致男友：当我成为一个不纠缠不联系你的女人

　　fenshouduojiuhounvshenghuihouhui，shilianyihou，nvshengshichanghuijingliyigexinlidegaibianquanguocheng。fenshouduozhangshijianhou，tamenhuizhujianshenshizijixuanquyuqueding，juedehouhuiwanfen。bulunshiyouyubugouchengshuyantanjuzhihuozhebudongdezhenxidexintai，gezhongyuanyindouyaozaishijiandeliushixiakaishixianxian。zheijigeyuetongkuyusikao，rangtamenduiguoqudeganqingchanshenglezhiyi，zhujianqipanzaiciwanliu。danshi，shijianyiguo，xiufuzuichudemeihaosihuchengweiyizhongsheqiu。fenshoudetongkuyuhouhuizaixinzhongqiaoqiaodijiaodie，chengweiyizhongwufayanshuodexinlizhuangtainanao。

　　内心深处的挣脱：失恋了与后悔

　　fenshouduojiuhounvshenghuihouhui，zaiaiqingdeshijiezhong，fenshouwangwangchengweinanyibimiandeyihuan。bulunshichongdongfenshouhuoshijingguoshenzhongkaolvdejuece，nvshengzaiheairenfenshouzhihouqinshenjingliyiduanshijiandesikaoyuneixinshenchudezhengtuo。zaizheiguochengzhong，houhuishitamenjingchangchuxianqingxu。

　　理智之后的自我反思

　　fenshouyihou，nvshengtongchanghuijingliyiduanqingxingdeshizhang。zaizheiqijian，tamenhuizhujianfansizijizailianaizhongdeyixiezhuangtaihetiaoxuan。tamenhuishenshizijiyantanjuzhi，shibushizaifenshoushishiqulelizhi，shibushizuochulepianjidejuece。zheileiziwofansishitamenrenshidaozijihenyoukenengfanxiadecuowu，jinerchanshenghouhuiqingxu。

　　错过了与珍惜的矛盾心理状态

　　yidanfenshouyihou，nvshenghuirenshidaozijiyiqianshiquleshenme。tamenhuihuishouguoqushenghuodediandi，juedezijimeiyouaixidangshisuojuyoudeganqing。danzheizhongcuoguoleyuzhenxidemaodunxinlizhuangtaihuishitamenxianrushenshendehouhuizhong。tamenhuiduizijidetiaoxuanhexingweichanshengzhiyi，ganjuezijibuwanshanhuobuzuxuehuizhenxi，congerzaochengneixinshenchudetongku。

　　时间的流逝与无尽的思念浓郁

　　suizheshijiantuiyi，nvshenghuizhujiantihuidaowujindesiniannongyu。fenshouyihou，tamenmanmanmingbaizijiyoushenshenaiduifang。zheileisilianduiguoqudehuiyi，rangtamenduiyufenshoudejuecejuedehouhui。tamenkaishikaolvnengfouzaiciwanliuzheifenganqing，shibushinenggoutianbucongqiandeguoshi。danshi，shizhangyijingguoqule，wanliusihuchengweiyizhongmanzhangdexinyuan。

　　痛苦的心态难熬

　　fenshousuodailaidetongkuyuhouhui，zainvshengdeneixinshenchuxingchengyizhongwufayanshuodexinlizhuangtainanao。tamenmingbaizishencengjingshiquleyigezhongyaoderen，danzheizhongbukewanhuiquehanshitamenshengantongku。neixinshenchudedanxin、buxiangfangshouxiangnian，douranghouhuibianchengtamenrichangshenghuozhongdeyibufen。

　　发展和祝福的心态

　　fenshouzhihoudehouhuiyeshidenvshengzhujianshenshizijichengzhangyuchengshu。tamenmingbaidao，congfenshouzhongxuedaodejingyanjiaoxunnenggoubangzhutamenzaijinhoudeganqingligengchengshuhezhenxi。yinci，tamendaishangzhufuxintaixiangqiantuijin，xiwangzijizaijianglaideganqinglibuhuizaiyicuozaicuo。

　　fenshouduojiuhounvshenghuihouhui，zongeryanzhi，fenshouyihounvshenghuizaiyiduanshijianneiqinshenjinglihouhuidexinlizhuangtai。qingxingdeziwofansi、cuoguoleyuzhenxidemaodunxinlizhuangtai、shijiandeliushihexiangnian，jiqitongkudexintainanao，douxingchengletamenhouhuidezhuyaoyuanyin。danshi，houhuiyeshidetamenfazhan，daishangzhuyuandetaiduqumianduiweilaideaiqing。