分手了应该怎么挽回？支招这4个步骤

　　chaojiafenshouhou，zhongdianshisikao，erbushifangzongjiuchandexintai。fenshouleyinggaizenmewanhui？wojinisigebuzhou，nizhishaokeyixiangpengyouyiyangzhongxinlianxi，bunengshuoshizuiqiangdecelve，dandier，worengranhenyouxinxin。yinwei80%nengfuhederendoushianzhaowodefangshizoude，danshitamenmeiyouzongjie。wohuiyicixinggaosunizheipianwenzhang。

　　第一步：不要死缠烂打

　　zheijuhuawoyijingshuoguowushucile，shenmejiaosichanlanda，meitiandumen，xinwendianhuahongzha，zuozheixieshiqingderenzhendebuduo，gengduodeshiwushiwukebuzaixiangduifangchuandayizhongqinggansuqiu，neijiushisichanlanda。

　　biruzaipengyouquanfayixiehanshasheyingdegequheneirong，biruweituopengyouchuandi，chuandanidefuheyisi，henduorendouzuoguozheixieshiqing。zuihou，nihaishibunenghehao。

　　yuanyinshizheizhongxingweidapolelianggerenguanxidepingheng，niqiangliedefuheqingxuhuiyiciyouyicidijiaqiangniyiqiansuoyoudebukuai，suoyizuizhongdejieguoshibuhuifu，dianhuabudaoqianbuting，shenzhizhijiepingbi，beiweidefengchengbushigandong，ershiyixiangqingyuandebuzunzhong，zhihuirangduifangchanshengyane。

　　第二步：至少3天不要联系

　　wozhidaohenduoqingganbozhuhuigaosuni，bulianxishichetui，danzheizhishizhengquedeyiban，bulianxidemudeshilengqueshuangfangdeqingxu，suoyizuihaodefangfashidangduifangfeichangrenzhenfenshou，nilijibizui，3tianbulianxi，zheicihuiyouliangzhongqingkuang。

　　diyizhongshiduifanglianxini，ranhounijiuzuyiyijiejuewentidetaidugoutongle。dierzhongduifangmeiyoulaizhaoni，santianhou，nifalewoxiamiandehua：“zheijitianwoxianglehenduo，wozunzhongnidejueding，womenxianbawomendeshiqingfangzaiyibian，nizuonideshi，wozuowodeshi。”

　　zheiyiweizhenikeyigenjuzijideqingkuangzuoyixiegaibian，danqiejibuyaotijinimenzhijiandeguanxi，yebuyaomiaoshunimendeqingxu。

　　第三步：观察状态

　　buyaokanfenshoushiyouduowuqing，zhiyaorenmenhuiyouqingganfanbo，zheiciruheguancha，zuihaodeqingkuang，duifangrengranmeiyoushanchunimenzhijiandedongtai。diergehaoqingkuang，tameiyoushanchu，tongguonirenshidegongtongpengyou。

　　disangehaoqingkuang，duifangkaishifasongpengyouquandongtai，weicidandujieshi，tabaokuogezhongrichangshenghuo，yinweidangyigeren，fenshouhoulijifasongtamenderichangshenghuo，yuexiangzhengmingziji，yigerenkeyihenhao，yuezhengmingshenme，shishishang，xinyuequefashenme。

　　第四步：尝试联系

　　fenshouleyinggaizenmewanhui？zaizheiduanshijianli，nibunengfasongrenhexiaoxi。wanchengyishangsangebuzhouzhishaoxuyaobangeyuedeshijian。zaizheigeshihou，nikeyizhaodaoyigehuati。jizhuyongyuanbuyaotiganqing。qici，buyaoyizhaotaweizhongxin，yinweizaizheigeshihou，xiangpengyouzheiyangderenshinimenliangdeyicengbaohuzhao。zhiyouniyouchongfenhelideliyou，jishiduifangdaizheqingxuhenishuohua，niyebuhuijuedetaijiduan。

　　jutidehuati，zheixuyaojiehenidejutiqingkuang，wodangranbunengjinijutidejianyi，danwokeyijiniyixiehuatidefangxiang。

　　shouxian，lvyoudejiekou，birunikeyishuo，wozuijinzhunbeihepengyouchuquwan，tazongshijuedewodecelvebushihenhao，wojidewoheniyiqiquguo，keyijiwoyige，dangran，ruguonirenweizheigeyaoqiutaiduo，nikeyiconggengjiandandehuatikaishi，biruwojidenizhuguojiudian，huanjingzenmeyang。

　　dier，diannaojiekou，nikeyishuo，woxiangzhaodaomougewenjian，danzhaobudao，bushifangzainishenbian。disan，gongzuojiekou，nikeyishuowojideniyiqianzuoguojihua，ninengbangwokankanzheigejihuashizenmezuode。

　　suiranyishangsigebuzhou，duifangjibenshanghuihuifu，danruguonijujueleni，nikeyizhijieshuoxiexie，zhijieliuzou。ruguoniyongzhengchangdexinhuifuni，nikeyiyongzhengchangdexinliaosiwulun。zuizaogaodeqingkuang，yejiushiyiduanshijianbuhuilai，zhinengshuomingxianzaibushijiechudezuijiashiji。jiushieryan，shuowanjiuliuzou。buyaotanlunganqingheguoqu。