情场失意遇到第三者情况咋办

 zhenduidisanzhe，henduorentingjianhouyizhibuxieyigu，keshichukaipokoudamadisanzheyiwai，nandaoaiyigerenyoucuomashijishangyeyingdangxiangyixiangfangfancuoshicaihao。qingchangshiyiyouguanyingduidisanzheneixieshi，nidouzhidaoma?

最先，要先秘而不宣，找寻策略

 yigejiazhongzhongchuxianledisanzhe，yidingshizuolaogongdeduizheiyijiazaoyiyanfanle，lingwaitaxiangyouyigeqingxufaxiededuihuakuang。zheigeshihoujiaruzuoweilaopodenigentayoukuyounao，zongshishitaduinigengweidichu，fandaohuijiakuaitadebianhuai，huigengweixianghuijia，yigerenjiaruxinlimeiyoujia，neimaniyejiuwufaliuzhutade。yinci ，dashehaiyaodaqicun，xiangyingduidisanzhe，niyejiudexianxianghaochulizheigewentidefangfa，suihouqinfenyicibadisanzhejibai。

次之，要安不忘危，把经济账梳理

 jiranjiazhongfashengleneiyangdeshier，zhangfudeqiandaichaoyuezijiyeguanbulaole。neimahebuzheigeshihouhaohaodisuanxiajiazhongdejingjizhang，bajingjifazhanshiquandoucaozongzaizishenshoushang。doushuojingjijuecezhudaoquan，yidannibawojingji，jibian jiazhongchanshengdabian，zuishaoyeyouqianbaochirichangshenghuo，rangzishenbuhuiguoduchuyubeidong。erqie，yaoxiangbanfajiangdizhangfuderenjunshouru，jinertishengzijidejiatingdiwei。fuqijianjiaowangjiule，shiyouyanjuandeqingkuangxia，qingchangshiyikeshigenjuqiandeyuanguhenduorenshibuyuanyisuibianliyide。jiaruzhangfuhaipaliyi，neimaniyejiuyoudaliangdeshijianlaiyingduidisanzhe，youyuhunwailiantongchangjinbuzhushijiandemolian。

再度，要查明第三者的实情再聊

 nixuyaoyingduidisanzhe，niyejiudelejiedisanzhedeshiqing。nixuyaoyingchaqingxidisanzhedexingming、dianhua、gongzuoqiye、xiangmaozhuangkuang，zhuzainaer。zheizhongdoumoqingchu，youliyunizhihoujiejuekunnan。niyaoyingduita，neimazuishaonidezhangwozheizhong。jiaruxianghetasidixiajiejuekunnan，neimayebazhaota。hebuduodaihaoduogerenlaitadediququ，hetatanzheigewenti，yaozenmeyangcaixiangyaochechudajiaderichangshenghuo。jiarudisanzhexintaifeichanghao，nidaowuxuyurenkoushi，jiarudisanzhexintaibutaihao，nizaiqubita。wulunruhe，xianyichengdairenyizhishangshangce。

最终，要学会放下偏见，接受丈夫的有缺憾

 yingduidisanzhe，nigaihenjiuhen，keshizhenduizhangfu，niyejiudeyoubaorongdexin。youyuniyingduidisanzheshiweilegenghaodiwanhuilaogongdexin，jiarunineixinbujieshouta，neimajiudengtongyujiangzhangfutuijiledisanzhe。ruguonihezhangfumeifazaigoutongjiaoliushi，neimanidewanliujiumeiyouyiyi。yinci ，yaoxuehuifangxiapianjianjieshouzhangfudeyouquehan，naizhinenggouchangshihuanyigeshenghuohuanjing，huanyizhongshenghuoxiguan，bangzhangfuyiqiwangdiaoguoquneiyiduanyouguandisanzhedejiyili。zhenduinanshengeryan，zhaoyigedisanzhebuyidingbianshixindouchedilikaile，zhibuguoshihaoqixineryi。jingliguojianxin，tacaihuiduiqingganyouyigegengkegumingxindelejie。zhongyao，nixuyaoxiangbanfabadajiadesixuqianyidaoyunyinghexiejiatingshangqu。

 disanzhe，canhailechengqianshangwandejiazhong。keshiyegengshidisanzhe，rangchengqianshangwandezhengshigangkaishiqiangjingzishen，nandaoaiyigerenyoucuomabagetijingjideshunfengshunshui。yinci ，yaoshizuolaopodeyougongzuonengli，youfangfachulizheigewenti，yiqiedisanzhedingduojinjinzhilaohu。