挽回爱情之前 需要走出失恋的痛苦

　　fenshouhouainidenanrenhuirenzhubulianxinima？zheiyiwentikunraozhehenduoren，youqishizaiaiqingwanchenghou，rengduilingyibanxinhuaiwenxin。fenshouyoukenengshiyinweizhongzhongyuanyin，danshineixindeaiqingbingyebuhuiqingyixiaotui。duiyuyixieshenaiguodenanreneryan，fenshouzhishitazaijingshencengmiandeyizhongshizhe，erduinidesinianyehuixiangwujintengtiaoban，panraozaitamenxinzhong。tamenyexurenzhubulianxini，danshineixindeqingyiquegengjiaqianglie。

　　痛与冲动

　　fenshouhouainidenanrenhuirenzhubulianxinima，fenshouhou，ainidenanrenshifounengrenzhubuzhudonglianxini，zheishiyigerangrenjinzhangdenanti。fenqideqingxuhaosixuanwobanyingxiangzhetamen，tamenxinlingshenchudetongyuchongdongjiaozhizaiyiqi。

　　duiyuyixieshenaiguodenanreneryan，yunifenshoushiyicisheqi，danshineixindeaiqingquebingmeiyouqingeryijudixiaoshi。tamenshiturenzhubulianxini，youkenengshichuyugezhongyuanyin，haoxiangzunzhongnidexuanze、jiduifangyixieshijianlizhi，huoshishixiangrangbicizhijianshangkoudedaoyixieshuhuandeshizhang。

　　keshi，zhengyinweitamencengaiguoni，yincitamenwufazhenzhengwangqueni，baituobulexinlisinianzhiqing。meimeimouyishunjian，tamenkandaoyixieyuniyouguanderenhuoshi，huozhetingjianneiershunengxiangdege，neifenaidehuiyijiangrushanhongbanfuxianzaiyanqian。zheishihoudetamenyexujiuhuixiangyaojinidadianhua，danshitamenqinfenyizhineixindeyuwang，tamenrenwei，zheizhongxingweizhihuidaijinigengduodeshanghai。

　　探寻均衡

　　zaifenshouhou，nanrennulixunzhaozhezaixinlicengmiandejunheng。tamenshituzhaodaolizhiyuganqingdejunhengdian，qidaiweizijiyuniyiduanshijianlaizhongxinshenshiheziwofansi。genjuyunidefenli，tamenyenenggenghaodilejiezijineixinxuqiuheduiaiqingdezhenzhengxintai。

　　tamenbuxiangbiaoxianchuleyiqiedeyilaixingheduizijidedezhizhe，yinweitamenxiangkandaonikuaile，erfeiweitadefashengerjuedekunhuo。congmouzhongchengdushangshuo，tamenyunidefenlikenengshichuyuyizhongbuqiuhuibaodeai，weilenengnidekuaileerxuanzefangkaishou。

　　成长与成熟

　　aidewanbidaibiaozheyiduanguanxidejieshu，danyeyushizhedazhongdechengzhangyuchengshu。zheixieainidenanrenhuimanmangaoqingchu，aibingbuyiweizhezhanju，fanershijiduifangziyouxingfukuailedequanli。

　　fenshouhou，tamenqinfenxuehuichengshoutongkuheshiwang，dongdeyigerenmianduineixindegudu。dongderuheyaojiduifangyixiekongjian，weiduifangchuangzaoyigeliangxingfazhanziranhuanjing。tamenrenwei，jinyoudangliangrendoubiandegengjiachengshushi，cainengyougenghaodegongchuyuweilai。

　　平复伤疤

　　fenshouhou，nanrenshituzhaodaoziwoliaoyudexingshi，yipingfuxinlideshangba。takenenghuitoushengongzuozhong、zhuixungerenxingquaihao，huoshiyuhaoyougongdushiguang。zheiyangdehuodongkeyibangzhutamenzhuanyizhuyili，zhujiancongtongchuzhongjiefangchulai。

　　danshi，wuluntamenruhenuli，fenshoudekuchurenghuishibushidifuxianzaiyanqian，youqishizaiyeshenrenjingzhishi。zheishihoudetakenenghuijinbuzhuxiangdaozuichudemeihao，xiangdaoyunigongchushenghuodediandi。dantazhidao，sinianzhishixinlingdeyizhongjiyu，buyinggaichengweihuiguiyuanyin。

　　舍不得的爱

　　fenshouhou，ainidenanrenhuijinlirenzhubulianxini，danshineixindeqingyiquerengrancunzai。tamenyexuhuizhaodaogezhongliyouheliyou，weizhuangzijixinlingshenchudesinianhesilian。danshi，zheiyifenshebudedeai，wufaqingyiditaochutadeneixin。

　　takenenghuijingjingdizaishejiaopingtaishangguanzhunidedongtaixing，huozhekanjianzijidezhaopian，anzizhuyuanzhenidekuaile。tamenbugandaraonideshenghuozhuangtai，danxindideaishizhongweicengxiaoshi。

　　fenshouhouainidenanrenhuirenzhubulianxinima，buguanfenshouhoudenanshengshibushirenzhubulianxini，tamenneixinshenchudeaiquanshizhenshiershensuide。tajiangzheizhongaimaizangzaixinli，momodiqidaonidekuaile。zhongjiu，zaitamenxinzhong，nishizhongjiushineigekeaideren，bulunshizhangzenyangbianhua。