男人不和女人沟通，可能是你犯了这些错误方式

ruguoyiduanganqinghuozhehunyinchuxianlewenti，goutongshidejiejuefangshi，danshinidegoutongfangshiweibizhengque.nanrenbuhenvrengoutongshishenmexiachang，nixiangbihenqingchu。heairenwufagoutong，shiyinweinicaiyonglezheixiecuowufangshi。

一、单刀直入

nizairenjigoutongshangshifouyouguobuhexie？biru“lai，womentantanba”，zheishichangyongdekaichangbai。

zhidaoma，zheijuhualikehuirangqifenjinzhang，neiganjuehenxiangnanrenzhijiandechajia，fanyiguolaijiushi：“ni，guolai，womenliaoyiliao。”

shibushiyouzhongjianbanuzhangdeganjue？jiexialaijiuyaomianlinyichangezhan。

nanrenhuibennengdijingjue、laxiangjingbao，shenxinchuyubeizhanzhuangtai，jiexialaiwulunzenmetan，douzhishizaijiaozhan，erbushigoutong，nimenbuxianglianmeng，ershidiren，zheihuirangnanrenbuhenvrengoutong。

二、偏离轨道

changjiandeshishuzuibingfa，huitongshitanhaojigeshi，zheizhongsanguanqixialikejiuhuibaduifangdameng，tagenbenbuzhidaoniyaoshuoshenme，zheishichenmosuanhaode，changjiandeshihuijifaduifanggengqiangliefanji。nanrenbuhenvrengoutongshishenmexiachang，zheitaiyanzhongle。henduoshihou，goutongbenyibingfeiruci，zhishibiaodacuoweile，henbunengrangduifangquanbunidelijieqingxu。

三 过度猜想

nizairenjigoutongshangshifouyouguobuhexie。liruguodurenweiduifangnengcaidaonixiangbiaodadeyisi，zheiyangdexinzhaobuxuanzhichuxianzaidianyingzhong，xianshishenghuomeirennengzuodao。goutongzhisuoyiyouxiao，jiushiyaobaxuyaomiaoshuchulai，cailaicaiqumeiyiyi。

四 以偏概全

woshuodebushizheige，niconglaijiumeilijieguowo”“zhongdianbushizheishier，shinigenbenbuaiwo”“womenshigaihaohaoliaoliaole，biexiangyuanlaineiyangchenmole”“jiuzhidaoshihouzhugeliang”“haiziniconglaijiubuguan”“wodeshinicongbufangzaixinshang”。yaozhidaozheixiehuahulveledangxiadekunjing，duirenbuduishi。dangfoudingyigerendeshihou，shiwufagoutongde。