男人变心，那么女的要怎么开始行动

 zhenzhengdeaiqingxinyuxinzhongjiandezhuangji、goutongjiaoliu，zaijiaowangdequanguochengzhongliangxinhuiyuekaoyuejin，aiqingshishenmeyangdeyulaiyuqinmiwujian，danyeshiyouyuelaiyueyuandezhuangkuang。zaiganqinglinanshengfeichangrongyipijuan，nanrenbianxinmanmandiduinvxingbufangzaixinshang，gengyoushendetiaoxuansheqizheiyiduanqinggan。ganghaocikexuduo nvxinghuiyouyuwangbudiaozheiyiduanqingganeryaoxiangwanliunanrenxin，neimakeyishiwomenwanliuyigenanrenxindefangshidouyounaxieni?

1、学好了解

 youhenduodenanshengzongganjuenvxingmeifalejietamen，zongxiaiqianzhitamenderichangshenghuo，jiaowangquanguochengzhongyouyuzishenshineikongjianbeiduozou，nanshengcongfanzaobuandaoduizheiyifenqingganmeiyouyidianxingquaihao，bianshinvxingjideyalidade。bicizhijiandelijieshihenzhongyaode，nvrenyaoshidudejinanshengshineikongjian，pingchangduolejiegongzuozhongjinanshengdechanshengdegongzuoyali，yejitamenshijianhekongjiankaizhanyouxiyule。youjulaohuashuodehao，bawozhuyigenanrendeweibianshibawozhutadexin，pingshizaijialiduozuoyixienanrenaichidecai，yongrichangshenghuodeyanhuoqihetiexinladaotadexin。nanshengdouxiaisishuirouqingdenvxing，yinci diaojiehaozishendexinlizhuangtai，yirouzhigangwanhuiganqing。

2、找到自身

 xuduo denvxingtanlianaileyiduanshijian，huoshishitaruhunyinshenghuoyihoujiufeichangrongyihushizishen。nanrenbianxinbujizishenmaipiaoliangyifule，buzhenglizishenle，shijishangtashishifenkongbudeyijianshiqing。shiquzishendenvxingmeifaduinanshengzaochengyouhuoli，nanrenxinjiubuqingchupiaodaonalilaidao。renquanshixiaimeihaodeshiwude，biaomiandepiaoliang、sixiangjingjieduinanshengdouyongyou zhimingxingdeyouhuoli。bulunshiyijingfenshoulehuanshiyijingnaotichufenshou，nvhaieryidingyaoduosisuozishendaodishigeshenmeyangderen，zhiqianzuirangnanhaierxihuandeshinaxie，yaocongbuchenggongdeganqingzhongzouchuqufansiziji、zhaodaozishen。xushidaifayihouchuxianzaitadeyanqian，xiaoyanrusi，bubiyoukuyounao，nanshengshijishangdoutaoyannvrendeyanlei。zhanshichuzishenzuimirendeqingkuang，tadexincaihuihuijia。

3、分场景挽留

 nvrenhenanrenfenliwufei2geyuangu，diyibianxin，dierjuedetaileile。bianxindadeshiyichanggongjianzhan，yikaishiyaoyongyuqinguzong，jiazhuangmanbuzaihudexiguanxinghuanledechuxianzaitayanqian，neiyangfeichangrongyijifananshengdeshengfuyu，naizhihuigangkaishiguanxinnvhaiderichangshenghuo，suihounvhaizaigenjutiqianzhunbeizaofan、songxiaolipindezheileifangfazaidushengchanzhizaonuanwei，rangnanhaiziganzhiruoyibiankezaiduwanliutadexin。ruguoshidierzhongnanhaiziganjuehenlei，neimanvhaiyaoziwofansizaijiaowangdequanguochengzhongzishendeyuyanshibushishaohuo，meiyouzhaoliaodaonanshengdexingfudedingyi。duiyuzheileizhuangkuang，nvhaishijishangdikuaitou、rengecuo、biaogetai，nanhaiziyehuihenyourouguaduan，lingwaizaiangebingshitaxintong，zaijiaowangdequanguochengzhongyouqianjiulingyifang、zanyanglingyifang，neiyanglianggerendeguanliankeyijudadewanliu。

 zailianaiguanxizhongzuizhongyaodeshibaochiguanliandejunheng，jiaowangdequanguochengzhongnvxingjiaruguodudijian，aiqingshishenmeyangde    nanshenghuibuaixi，guoduqianghanyehuibananshenghezou，guanlianyidanshidiao，nanrenxinbianhuiyuelaiyueyuan。nvxingwanhuiganqingdefangshizuizhongyaodeyidianbianshibaguanlianjunhengzhaohuijia，dijiandezhaodaozishenrangnanshengyibudongyanguangle。qianghandeshouyishouzishendexingzi，chengxianwenhedeyimian。qingganshangzai，yaoshilveweirenzhenyixie、jijiyixie，wanliunanrenxinshibuhuitainande。