两人感情遇到困难状态，男人变心怎么处理

 nanshengyeshiren，jiranshirenjiuhuiyouqiqingliuyu。meiyigenvrendouqidaizishenshizhongshinanxingdenvshen，danshizhenshinengchengzuonvwangdeyoujiren?jiaruonidongruozishenbianshinvshen，weihebugengweiweiwu?zhibuguohenduorenxinganqingyuanzuoneigexiaoyang，aiyigerenzhendeyoucuomaqidaiwenroutitie，shizhongbeinanrenchongni，keshizhongjiuhaishidibuguoshiji。youyuqingchunyilao，nanrenbianxinnianhuayishi。erzhenshichudongneixindebianshinidecaihuahexiaosa。dangchuguinanrenyinggaizenmebanni?zheierjiujiaonisanzhao：

第一招：要镇定，要以守为攻

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第二招：不必惦记着靠另一方的爸爸妈妈来文化教育另一方

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第三招：要学好强大自己，有自身的欢乐

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