男人不和女人沟通，这4个技巧非常有效

ruguoyiduanganqinghuozhehunyinchuxianlewenti，goutongshidejiejuefangshi。danwangwangjiuyouhenduonvrenjishizhidaofangfa，yebuzhidaozenmezuo。yinweitamenshuotamendenanrengenbenbuyuanyigoutong。qishinanrenbuhenvrengoutong，youyibufenyuanyinyuanyunvrenzishen。zheigeshihou，nvrenxuyaoxuehuizhei4gejiqiao，nanrenkendingyuanyihenigoutong。

一、学会更深入的沟通方式

nizairenjigoutongshangshifouyouguobuhexie？dabufennvrenrenweigoutongzhiyoutongguoyuyancainengjinxing，zhiyoulianggerenmianduimianliaotiancaishigoutong。qishigoutongbingbujinjintongguoyuyanlaijinxing，duifangdeyanshen、shentai、zhitiyuyandounengrangnidongxiduifangdexintaihuodong。zhiyouzhuazhulezheixiexinxi，lianxiduifangshuodehuajiayifenxi，cainenggengshenrudelejieduifangdezhenshixiangfa。

二、不要总是讲大道理

youshihou，nanrenjuedehuabutoujibanjuduo，yehuibuxianggoutong。zheigeshihou，nanrenjiujuedenvrenfeichangbukeliyugenbengoutongbule。nanrenbuhenvrengoutongshishenmexiachang，xiangbinihenqingchu。nvrenbuyaozongshijiangdadaoli，yaokandaoduifangdeganshoulaibiaodagongming，zheiyangnanrencainenghenigoutongshunchang。

三、看透对方的内心

nvrenyaokantouduifangdeneixin，jiuhaoxiangyouderensuiranbiaomianlengkuwuqing，danshineixinqueshireqingruhuode。nizairenjigoutongshangshifouyouguobuhexie？yaozhidaotongguobiaomianlaipanduanzijidenanyoushifeichangwuzhiqieyuchunde。suoyishuo，nvrenyidingyaozhangwofangfahejiqiaolai“qiao”kainanrendezui，tongshiyeyao‘qiao”kainanrendexincaixing。

四、不要一定争个输赢

hunyinbushizhengshuyingzhengduicuodedifang。suoyibuyaoguoyuaibianlun，yebuyaoguoyuaibiaoxian，yaoxuehuiqingting，zheiyangcainengxianxianduifangdecunzaigan。nanrenbuhenvrengoutongshishenmexiachang？zheitaiyanzhongle。qishinvrenyaozunzhongnanrendeguandian，napatashuodebudui，nikeyishidangdejiuzhengyebuyaozhijiezhize，zhijiezhizeshiyizhonghenbuhaodefangshi。