到底说情场失意遇到第三者咋办

zhangfuchuguihou，duiyubuyiyangdedisanzhehuichuxianfenbiebuyiyangdeyingduifangshi。qingchangshiyikeyongdezuofanikeyixunzhaoxuduo ，dantigaozijicaishiyingdaoli。zuicongmingdezuofabianshirangzishenbianhao，ruguonixinlichongzuqiangjing，nandaoaiyigerenyoucuomaneimajiusuanpengdaohendadenantiyekeyiqingqingsongsongjiejue。

一、理智地评定状况

 yingduizhangfuyoudisanzhezheileizhuangkuang，xianbiezheji，pingjingxialaipouxiyixiazhuangkuangzailiao。jinkenengbaozhengkeguanxingduidai，zheishiyanzhongma?zhangfuqueshiaidisanzhema?taqueshixiangnaoliyima?tamenfeichangzhidezishenliuleima?……jiaruzheizhongnidounengchengxinyingduizishendexin，neimagaizuochunazhongtiaoxuandangranxianeryijian。

nixuyaoweichizishendezixinxin。jiaruzhuangkuanghaibingbushineimacaogao，zhangfuyebingbuyuanbashiernaoda，haimeiyoudaoliyidechengdu，nikeyiqianwanbuyaohuoshangjiayou，qupengchuzhangfude“gaoyadianxian。”bazhangfugaokua，duinijinjinyoubaihaiwuyili，dihuitarenyeshizisunsanqian。deraorenchuqieraoren，xiangrangzhangfuhuishounijiuxuyaomingbaishidudebaorong。qingchangshiyinixuyaoxinxinbaibei，rangshierwanghaodefangweifazhanqushi，erbushijiangjianyideshierfuza。

二、不必纠缠不清在这里事上

zhangfuyoudisanzhe，bubiquzhuizongta、gaodiaoyan、zhaozhijiezhengju、zhiyitazheixie，zheizhongyantanjuzhijiuxiangdangyuzhemo，zongshirangzhangfugengweidichuni，jiakuaitagennipoliedequanguocheng。jiaruniyaoxiangwanhuiganqing，neimejiububizuochuzheibanyumeidexingwei，yiyanhaiyanbianshizuibumingzhidezuofa。

bubijiuchanbuqingzaizhangfuyoudisanzhezheishishang。jiarudisanzheshishehuidaodeshuizhunhendideren，nigentamenshangtanjinjinzitaomeiqu，tamenzongshijiangdini。yebubisichuchuanyangzheijianshiqing，yifanghuihuaizishenzhangfudepinpaixingxiang。bubixuanyongyiqiejiandanzhijiedefangfa，neidounanyijiejuenanti。ninenggaozhizhangfu，zishenbixushijianheyixieshineikongjianqusisuo，linshiliqutamen，suihoujianjixingshi。

三、提高自己，心态幽然

yingduizhangfuyoudisanzhedezhuangkuang，xiangfangshefaquzuaiganyutamenquanshixiace。tarenrangnichudexiangfa，yebiemangmugenfengfangxiao。yiqieyaoyouzishenderenwei，nenggoutiaoxuandupixijing，dantigaozijicaishiyingdaoli。nixuyaohaohaoaiziji，rangzishenyuelaiyuegenghaokan，rangzishenmeirigengxinxin。nixintaiyouran，mengdebianshitamenle。

xinxincaihuihuosheng。jingxialai，bierangzishenjinghuangdeshouzuwucuo，bubiziluanzhenjiao。ruguoninengfenhaobuyitamensuodong，bubeizheishihehuai，yuelizhiniyejiuyueyounengliang。meiquyifuyutamenyiqieyigeren，yebupasheideliqu。nidexinxinchixutigao，neixinqiangdaderen，xiebushengzheng,disanzhebianhuiwangzifeibo，zhangfudangranyehuishoulianxingzishendegerenxingwei。

四、让自身过得更精彩纷呈

zhangfuyoudisanzhehou，nibuyaoyouyutamenerfangzongziji。niyagenjiuwuxuquwen，wuxuquguan，wuxuyintamenkunaotongchu，wuxufahuo，yewuxulicai……jiarunizuobudaozheizhong，biaomingnitaimingan，tamendebudaodepinzhinianguoleni，hezhuleni。niyouyutamenerfangzongziji。nibuchifan，buxiao，buxianghuo，neimeniyeyouzishenma?

nixuyaorangzishenguodegengjingcaifencheng。tamenyiqieyigeren，zhiyaonibuxiangyao，meirennengbianchengnideguanlizhongxin，nandaoaiyigerenyoucuomanicaisuanshizishendesuoyou。zishengaiganshenmejiuquganma，jiudangshashidoumeichanshengguoyiyang。niyejiuzhiyaoduizijihaodianhaola。ruguoniguodegengjingcaifenchengdeqingkuangxia，gaihouhuimojiderenyinggaishizhangfu，xiangfangshefayaowanhuihunyinderenyebidingshita。