挽回男友：我付出这么多 为什么他不珍惜？

　　fenshougaofaqishinajigeyueshiyizhiyilaishenshoudajiaguanzhudewenti。bulunshihanlengdedongji、wennuandechuntian、yanyanxiarihuoshiliangshuangdeqiutian，dazhongdeganqingquanshiqianbianwanhuade。yincifenshoubingbuxianyumougetedingdeshijie。buyiyangderen、butongqingkuangxia，fenshoudeyuanyinjishijiandoushikenengyousuobutong。yiner，wulunzainali，douyingrenzhenlaijingyingganqing，zhenximeiyicigongchudejiyu，fangzhiqinshenjinglibeishangdefenshouquanguocheng。

　　就职季后分手的高峰期

　　fenshougaofaqishinajigeyue，zaiganqingdeshijieli，fenshousihuchengleyizhongbiding。renrendouyouhenyoukenengjingliyiciruogancideshilianle，erzheigeguochengbingbuyidingshiqingsongyukuaide。suiranfenshoudeshijianyemeiyoujueduiguilvxing，keshiquanshijietongyangcunzaiyixietedingdeyuefen，beiguangfanrenweishifenshougaofaqi。

　　一、月末压力所导致的分手猛增

　　zaimangliuderichangrichangshenghuo，meiyigeyuejieshuhoudeyalihejiaolvqingxubiranhuidaozhiganqinglianxideliekai。yingduigongzuoyushenghuolideyali，dazhongdeqingxurongyixianrudigu，lianaizhongdemaodungengrongyiehua。zonghexinggegefangmianyinsu，henduorenkaolvzaiyuemowanbiganqing，erqiuzaixinyigeyue，dedaocongtoukaishidehaojihui。

　　二、节日情绪的分手身后

　　dabufenjieribeikanzuoshikuaileyulangmanrizi，danyeyouyixiejierifanbeidajiachengzhiwei“fenshoujie”。biru，qixijieshangxuduorendouqipanzhelangmanqiuhunhelangmandeyouhui，danshiyeyouderenyinweiganqingmaodunerxuanzelefenshou。leisiqingkuangyefashengzaibiedejiweizhongyaodejieri，rushengdan、shengrideng。zaigezhongteshurilitou，weihaibiciqingxuyalikenenghuishitamenzuochufenshoudejuece。

　　三、“七年之痒”所带来的感情变化

　　“qinianzhiyang”shixinlixueshangchangyonglaimiaoshuzhangqixinglianaizhihouganqingmoheshijianyudaodewenti。zaiyiduanguanxichixushijianjiaozhangdelianqingzhong，maodunhebuliangqingxumanmanleiji，bicizhijiandemoqiyujiqingyehuimanmantunqu。zaizheishihou，henduorenzhujiansikaozijidejianglaihemanzugan，zheizhonghuaiyiyekenenghuiyinqifenshoudexiangfa。

　　四、新年新逐渐决心

　　xinchundailaigengduodeqidai，henduorenqidaizaixindeyinianlizhuruxinxianrichangshenghuoqudongli。fenshouhenyoukenengbeikanzuoshiyigebaituoyiwang、kaiqixinshenghuodexingshi。dajiabuyuanjiangcongqiandexiaojiqingxuhebumanzaicisongdaoxindeyinian，yineryouxierentiaoxuanzaixinnianjijianglailinzhijiyuairenfenshou。

　　五、外部因素危害感情的分手高峰期

　　ziran，yiduanganqingdeliekaibingbuzhishizaiyuqinglvzhijiandeneibujiegouyinsu，waibuyalihefabingyuanyindoushifenshougaofaqideyigezhongyaoyuanyin。biru，diaozhi、zhangqiliangdifenju、qinpenghaoyouquandaodengyinsu，doushihuiduiganqingguanlianchanshengzhongyaoyingxiang，shenzhiyinqifenshou。zheizhongyinsuheshijianbuxianggan，danshitamenjingchangkaiqiganqingweijihepolie。

　　fenshougaofaqishinajigeyue，zongdelaishuo，fenshougaofaqibingmeiyougudingyuefen。dazhongdeganqingshicuozongfuzade，fenshoudeyuanyinjishizhangyeyinreneryi。jibianruci，zhangwofenshouqianzaideyuanyinjianshizhenengbangzhuwomenyishidaoganqingdeyisunxinghebiyaoxing。weilenengchuangjianlaogu、jiankangdeshenghuoganqingguanlian，womenyaoyunyinghezhenximeiyitian，erbuzhishizaifenshougaofaqishicaiyaoguanxin。