婚姻幸福秘诀：维系夫妻感情的12个要点

　　fenshouhouruhezhengquewanhui？dangaiqinglaidaofenchakoushi，zenyangniuzhuanjushibianchenghenduorenxinzhongdeyiwen。wanhuijuefeiyishi，bixuzhengquedefangshihexingwei。zuixian，diaojiezijideqingxu，weichilengjingchenzhe；cizhi，jijizhudongfansiwentisuoshu，zhaodaoyouhuadefangwei；yucitongshi，shidubiaoxianzijidejijibianhua，xiyinduifangliuyi；chucizhiwai，goutongcaishiguanjian，zhenchengbiaoshuxinlidexiangfahexiangyaoyouhuadexinxin；zuizhong，jibicichongzudeshijianhekongjian，rangganqingzhongjiandequanguochengshunlichengzhang。zhiyoukaozhengquedefangshihechengkendetaidu，dajiacaiyoukenengzaifenshouzhihouqudechenggongwanhuilianaidemeihao。

　　冷静分析局势 ——寻找挽回的机会

　　fenshouhouruhezhengquewanhui？zheishihenduorenmenzaiqinshenjinglihunyinpoliehoujiaojinnaozhiwenti。erdiyibu，jiushiweilelizhidisisuoquanbujushi，xunzhaowanhuidejihui。zaiqingxushangweiwanquanhuifuyiqian，womenyinggaizhenglizijineixin、zhenglisixu。huiwangheduifangzhongjiandeguoqu，zhaodaozaochengfenkaidezhongyaoyuanyin。zheibujinyouliyudajiayishidaozijidechucuo，yekeyiweiwanhuiganqingzhaodaoyitiaozhengquedefangxiang。

　　做出积极主动更改 ——给自己发展大大加分

　　wanhuiaiqingxuyaodajiazuochujijizhudongdegenggai，nengrangduifangjiandaowomendeshengming。zuixian，womenyaojijizhudongdijienazijidenanti，erqiefuzhuxingdonglaidiaojie。zhuyaobaokuotishengzishendepinpaixingxiang、gaibianxianzhuangxiguanxing、xuexijinengdeng。ruguoduifangjiandaowomenzhengbianchengyigegenghaoderendeshihou，huiduiwomenzaochengxindelingwuyuxingqu。yucitongshi，womenhaixuyaodiaozhenghaozijidesiweifangshihexintai。jijileguandetaiduhejijileguandexintainengrangwomengengyoujingzhengli，jinerkaiqiwanhuidamen。

　　复建沟通公路桥梁 ——耐心倾听语言的表达

　　goutongshiwanhuiaiqingdezhongyao。erzaifenshouzhihou，bukeyijiqieyongwenziqiangzhiwanhui，ershiyinggaifujianqixianghujiandegoutonggongluqiaoliang。zheixuyaowomennaixinqingtingduifangneixinxuqiuyuqinggan，biaodazijizhenzhengganshouhexiangfa。weilenengchuangjiangengqiangzhijiandehudongyulijie，dajiakeyixuanzeheshideshijianhefangfa，birumianduimiandejiaoliu、jixin、huozheliyongdisanrenchuandixinxideng。genjutanchengdegoutong，womenkeyigenghaodelejieduifangdexuqiu，erqieshenrutantaozenyangjiejuefenshoudeshihouyiliuxialaidenanti。

　　给与时间和空间 ——让感情当然重归

　　zaiwanhuiaiqingdeguochengdangzhong，womenyinggaijibicichongzudeshijianhekongjian，rangganqingdangranzhonggui。bulunshilingyifangxuyaoyiduanshijianlengjingfenxi，huoshilingyifangbixudujulaidiaozhengqingxu，womendouhuizhongshibingjiyuzhichi。yucitongshi，womenyeyaokexueanpaizijishenghuo，weichishidangdejianju，fangzhiguoduzhuiqiuhuoshijiuchanbuqing。wanhuiaiqingshiyigexuyaoshijianhenaixindiquanguocheng，rangganqingzaitabenshengailaidezonghuilaiqingkuangxiaqiaoqiaodizhonggui，caikeyirangwomenzhenzhengdeganjuedaoxianghuzhijiandebaogui。

　　汇总

　　fenshouhouruhezhengquewanhui，meiyoudaan。keshi，lengjingfenxijushi、jijizhudongzuochugenggai，fujiangoutonggongluqiaoliang，jiyushijianhekongjian，zeshichuantongqiexingzhiyouxiaodefangfa。zaiwanhuideguochengdangzhong，womenyinggaixuehuifangqicongqiandezhengchaohesunhai，zhuazhudangxiadejihui，zhenxinzhenqingyunuliquzhongxingoujianqiganqingdejichu。zhihuizaixianghuzhichi、zunzhongyunulizhixia，womencainenggoubaituojiongjing，xiufushousundeaiqing，shiqimeihaodeweilai。jilao，wanhuiaiqingxuyaodebujinjinshidanliang，yeyouzhihuiyuyili。