ruguoyiduanganqinghuozhehunyinchuxianlewenti,goutongshidejiejuefangshi,danshinidegoutongfangshiweibizhengque.nanrenbuhenvrengoutongshishenmexiachang,nixiangbihenqingchu。heairenwufagoutong,shiyinweinicaiyonglezheixiecuowufangshi。
一、单刀直入
nizairenjigoutongshangshifouyouguobuhexie?biru“lai,womentantanba”,zheishichangyongdekaichangbai。
zhidaoma,zheijuhualikehuirangqifenjinzhang,neiganjuehenxiangnanrenzhijiandechajia,fanyiguolaijiushi:“ni,guolai,womenliaoyiliao。”
shibushiyouzhongjianbanuzhangdeganjue?jiexialaijiuyaomianlinyichangezhan。
nanrenhuibennengdijingjue、laxiangjingbao,shenxinchuyubeizhanzhuangtai,jiexialaiwulunzenmetan,douzhishizaijiaozhan,erbushigoutong,nimenbuxianglianmeng,ershidiren,zheihuirangnanrenbuhenvrengoutong。
二、偏离轨道
changjiandeshishuzuibingfa,huitongshitanhaojigeshi,zheizhongsanguanqixialikejiuhuibaduifangdameng,tagenbenbuzhidaoniyaoshuoshenme,zheishichenmosuanhaode,changjiandeshihuijifaduifanggengqiangliefanji。nanrenbuhenvrengoutongshishenmexiachang,zheitaiyanzhongle。henduoshihou,goutongbenyibingfeiruci,zhishibiaodacuoweile,henbunengrangduifangquanbunidelijieqingxu。
三 过度猜想
nizairenjigoutongshangshifouyouguobuhexie。liruguodurenweiduifangnengcaidaonixiangbiaodadeyisi,zheiyangdexinzhaobuxuanzhichuxianzaidianyingzhong,xianshishenghuomeirennengzuodao。goutongzhisuoyiyouxiao,jiushiyaobaxuyaomiaoshuchulai,cailaicaiqumeiyiyi。
四 以偏概全
woshuodebushizheige,niconglaijiumeilijieguowo”“zhongdianbushizheishier,shinigenbenbuaiwo”“womenshigaihaohaoliaoliaole,biexiangyuanlaineiyangchenmole”“jiuzhidaoshihouzhugeliang”“haiziniconglaijiubuguan”“wodeshinicongbufangzaixinshang”。yaozhidaozheixiehuahulveledangxiadekunjing,duirenbuduishi。dangfoudingyigerendeshihou,shiwufagoutongde。
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