzhizhihouyizhihehaoruchujian。

 nijianghuipengdaodegushiqingjie： 1、nandaoshuozhihouwoyedesuizhita，meitianchizheileitianninilanhuhudeshanghaicaimianqiangguohuoma?taichaojibiantaile，tamenshanghaibendirenjingranyongtangzuocai! 2、zhangdetingshuaidenanren，jingranhunhoucaifajuetacanqiandabianchangchangbuxianshou，linshuiqianbushuanyabuxianjiao——shalewoba，zhenshoubule! 3、tacongdachengshidelingyicetongdianhuaduinishuo：qianjiadiulemeiyouqiandadehuibuqule，rangxiangqujieta——laotianyea，zheizaoyishita2019niandiwucidiuqianjiale!tajiubukeyizongneimecuxindayima?! 4、tajiaxiangdenongcunqinpenghaoyoulaila，zaiwaibianzhaogebinguanhuanshangbei，ketafeiyaobarenliudaojiazhongzhu，youguchouweixundewojiuyelimeishuihaojue，zhennongbudongjiaxiang1gebuyuanbujindeqinpenghaoyoujingranbiwodouguanjian! 5、kangepohanguodianshijujingranliubangeyelidelei，nanzhurenwengdebingwanglehewoyounaxieguanliana?buyaozairenweitahenyoushanxin，wofagaoshao40dushitarengranfengfengdiandiandiwanpaopaolong! 6、youhedelanzuirunidihoubanyecaihuijia——yuanxianxinshidandandishuohunhoujuebuhuiwobei1renrengjiazhong、juebuzaigenzheixiejiuyouyikuaierhun，heng，yuanxiandoushipianwode!

其次关：别理我，太累呢烦着呢

 ruhemianduihunyinkongjuzheng?《jinhun》gushiqingjie tongzhiyuwenlijindaohunyinpijuanqi，laogongtongzhimangliugongzuozhonghushilaopotihui，laopowenlirendaosishiduiyishizhuxingtianmanhaipahemaiyuan;tongzhikeqiufazhanqushidaosixiangongzuozhongguoduanshijian，fuqiliangdifenju，tongzhizaoshounianqingnvxingqingganyinyou，wenlichuwenzheishi，yingchuangchangdangzu，diaozhilaogong，fuqiganqinghehao;danzheishizhongxiahouyizheng，tongzhifazhanqiantuzaoshouweihai，yuyubudezhi;erhouzhongdejiazhongchengdanlingwenliyuelaiyuelingsuihexutao。fuqijianyulaiyuquefagoutongjiaoliu，tamenyibuxiangqingnianrenshiqineibanchangchangwanshua，quechangchangshenxiangengfengxiandelengbaolidangzhong;fuqiganqingconglengdandaolengbaolidaobaoda，hunyinhaoxiangxianrujuejing。

 nijianghuipengdaodegushiqingjie 1、yifanhuijiajiuyifushuangdadedounaidesiyanger，kezainvyouguimimenkoutaqueshuoshuoxiaoxiaomanmianchunfeng，bushiwogexiaodujichangdenvxing，dantameiyicigongchuyizhigennvyouguimiyikuaier!zheiyeguofenle! 2、tashifouzaogengle?wohuijialeliangtuobufangqizhengtanengliandaoxutaoliangzhongtou!qiyedewenmiannihewonianjileisi，ruhejiumeizheiwentia? 3、jingranbawoshengrigenwomamadeshengchenjijihunle!taneixinhaiyouwoma?nanguaiyouxierennanshenghunqianshiyizhengtaohunhoushilingyizhengtaoni! 4、dounaxienianjilehaiqianguazheguoqixijie?neijiushizanlaonianfuqigaiyingdejingma?bielaizheizhongxude，zhenshixiangaidefuqishishenmeshidounengxiangqiyiqi、baozhengyiqi! 5、hunqianyinweiwosuangezhuanyezhishinvshi，doushi1gelixiangyouzhuangzhidenvxing，rujinyidaduizaluanwuzhangdeshiqingfangfozhongjiuyemangbuwan，neiyangdeshiriheshishigezia? 6、youbeilingdaoganbupile。bubibingbushiyibianzheiyijia，wojiuburongyizaiqiyedisanxiasijiazheweibazuorenni，xiangdangchukongzidoushichaogaodezheitiaonanren，rujinwozhenshibianchengyinaozhong，wotemeshiweisheia!

第三关：我是你的小孩子他娘

 wodehunyinsheizuozhu?《jinhun》gushiqingjie： yiqianrangtongzhizaoshouyinyoudelitianjiaozaicifashengzaitongzhiyishizhuxingzhengzhongjian。rendaosishidetongzhi，zaishiyeyuganqingshuangxiangmishixiadonglezhenxin，laogongjingshenchugui;huozhizheishidewenlizaiaitongzhennuyihou，yuelaiyuechengshuqi，zuoweilaopohemama，taquanlizhichengdianjiazhongduguozheiyizhongtedaweiji，tabuchaobunaoweiquqiuquan，zhaoliaobingweidejiapo，wenhuajiaoyu4genianjibuyiyangdezinv;tongzhipanghuangzaiganqingyuyiwuzhongjian，zaitaxinlingshenchu，laopojiatinggongzuorengshishouwei，zairenshengdaoluzuizhongyaodexuanzedianshang，zaireqingdeyinyouxia，tongzhihuanshitiaoxuanlejiazhong，tiaoxuanlezhenqing。

