拯救婚姻：不经意发现老公出轨怎么办？

 zhengjiuhunyin：bujingyifaxianlaogongchuguizenmeban？zaihunyinshenghuozhongnvxingtianshengbijiaomingan，dangbujingyijianfaxianlaogongchuguigaizenmeyingdui，weilezhengjiuhunyinshenghuo，zenyangdezuofacaishiduideni？

一、尽可能理智，分辨趋势

 xiangyaonibaozhengkendingdelizhishibutaikenengde。youyuyigeyitiandaowanhezishenshuiyiqideren，jingranhetarenyongyouguanxi，haiyanzangdeneimashenneimejiu，xiangyixiangzheizhongganjuejiuexinxiangtu、jiuqinao，yincibaozhengbulushengsehenxianeryijianshituolishijide。

 keshibulizhibingbuyiweizhejiukeyihuomaosanzhang，suihoumanquanqiuxuanbutadeeshi。qingshanggaodenvrenyingdanggaoqingchu，naopiqi、qiulianminyagennanyijiejuenanti，zongshibatayinxiangdisanzhedewenrouxiangliquqiuanweihetiexin，neiyangtazongshiyuelaiyueyuan。

 yinci，jibianfajuelingyifangwaiyu，yebubiyixiazibianweihanfu。zhishiyingdangjinkenengbaochilizhi，quliqingxirujindequshi。zhangfuchuguiduozhangshijianle？laidaonaxiechengdu？shuangfangdoutugesha？zhinengzhangwozhuangkuangcaikeyiweixiayibuzuozhunbei。

二、审视自己，可否接纳

zhangfuchuguidoushitayigerendenantima？

nidiyishijian，huixiang：nandaoshuobushima？tawaiyuhaiguaizijima！

 shijishanglizhidexianggebanfa，dajiachangshuohaodehunyinjiaowangshi“0.5+0.5=1”defangshi，yinerquanbudeshier，doubingbushinenggoujianyideyinxiangtayigeren。

 shijishang，chuguinanrentingdashuipingshangmianshiyouyumuqiandehunyinshenghuozhangqichuyufenqizhizhongyinqide。yejiushi，pingshidejiaowanghegoutongjiaoliuhaowuyiwencunyouzhenanti，erzheileinantiziranshishuangzhongde。yinciyidingdesikaohuoxubixude。

ranhoujiuxuyaokaolvdaoyigenanti：nengfoujiena？

 zheigewentijiaoweifanzajiaoweiruili，danbuguanzenyangdouraobudong，wubiyaoyingdui。jianghuihuichuxianhenfanzadeyaosujiazazaiqizhong，xiaohai、babamama、jiazhong、jingjifazhan、zichan、xinyuzheixiebixukaolvdaoyinei，xixinhengliang。

jiarubukeyijiena，neiziranzhinengtiaoxuanliyi，kuaidaozhanluanma。

三、拯救婚姻

 daliangdenvxinghuitiaoxuan“kuanrong”。ziran，jinjinbiaocengshangdekuanrong，shijishang，waiyujinvxingchanshengdexintaizhuangtaishangbameibanfamoqu，huoxuyibeizidouwangbudiao，jinjinbuyuanyishuo。

 danjirantiaoxuanzaiciguo，neimejiupobudeyiyingduidisanzhe，yingduineiyiduanbukanrumudehunyinshenghuo。zheibixutingdadedanlianghexinxin。yunyinghunyinqinggan，bingbushidisanxiasi，dijiandaofuchenli，jiunengwanliu。 qinggannantihenxinlei？10skuaisushenqingqingganzhenduan！

也不是找好多个好闺蜜随意倾吐，就能更改。实质上，是必须一个科学研究的方式的，简言之，便是根据男人的心态剖析后，一个科学研究的招数。