老公出轨变心后，妻子怎么挽回婚姻生活？

 laogongchuguibianxinhou，qizizenmewanhuihunyinshenghuo？henduonvxingzaihunyinzhongyudaolaogongchugui，doubuzhidaogaizenmewanhuihunyin，xiangyaowanhuilaogongdexin，shouxianyaodiaozhenghaozijidexintai，ranhouyonggaojiazhifawanhuihunyin。

一、平衡自己的心态

 yidingyaomingbai，zheizhongshibushizhiyouniyudao，congwojiedaodezixunanlijilaixinzhong，leisideshiqingcengchubuqiong，yidianyebuxiqi。juebushiyinweinibugounianqingpiaoliang，yebushiyinweinizuodebugouhao，yinweiyoutaiduowubimeilicongmingwenroukeaidenvren，haishitongyangpengdaolezheiyangdeshiqing。

 qicishidangshiqingfashenghou，buyaoguoduoshouzhouweirenyingxiang，taizaiyibierendekanfa，guanjianshikanzijixuyaoshenme，zenyangzoufaduiziji“zuiyouhaochu”。aiqingbushiaijibierenkande，jiehunyebushijiejibierenkande。zaizheiyangdexintaixiazaikaizhanxindeshenghuoanpaicaiyoukenengrangnideshenghuozhongxinguangliangqilai。

二、了解自身

 hunyinshenghuolaidaoliyidechengdu，haowuyiwenbingbushi1geerguangnengpaixiangde，wulunshinanshihuanshinvshi，zheiyineishihouyuanyiwanliuzishendehunyinshenghuo，zuixianshiyaolejiezishende，xiangzheweihetarendejiazhongneimajizhi，erzishenyaoheduifanglaidaoliyidechengdu？

 bubibaquanbudeguoshidoudanfuzailingyifangshoushang，xunzhaoliangrendefenqigenbenyuanyin。xiangzhezishenzaijiazhongzhongyoushenmedifangzuodebugou，duoyongxintingpenyouduizijidepingjia，huoxushizishenzaoyibaquexianbianweilexiguanxing，bugenjutarendegaozhi，zishenzishizhizhongbuqingchuzishendebuzhengque。

三、拯救自己，才能拯救婚姻

 shouxianzhangfuyebuyinggaizibaoziqi，wusuowei，ershiyinggainulirangzijicongkengzhongtiaochulai。ruguokengtaishen，tiaobuchulaieryinggaiyouzijiudebiaoxian，jiashibierenyishijing，zijijiushunshichulaile。

 yinciyidingyaoyunxuqizishengqi，yunxutafapiqi、lengluoni，baofuni，yinweitaxiangrangniyeshengqiyetongku。yinggaitanranjieshouqizidebaofu。dangranzuoweiqizibaofudefangshibunengtaiguofenyaoyouyidingdedu，tongshiyeyinggaiwanxiayaolai，jieshouzhangfudebuchang，buru，fatazuojiawu、jieshoutadeliwuyulangmandeyaoqing。

要想挽回婚姻一定不要把感情复位的任务完全交由对方，自己摆出一副无所谓的姿态，等待对方来扭转时局，而是要低下头来，理清自己的头绪，安抚内心的伤痛，调整好心态，先让自己走出来，才能像以前一样去爱对方，也让对方爱自己。