和成熟的男生谈恋爱是什么感觉？

　　fenshouhounanshengxiaoshilaizenmeban？dangaiyuanqu，tadexiaoshihenyoukenenglingrengandaomituhejuewang。danshibuyaochenjinyukunanzhong！zuixian，lejiexintaibianhuacaishiguanjian。jiyuduifangshijianhejinglizhiyu，tanxunshiyongbingzhenchengqingsu。cizhi，zhuanzhuyuzishenchengzhanghefazhan，jianlizixinduli，bubiyilaitarenquzhaodaozishendejiazhi。zuizhong，zhangwoxinjihui，yingyongtansuojianglai。bulunshenmeshihou，zonghuiyourenzaidengdaizhefenxiangjinixingfu。fenshouhounanshengxiaoshi，bubixiaoshizaihuiyizhong，fanershiyongtabianchengzaicifaxianzijitupokou。

　　应对男生忽然消失，怎样处理这一困境

　　fenshouhounanshengxiaoshilaizenmeban，ruguoniyunanshengfenshouhou，huranfaxiantaxiaoshikanbudao，zheiwuyishiyigelingrenfeijiehebeishangdejushi。danshi，maiyuanhezizebingbunengjiejuewenti，fanguolai，womenyinggailizhidisisuo，caiqujijixingdong，yigaoxiaodijiejuezheiyangdeshiqing。yixiashiyixiekexingdefangfa，bangzhuzijiyingduifenshouhounanshengxiaoshidekunjing。

　　1. 保持理智和理性

　　yingduinanshenghuranxiaoshidexianxiang，xinlishangdexingfenhechongdongbingbuhuiyoushenmexiezhu。fanguolai，pingjingxialaibingbaochilixingshijiejuewentidiyibu。buyaojizhezuorenhequeding，jizijiyixieshizhangqusikaohefenxiqingkuang。jinkenengdiaojieqingxu，yonglizhihewanshandexintaiquchulizheiyikunjing。

　　2. 探索可能的原因

　　nanshengxiaoshihenyoukenengyouhenduoyuanyin，birutaxuyaoyiduanshijianduju、taduiyufenkaikunhuobuyi、zheiyoubiedezhongyaodeshixuyaochulideng。jinguanzheixieyuanguhenyoukenengbingbunenggaibianxiankuang，danzhangwoshenhoudongji，nenggoubangzhuninenggougenghaodijunhengzijidexinqingbingmianduixianshi。changshihetakaizhanduiwaikaifangerwanshandeduitan，zhidaotadeganshouhexiangfa，yexukeyixunzhaojiejuewentianjianxiansuo。

　　3. 倾诉和接受适用

　　yingduinanshenghuranxiaoshidekunjing，bubimomochengshou。yuhaoyou、jiarenhuozhidexinlaiderengongxiangnideqingxuhedanyou，genjuqingsulaishifangneixinshenchudegongzuoyali。tamendeguanaiyulijienenggoujiyuniguwuheshiyong，bangzhuzijigenghaodiyingduizheiyikunjing。yucitongshi，keyikaolvxunqiuzhuanyezixunshidexiezhu，zheixierenzaiqingganshangyongyougengfengfujingyan，nenggouweinintigonggengjiaquanmianjiejuefangan。

　　4. 关注自身成长和发展

　　biebazijibeikunguoqudehuiyihewujincaixiangzhong。bajiaodianfangzaizishendechengzhanghefazhanzhong，zaixuexizhongxindejineng、canyuxiuxianhuodonghuotoushenzijixihuandegongzuodengxingshi，shizijichongshiqilai。jianlizixinduli，bubiyilaitarenlaihuoquzishendejiazhi。jianxinzijidemeiliyunengli，neiyangcainengfaxianzhenzhengshuyunidekuaile。

　　5. 掌握新机会，英勇寻觅将来

　　suirannanshengdexiaoshirangniganjuedaoshiwanghejuewang，danjuebunengfangqizhaodaoxindejiyuyuxingfu。jianxinmeiyiduanjinglidoushirenshengzhongdeyibufen，douhuidaijinichengzhangyuqifa。yonggandemianduijianglai，zhangwoxindejiyu，quzhuixunzheixiezhenzhengfuhenijiazhiguannianyumengxiangderenyushi。jianxinzaixiangyingshijianhedidian，zhenzhenzhengzhengshuyuzijideyuanfenhuiyou。

　　fenshouhounanshengxiaoshilaizenmeban，zaifenshouhounanshengxiaoshidekunjingzhong，womenyinggailengjinghelixingtanrandimiandui，bingcaiqujijixingdonglaimiandui。ciwai，guanxinzishendechengzhangyufazhan，tanxunshiyongbingqingsu，zhangwoxindejiyu，cainenggenghaodebaituokunjing，zhongxinzhaodaoshuyuzijidexingfu。jilao，nikaixinhekuaileshitongguozijizhuzaide，jishimianduicuozheyushibai，yidingyaojianchiwangqian，xiangxinweilaidexingfu。