男人变心，那么女的要怎么开始行动的呢

 dangnanrenfangqiniyihou，bubiqineishiluo。meiyousheideganqingshizhongyifanfengshun，jiaruniyiyudaocuobaijiuweishouweijiao，neimaganqingshizhongyunimeiyuan，cuobaiyuanbenbianshikaoyanaiqingdeyidaodaomenkan。kanleshiduoshaonanrenhenvrendexiaogushi，aiqingshishenmeyangdezuimirendehuanshijingdezhujiannankunkumoliandeqinggan，zheicaisuanshizhenqinggan，nanrenbianxinjiurumeihuaxiangzikuhanlaiyiban。kujinganlai，yaoxiangwanhuinanrenxin，dajialaixuexiyixiewanliuchaobisha。

一、敢于尝试

 dangsangshitayihou，liangzhezhijianchenjinzaiqianxinwankuxiangnian、luoleihemaiyuanzhongnanyiziba，haibibushanghuashijianqufujianzishenderichangshenghuo，gaibianxianzhuang，nicaigengyoukenengwanliuta。yaoshizishendexinrengzai，mengrengzai，duitayeyouaidebulizhihedanliang，neimaxiaogushibingmeiyouwancheng，haimeiyoudaojieju，jiranyunshinenggougaibian，zishenjiububisuibiansheqi。

 nixuyaoganyuchangshi。bubirenweitadeliqu，bianshimorilailin。xuduo qingkuangxia，wanbibianshilingyizhonggangkaishi。dajiadeyiwanggaoyiduanluo，yedaibiaozhexianghudeguanlianxianggenggaocengcirencaidehuanjiefazhanqushi。jiarumeiqushizhe，nizenmezhidaolixiangbukeyiwanchengni?liruguoquniyizhixiaoquta，neimejiushizhezheconglingyigeshijiaoqushangxitaba，shizhezheduoyixiezanyang，shizhezheyongquanxinshengjidefangfagentalianluo，shizhezhebazijibianxiaoyidian、yuelaiyueqiangongxie……

二、为爱情保鲜

 dangliangrenzaiyiqijiaowanghenjiunile，yaobushixuxutaotaodemaiyuan，yaobubianshiduirichangshenghuodebushunxinshuapiqi，nanrenbianxintingdelingrenerduolimianqijian。meiriquanshiyixiexiaochendeyuyan，nanshengnandaoshuoburongyifanma?burongyiganjuenihenwuliaoma?pibeiwulian，zairuheainidenanren，dangxinxianqiyiwang，taduinideyiqiezaochengleshijuedeshenmeipilao，nideyouhuolidafujiangdi，congciyinbuqitayidianerdexingquaihao。xiangyixiangzishendechuxin，dangganqingbianweizheiyimoyang，jiushiniyaoxiangde?

 ganqingbixuxiqixinxiandekongqi。duoxiangyixiangdajiazhongjianyeyoukegenggaidekongjianma?dangran，zhenzhengdeaiqingnvrenyishengdegongzuo，niyejiufangfozaijibenjianshezheyichuangmotiandasha，buduankaizhanzhedazaochu。quanqiumeiridouhuizhuanbian，zhuanbianbianshiyonghengbubiandezhutifengge，xianghubixugenggaidediquzhenshitaiduo。ruguoniganjuetongchu、ganjuenanshou，neimejiubiaomingwubizuochugenggai。lirugaibianxianzhuangdeqingxu、genggaiyixiangjianghuadefangfa、genggaijiaowangdefangshi、genggaidajiazhongjiandexinlijuli……nidonglegaishanzishen，wanhuinanrenxinyejiuyongyouqidai。

三、使他觉得轻轻松松

 nanrenweishenmeyaofangqini?nidecunyoubukeyijirenchanshenghuanle。nibushitashenpangdeyigezhushou，naizhijinjintadeyizhongyali，neiyangwuxingzhizhongjitamenshengchanzhizaolegongzuoyali，danggongzuoyalichaochutanenggourenshoudechengdushijiuhenyoukenenghuitiaoxuansheqi。zheierjiufangfojinruleyitiaofengbishidesilu，tazainizheierzhaobuzhechurukou，jiuzhinengtuichuqulingmouchulu。

 wanhuinanrenxin，nixuyaorangnanshengjuedeqingqingsongsong。zaixingmingyanqian，yigerenzuixianyaoweihudehuanshizishen。xiangbixingmingdebaogui，niyizhizaitayanzhongshishenme，genghekuangshougoulenijideku，aizhenizheijianshiqing，shijishangyibuneimaguanjianle。renheshike，huanshiwanjiuzishenzuizhongyao。yinci ，bubitaikandizishendefengcai，niyizhizaitaxinzhongzhongyemeineimaguanjian。likainideziyiweishiqinghuai，niyejiuhuihuanleqilai，nanshengyehuijuedeqingqingsongsong。

四、纯粹的观念

 nanshengfangqini，bubiyiweidimaiyuannansheng，juedeshinanxingcuoguozishen，jihuganjuebiequdejinjinzishen。jinineiyangdeniantou，gennanshengbeidaoerchi。qingganyizhihuxiangde，taweiheyaocuoguonilei?haowuyiwenjiushiniyeyiyangshitaxinhanle。buyaoshuonibiequ，biequdebingbushiniyigeren，shijishangtaneixinnaizhiganjuebinigengbiequ。

 rangzishendeguannianyuelaiyuechuncuixieba。xiaochendewupinquanshibuzhengquede，jinidexinliyuelaiyuehenbujiankang，aiqingshishenmeyangderangtarenmeifaaizheni。huanweisikaoyixiayixia，duojianlingyifangkaolv，nideniantouyexujiuchedibuyiyang。niantoubuyiyang，jieguojiubuyiyang。niduowangyichuxiang，jinyouchuncuixingfudewupincaikeyixiyinren，shiercaihuiwanghaodefangweibianhua，neibannicaikeyiwanhuinanrenxin。