男人变心还有救吗？老公出轨了怎么办？

 nanrenbianxinhaiyoujiuma？laogongchuguilezenmeban？henduoqizizaiyudaolaogongchuguishi，douhennankongzhihaozijideqingxu，xiangyaowanhuilaogongbuzhidaoconghezuoqi，duifunanrenbianxindezhengqueyingduifangfashishenmeni？womenyiqilaikan。

一、保持理智

 zaoshouhunyinweijilaogongchugui，zheizhongdouwufarangzishennenggoujienade。keshibuguanjiniduofahuo、duobiequ、duotongchu，duizhangfuyouduoxinhan，nibixuweichilizhi。weichilizhiyouxiaodefangfajiushishuozantui，linshiliqujiaduantulvxingjiri。

 yanbujianweijing，zaimoshengrendediquhaohaodixiangzhedajiadegangkaishi、qinshenjingli、taruhunyinshenghuo、hunyinweiji，zaiyoumeideziranhuanjingzhongdiaozhengzishendexintai，rangzishendeqingxuyuelaiyuemeineimacaogao。

二、找出自身存在的问题

nishifouyouxiangguonilaogongweishenmehuichugui？zhendezhishitayigerendewentima？suhuashuodehao“yigebazhangshipaibuxiangde”。

 yaozhidaozhiyouyigenvrenbunengmanzunanrendexuqiushihou，tacaihuizaiwaimianzhaoqitanvrenlaimibusuoqueshide。renzhenxiangxiashifounimeiyoujiyutajiayinggaiyoudeganjue，shifoumeiyoujiyutananrenyingyoudezunyan，shifoumeiyouzhuyizijidedabanrangtaxiangshoumeideganjue。

 cangyingbudingwufengdejidan，zhengyinweiniqueshaozheixiecaihuirang“disanzhe”youjikechen。tongshiniyeyaoxuexi”disanzhe“shenshangdeyoudian，erbunengmangmudiquzenghenta，zhengyinweitayounimeiyoudecaikeyibanilaogongxiyinguoqu。

三、增加夫妻共同性增进感情

 zaihuifujiechudejieduan，xuduoxiaoqinglvxiwangnenggoutichuzijidelichang，bingxiwangduifangnenggouzhudonglaizhaozijifuhe，yibiaomingtamenyoujiazhi。tamenqiwangduifangcaiquzhudong，zuizhong，sheiyebuhuilishei。

此时，挽回老公需要放低自己的姿态，主动的去约对方，除非你已经下定决心彻底分开。如果你不想分手，就要诚恳并努力一下。不为别的，就仅仅是为了给自己以后不留遗憾。