男生如何追求高冷女生才能成功？

　　fenshouhounvshengduojiuhuihouhuiyaofuhe，fenshouhoudenvshengzaifuhedaolushangtongchanghuijingliyiduanhouhuidejieduan，danzheigejieduandezhangdushihennanquedingde，yinweimeigerenqingxuhuizhuansudubuyiyang。youyixienvshengyoukenengzaifenshouhoudediertianjiuyishidaozijidejuedingshibuzhengquede，ermashanghouhuitongshiyexiwangfuhe。danshi，yeyouyixienvshengkenenghaixuyaohenzhangdeshijianqumianduifenshouhoudeshangtong，qinshenjingliziwofansihechengzhangdejingli，cainengzhenzhengdehouhuicongerchanshengfuhedeniantou。yiner，fenshouhounvshengshibushihouhuiyaofuhedeshijianyeshibuquedingde，meigerendexinqingyuqingxubianhuadoushibuyiyangde。

　　fenshouyishunjian，nvshengkenengyouhenduobutongdexintai，erqizhongyigeyoukenengshihouhui。danshi，congzongtishang，fenshouhounvshengxuyaoduozhangshijiancainenghouhuiyaofuheshiyigehennanquedingwenti。meiyigerenxinlizhuangtaihegebiechayikenenghuiyingxiangzheigeshihou。xiamianwojiangcongjigejiaodulaifenxihetantaozheizhongqingkuang。

　　心理调节的一个过程：

　　fenshouhounvshengduojiuhuihouhuiyaofuhe，fenshouhoudenvshengyibanhuiqinshenjingliyiduanshijiandexinlidiaojie，changshirongruquanxindeshenghuoheqingxufanying。zaizheigehuanjie，tamenhenyoukenenghuiganshoudaotongchu、shiwang、naonu、gududengfumianqingxu，yincihennanmashangyishidaofuhedexiangfa。zheiyidiaojiequanguochengzhangduanshiyinreneryi，kenenghaixuyaojigexingqinaizhihaoduogeyuedeshijianye。

　　本人的决心和发展：

　　fuhebingbuzhishiyishidaofenshoubuzhengque，haiyaoqianshedaobenrendejuexinhefazhan。nvshengxuyaojingguoyiduanshijiandeziwofansiyusikao，zhongxinshenshizijidexiangfayijixuyao。zaizheigehuanjiezhong，tamenkenengzhidaozijizaifenshoulidedandanghecunzaidebuzu，bingxiwangtongguofuhelaidiaojieyuchengzhang。zheileigerentishengheyongqidejiansheyinggaibushiyicuerjiude，fanershixuyaoshijianqusuzaoheqianghua。

　　沟通与复建关联的一个过程：

　　fuhebudandanshinvshengdexiangfa，haiyaogenqianrenairenzhijiandejiaoliuheguanxifujian。zheiyiguochenghenyoukenengxuyaotouruyidingdeshijianyunuli，bicixuzhongxingoujianqixianghuxinrenhedegongshi，chulifenshoudeshihouwentihefenqi。zhihuizaibicizhijiandouzhunbeihaobingqingyuanfuchuqinfendeqingxingxia，fuhedeniantoucaihuidedaowancheng。

　　本人差异和情绪变化：

　　meiyigerendeqingxugaibianhehouhuideshijianyedoushibuyiyangde。youyixienvshengyoukenengzaifenshouhoudeduanshijianjiuyishidaozijidejuedingshibuzhengquede，bingqipanfuhe。danshi，yeyouyixienvshengkenenghaixuyaohenzhangdeshijianquchulihemianduifenshoudeshangtong，tadehouhuiyoukenengzaigengjiudeshijianduanneicaihuichuxian。

　　缘份和磨合的重新发现：

　　fuheqianshedaolianggerenzaicixiangfeng，youshiyexuyaoyixieyuanfenhemohedezhongxinfaxian。henyoukenengzaimouyigeteshushishikeke，nvshenggenqianrenairenzaidulianxi，bingzaizheigehuanjiezhongranqileaiqinghuohua。zheileiqimiaodeyuanfenhemohedezhongxinfaxian，huijiakuainvshenghouhuihexuyaofuhedeguocheng。

　　fenshouhounvshengduojiuhuihouhuiyaofuhe，zongdelaishuo，fenshouhounvshenghouhuiyaofuhedeshijianyeshibuquedingde。meigerendexinqingyuqingxubianhuadoushibuyiyangde。youyixienvshengkenengduanshijianyishidaobuzhengque，eryoudenvshengkenenghaixuyaohenzhangdeshijianqumianduiyuchuliqingxu。fuhedewanchenghaiyaoyigerendechengzhangheyongqi，yijishuangfangzhijiandejiaoliuheguanxifujian。zaizheigehuanjiezhong，kenengyouyuanfenhemohedezhongxinfaxian，yeyoukenengxuyaoyiduanshijiandediaojieyusikao。yiner，nvshenghouhuiyaofuheshijianshizaiduoyanghuade，zaimeigerendeqingganjinglizhongshibiejuyigedebuquedingxingde。