在他人生低谷期提了分手 如何挽回男友的心？

 zaitarenshengdiguqi，yishichongdongxiajiutichulefenshou，danshihoulengjingxialai，youjuedehouhui，haikeyi wanhuinanyou dexinma?xiamianyiqilaikankanlengailaoshidejianyi：

网友咨询：

laoshi，ninhao!woganjuezheicizhendezoudaolejintoule，xianzaidewozhendehennanguo，xiwanglengdanengjiwoyixiejianyi。

 shiqingshizheiyangde，nanyougangbiye，chulaizuolexiexiaoshengyi。erwobenkewunian，haiyouyiniancaibiye。dangshiwomengezidouhenmang，tamangzhetadeshiye，erwomangzhezijidexueye。tagangchulaichuangyedeshihou，weishangganghaoxingqi，xiaozhuanleyibi，keshihoulaiquejianjianshuailuo，dangshiwoyoufanzhebiyedeshiqing，suoyixinqingbuhaodeshihouwojingchangnao。

 youyiciwoxinqingtebiebuhao，erqielaizheyuejingduzibushufu，tayougenwotidaoweishangdeshiqing，yiqizhixiawojiutilefenshou。tadangshiyehenshengqi，juedewozaiwuliqunao，erqieqianjitianhaizaitamamamianqiankuawoshigedongshidenvhai。meicichaowanjiazhihou，tadouhuihongwo，keshizheiyicizhendechujidaotadedixianle，taquemeiyouwanliu。

 diertianwojiukaishihouhuile，wogenmamashuolezheijianshiqing，mamayetebieshengqi，shuowobuhuishuohua，huirangrenjiajuedewotebieshili，tashiyetengfeideshihoujiuzaiyiqi，dandigudeshihoujiutifenshou。keshiwotifenshouzhendebushiyinweitadeshiyea，womenzaiyiqicaiyigeyue，mingmingkeyihuxianglejie，tishengwomenzhijiandeganqingde，danshixianzaiquerangshiqingbianchenglezheiyang。qingwenlengda，woxianzaihainengwanhuinanyoudexinma?

冷爱老师回复：

 meiyigeyoushiyexindenanren，zuijihuideshizaishiyedigudeshihoubeirenpaoqi，zheishitamendeleiqu。jiangxinbixin，meiyigechuyurenshengdiguqideren，doubuxiwangbeizijidelingyibanjipaoqi。

 meiyigechuangyedenanren，douxiwangdedaozijinvpengyoudezhichi，zuiqimashibulibuqi。keshinifeidanmeiyouzhichita，gulita，fanerzebeita，shenzhipaoqita，takendingshijieshoubulede。xianzaihouhuixiangwanhuitadexin，kongpahennan。danshijiejuefangfazongshibiwentiyaoduo，suoyi，nikeyichangshizheiyangquzuo：

1.真诚地道歉。

 dengdajiadoulengjingxialai，nixuyaozuodeshizhenchengdidaoqian，biaodanizhenshidexiangfa。nishuofenshoudeyuanyinbushitadeshiye，ershiyinweizijiyishidechongdong，banimenzhijiandewuhuixiaochu，rangtazhidaonibingbushiyigeshilideren。

2.适当地鼓励。

 congnidemiaoshuzhong，keyikanchunanpengyouhentengaini。xiangdedaotadeyuanliangyijigaibiantaduinidewujie，neibixuyaogaibianzijizhiqiandetaidu。ouerfayixiewenhoudehua，gulita!

3.共同承担他的困难。

 tashiyechuyudigushiqi，zuixuyaodeshibierendebangzhu。zheishinikeyizuoyixielisuonengjideshiqing，lirubangzhutazuoyixiexuanchuantuiguang，xiangshenbiandepengyoufenxiangtadechanpin……bangzhutadeshiyenengdedaohaozhuan。

 ruguonengzuodaoyishangzheisandian，xiangxinnizaitaxinmuzhongdexingxiangyousuogaiguanle，zheishihoujulichenggongyejiubuyuanle。zhuyuanzheiweinvhainengchenggongwanhuinanyou！