结婚多年夫妻感情变淡老公出轨如何解决？

 jiehunduonianfuqiganqingbiandanlaogongchuguiruhejiejue？chuguidehunyinduiyuhenduonvxinglaishuo，douhennanyuanliang，yehennanwanhuihunyin，huazhenqingganzaibenwenfenxiang3geshiyongdelaogongchuguiwanhuifangfa。

1、操纵好自身的心态，让自身平静下来

 quedingzhangfuchuguihou，laopomendoushichuxiannaonu、wuru、cuozhe、jiaolvqingxu、biequdengfuxingqingxu。zaizheileiqingkuangzhongzuifeichangrongyishiqulixing，haoxiangwutoucangyingshangcuanxiatiao，lingrenshenxiangudi。

 shijishang，cikezuizhongyaodeshixianpingjingxialai，pouxiyixiazhangfuchuguideyuangu，tamenliangrendeguanxifazhanqushidaonagechengdule？niwanhuilaogongdexinyouduodadejilvdeng

2、欲擒故纵，以诚相待相对性

 danglianggerendouqidaizheiyiduanhunyinshenghuozaicizouxialaishi，qingpingxinjingqizuoxialaitanyitan。yituiweibeng，xuexipeixunkuanronghekuanrong，sisuo“shinaxiedeyuangudaozhishenaiderenpanbianzishen”，huoxuhuishizishendeyuangu。

 danzuoweilaopo，qidaibaochizheiyiduanhunyinshenghuo，shiyixiejiaoweizuigangadeshibubiguji，youyushierjiranzaoyifashengle，zaizhuizesheideguoshiyiwuyiyile。

 tangruomanhengwuli，zongshuonizhangfudebingbushi，zongshitishengtade“fanzuigan”，zheileifanzuiganzaimeifabianruoshi，tafeichangrongyiyou“yibuzuo，erbuxiu，zongzhidajiadounaokaiguo，yinweiwomeiyoushenmehaobaocunde”xintaizhuangtai，dajiadeguanxiyehuiyuelaiyuejiduan。fanguolai，kuanrong、kuanrongherenshouzenengshitayou“kuijiugan”，shenjuebaoqianni，haipazaisunhaini，jinerhuidaonishenbian。

3、给他们時间和空间，交给相互一个思索室内空间

 ruguonidexintaishiyaoshitahuijiajiuyuanliangshi，qingjinkenengjitamendianshijianhekongjian，jiaojixianghuyigesisuoshineikongjian。shitayishidaozijizuobudui，lingwaiyefansizijizaizheixiecengmianzuodebutaihao，caihuishitawaiyuqitanvxing，suihouqinfendequgenggai，neiyangcaikeyibimianzhihouzaichanshenggaileiexingshijian，bingshitahaohaodiduizheiyijia，haohaodideduini。

4、复建信赖感

婚姻生活本便是创建在信赖的基本之中的，因此再次创建你俩中间的信赖感是尤为重要的。要怎样做呢？这就需要在于大家分别的行動了。也有请完全忘掉另一方以前做了抱歉自身的事，那样才可以再次创建信赖感，走得更长远。