 nijianghuipengdaodegushiqingjie： 1、doudabadabanianjile，jinqigenzhonglexieyiyangsantouliangbiannaonaxielaotongxuejuhui，tingshuoyouyudangchutadenage“tongzhuodeni”conghaiwaihuijiale，jianzhinanduxishuyuedabuzhengjing! 2、bujiugenqiyedexiaonvhaichulaichanglejihuilakaokma?duiyugenwoyaosiyaohuodinaoma?youmeiyoushenmefeifenzhixiang，aimeilizhiqingrenjieyouzhi，youleqiansheibuzhuiqiuwanmeixinkuangshenyia? 3、yishengqianhenshaozheng，danxuduolangfei，chaogupiaozhuangxiele，zheiyixiahaola，baquanbujiadangdoupeijinqu，xiabanshengtaofanhaoba! 4、tinglesheidihuishuodabaicaiyaojiageshangzhanga?tajuranyixiaziwangjiabanleliangbaiduojinbaicai!zhenshishifengdiao!baicaizhangqushilenengzhangnalia?chishaobaicaihuisishia?quanbuyixiaoshimin! 5、yanchouzhedabanbeiziguoqu，dangchuchuiniupishuoyaobijiaofadayaozheishiriwufayiguo，liba。xiaohaiyebianda，gensheibugensheiyebingbushinaxienantile，zheiniandaisheililesheihainengbuxianghuolebule? 6、bieyiweiwoyelianlianbushezheipojiaa?zaiqiyetinglingdaoganbude，jialitingxifude，xiaohaibiandayeyaotingxiaohaide，linlaohaideshouxiaohaideqi!

最后关：答应了你不可以走在我前边

 《jinhun》gushiqingjie laonianrenshi，tamenjindaohunyinjianguqi，xiangruyumo，bukeyifenlichulai，yishizhuxingduizheiduipuputongtongfufubingbushitaiai，jindaolaonianrenhou，bingzhengyashen，wenlihuanshangweizhongzhengzaishengsixianshangpanghuang;sangenverqingganhunyinyebuyuanman，erzuixihuandedushengzijuranbingshi，tamenqinshenjinglirenshengdaoluzuicanzhongdeyike：baifarensongheifaren。shixianghuguanhuaihuxiangfuchizhichengdiantamenduguorenshengdaoluzuiheiyinshiguang，jianxinxiangqian。zuihou，zaiguinvdecaochixia，liangrenshizhijinkouzourujinhundianli。

 nijianghuipengdaodegushiqingjie：1、hanludouyigebanyuelehaishuadan，renweizishenhuanshi20suidexiaohuoerni?xiaohaimeiyoujiazhongzhu，youyigetoutengnaoredebuhaidejiushiwofushi? 2、laobaner，niqianwanbiekonghewoya，danianqingzikongnenglijiucha，nitongyiguozhiyounisongwobukeyiwosongnide，nitongyiburongyisizaiwoqianbiande。

 wojuede，daozheiyinianji，daozheiyineishihou，dajiazhongjianbutaikenengyoudaduoshudegushiqingjiele。jiarushuonianqingshidajiazhongjianshiyoudejinjinxianghudeyikaohexianghudezhichengdian。jiarushuonianqingshizijijiushishuoziji，daocike，dajialiangsuanshiziji，niyeshineiyipie，ta(ta)shineiyina，meiyouleyidaban，shengyuneiyidabanjiunaxieyebingbushile。xiangzhezheiyishenggenzishenzuiqinjinqiderenshibabamamahuoshizinv——zheixiemaoxixueguanliyuzishenliuzhexiangtongxueyederen，erbitamengengqingengjindequeshizheiyihenduonianqiangenzishenhaihaobuxianggandeluren，shishijianjiangniheta(ta)bianweilejiaren，jiarushuozheiyishijieshangbixuenongyushuilingrenxinlaihedadongdezhenqing，neibixushixiangzhixiangxi。 niduita(ta)huoshita(ta)duini，zheishidouzhineng1geguiding：haohaodehuozhe，shenxinjiankangdi。

 hunyinjingyingfangfayounaxie?xumu：《jinhun》gushiqingjie。zaijinhundianlishang，guinvmenzhaodaotongzhizaihunqianxiegeiwenlidezerenshu，zaicisongdu，laonianrenhaoxiangfanhuilewangrishiguang：“yi、hunhoubukeyichongwenlidengyanzhu，bukeyidasangmen，jiaruzhengchao，wulunsheideduiyucuo，tongzhibixuzuixiandaoqian er、hewenlinantongzhilianqinghou，quebaoyibuaibiedenvtongzhi，yishengzhiaiwenlinantongzhi1ge;san、hewenlinantongzhihunhou，xiyifuzhufan，quanbujiazhongdeliqihuoleisileihuobixuqiangzhegan;si、hunhouquebaoshiyongwenlinantongzhidegongzuozhong，yutiansongwenlishangxiaban，tiantaianlejiewenlinantongzhixiabanle wu、hunhouyaoshiwenlixiaideshi，quebaodalizhichijinmipeihe，buyongshuowenlinantongzhitaoyandehua，buzuowenlinantongzhitaoyandeshi;liu、quebaohewenlinantongzhigongtongfendou，baitoudaolao，tecizhengming!”

 suihou，hunyinjingyingfangfayounaxie?guinvmenjijinhundelaonianrensongleyifuzhanglian：“bangeshijishizhijinkou，yangeryunvyouyanjiangcu，kuyexiangaileyexiangai，kekebanbanzhongwuhui wushiniangongtong，shiyejiazhongtiansuankula，kuyetianmeixiaoyetianmei，kankankekeyongxiangsui”。