脱单秘籍：内向的女生怎么相亲？

　　fenshoufuhexuyaopengyoubangmangma？zheishihenduorenmenzaiqinshenjinglifenshouhouxinlideyihuo。danghunyinzoudaozuihou，fenshouchengweishishishi，pengyoudezhichihebangzhunengdaijidajiazhenguideanweiheguli。danshi，zaiwomenxuyaofuheshi，pengyoudegongxiaoshibushirengranguanjian？huidabingbuyiding。fuhexuyaoshuangfangdejuexinyunuli，pengyoudebangmangnenggoutigongjianyiheyijian，danshizuizhongguanlijuecehaizaiyufenshoudeshuangfang。pengyoudedalizhichishibukehuoquede，danzhongdianzaiyufuhedejuexinyunuligoubugou。

　　fenshoufuhexuyaopengyoubangmangma？

　　yiliaozhiwaidefenlichulai、cuoguoderenjiyu，youshihoushiwomenzhuihuimoji。fenshouzhihouderilitou，neixinchongmanletongchu、zhengzhahezhuihuimoji。danshi，zaiwomenchangshifuheshi，shibushizhendebixupengyoudebangmangni？

　　一、防止被心态核心

　　情绪与理性的博奕

　　fenshoufuhebixupengyoubangmangdeyidayuanyinshixintaideyingxiang。pengyoumenyaojuyoukeguanxing、keguanderenwujiaose，bangwomensikaoaiqingzhongdezhongzhongnanti。tamenhuitigongchengkendejianyi，rangwomenbuhuibeixintaihexin，weichilengjingdetounaoqujiejuefuhedexiangguanshiyi。

　　二、给予理解和支持

　　朋友陪伴和支持

　　fuheshiyiduankankeerjiankudequanguocheng，congzaicigoutongjiaoliudaohuajiemaodun，xuyaodajiafuchujudadeqinfen。zaizheiguochengzhong，pengyoudelijiehezhichiqizhefeichangzhongyaodezuoyong。tamenkeyizaidajiakunhuobuyihemimangshidalizhichi，guliwomenjianchidaodi。

　　san、jiyuzhonglidejianjiehejianyi

　　朋友的中立见解

　　fenshoufuhebixupengyoubangmangdelingyigeyuanyinshitamennenggoutigongzhonglidejianjiehejianyi。zuoweixiaomianren，tamenkeyigengkeguankeguankandailianggerendeganqingnanti，qiangdiaozaifuhehuanjiezhongkenengyudaodekaoyanhetiaozhan。tamenjidajiadetiyikenengshiwomenbixutingjiande，bangwomennenggougenghaodiguanlijuecejiejuefuhedexiangguanshiyi。

　　danshi，suiranpengyoudezhichihegulimouxieqingkuangxiazhiguanzhongyao，danshibushizhendebixutadebangmangzeyaoshijutiqingkuangerding。

　　yi、guanzhuzishendejuexinyunuli

　　在于自已的决心与努力

　　fuhedechenggongyufouzuihouzaiyufenshoudeshuangfangshibushizhongxindexiwangzhongxinzaiyiqi，yijitaweicifuchudejuexinyunuli。jibianpengyoutigonglebangzhu，jiaruwomenzijimeidudingdejuexinyufuchuchongzudeqinfen，fuheyenanyishixian。

　　er、weichisimixingheanquanxing

　　私密性和信息保密性的重要性

　　zaizaijuedingshifoubixupengyoubangmangshi，simixingheanquanxingshixuyaokaolvdeyinsu。youshi，womenyexugengqidaijiangfuhedeshibaocunzaizijidexiaoquanzizhong，buxiangrangpengyouganyuheganshe。zheiyeshiqingyoukeyuan，youyuhenduoshiqingwomengengxiwangyigerenquyingduihechuli。

　　fenshoufuhexuyaopengyoubangmangma，zongdelaishuo，jinguanpengyoudezhichihegulizaifenshoufuhedeguochengdangzhongyouzhizhongyaozuoyong，danshibushizhendebixutadebangmang，yingdanggenjushijiqingkuangzuochupanduan。buguanzenyang，womendouhuibaochizhujuexinyunuli，jiandingbuyidexiangzhefuhedemubiaoqianjin。