两人感情遇到困难状态，男人变心应该怎么处理

 “jiazhonghongqijiaocheyilibudao，waibiancaiqipiaopiao”，nanshengdouqidaizishendeganqingshenghuofengfuduocaiduozhongduoyang，aiyigerenzhendeyoucuomachizhewanliqiaozheguozhongduinanshengeryanzaiyiqiezhengchangdanshi。juedabufennanshengdouwufachengshouchuguideyouhuo，keshitongchangzaichuguizhihouyouhuiduizishendelingyibanneijiu，erqiezailingyibanjianchiliquzishendeqingkuangxiayaoxiangwanliu，nanrenbianxinyouyunanshengjinguanrende，keshixinlingshenchuzuixihuandehuanshiyizhizhengdaguangmingpeizaizishenshenpangde“dalaopo”。nanshengyudaozheileizhuangkuang，yinggaizenmezuocaikeyiwanhuiganqingni?

一、寻找自身出轨的缘故。

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二、完全与第三者断决联络。

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三、真心实意的致歉。

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四、用行動告知另一方你绝对不会再次发生一样的不正确。

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