出轨男人的心态

　　fenshouhounanfangshouleqian，zaiaiqingdewanchenghou，nanfangshoudaoleyibiqiankuan。zheiyidabiqianyexushiqinggandeganji，yexushifenshouxieyilidechengnuo。bulunshishenmeyangdeyuangu，nanfangshoudaogaibihuokuan，yexudaibiaozheyizhongjietuo，huoxuyechengweiletamenzhongjiandezuihouyicilianxi。bulunshimanhuaiganxie，huoshishenshendixintong，nanfangshoudaogaibihuokuan，jixuzhezijishenghuo，yezongshimangran，querengranzaixiangqian。

　　难以释怀遗憾

　　fenshouhounanfangshouleqian，fenshouzhihou，nanfanghuranshoudaoleyibiqian。zheiyibiqianfangfoshiqiannanyouqinglvjianweinengshixianchengnuodeyibufen，danquewufaxiangditaxinlingshenchudequehan。cengjingaiguoderentizaofuchuguoqiancai，yexushixiangyaobiaodaduitadeaiheganji，yexushibeitongdijiangyiwangdehuiyipaoxia。danshi，zheiyidabiqiandaibiaozhetamendegushichedijieshu，nanfangxinzhongdeyihanquekuosandegengqianglie。

　　繁杂的情感交错

　　fenshouzhihounanfangshoudaodeqianrangqingganfuzahuaxiaqu。zheiyidabiqianzaitamendefenshouxieyizhong，yexuzuoweiyizhongpeifu，yexuzuoweiyizhongjietuodebiaozhi。buguanzenyang，zheiyidabiqianjishiyizhongxintong，yeshiyizhongganxie。nanfangjieshouzheibiqiandeyucitongshi，doubudebumianduifuzadeqingganjiaocuo。tahuoxujuedexintong，yinweizheishiyizhongfenkaidexuanbu，tongshiyeganxieqiannanyoulianrencongqiandeguanxinzhichi。

　　迷途的不明前途

　　nanfangshoudaozheiyidabiqianhou，tafangfozhishenyigemitudebumingqiantuzhong。zheiyidabiqianjishiqiannanyoulianrendeyizhongqingyi，jiushitamenzhijiandeguanxidezuihouyicilianxi。nanfangxinlimianbulekunhuobuyihemiwang。tabuzhidaogairuhequyingduizheiyidabiqian，shifangjinjinrongjigou，nanguodigaojiezijicengjingdeaiqing，huoshiyongdiao，zaixindezhengchengzhongcongtoukaishi。zheiyidabiqianchengweiletamitudebumingqiandaolushangyidaobukeqijidezhuanzhedian。

　　承载的解脱与痛苦

　　zheiyidabiqianbeifuzhenanfangdejietuoyutongku。duitaeryan，zheiyidabiqiandaibiaozhetayuqianrenqingrendeguanxixuanbuduandiao，jietuoleaideqianban。danshi，zheiyucitongshiyehuidailaitongchuyuwunai。shoudaozheiyidabiqian，tazhihaomianduifenshoudekepashishizhengjuganqingshoushangdekuchu，xinlibujinyoushihuai，haiyouwujinyihanbeishang。

　　重新构建自身与新的起点

　　fenshouzhihounanfangshoudaodezheiyidabiqian，chengweiletazhongxingoujianziwotupokouhexindeqidianziyuan。zheiyidabiqiannengrangtazhongxindingyizijideguannianherenshengguihua。takeyijiezhuzheiyidabiqianquzhuixunxinzhongdemengxiang，huozhetouzizaitishengzijishang。zheiyidabiqianshicongqiandeyihanyibufen，danshiyeshitamaijinxinshenghuodeyimeiguanjianzhulizijin。nanfangzaizheibiqiandejilixia，tiqianzhunbeizhongxinqihang，tanxunshuyuzijizhenzhenzhengzhengxingfukuaile。

　　创作背景

　　zheibiqiandebeihoudoushiyiduanguanyulianggerendegushi。yexushifenshouxieyilidechengnuo，yexushiqinggandebiaoshu，tamenzhijiandeqingganyourushuiliubanbianhuanzhe。zheiyidabiqiandaibiaozhexinsuankuladeguowang，shiyiduanwufamomiedemeihaohuiyi。nanfangshoudaozheiyidabiqianhou，tayexuhuiqingbuzijindexiangqitamenzhiqianshenghuodediandi，erzheidouchengweiletaxinliyinmidebaoguijiyili。

　　最后的理解与学会放下

　　nanfangshoudaozheiyidabiqianhou，huoxuhuizaimouyikelejieqiannanyoulianrendeyongyiheqingxu。tazhidaozheiyidabiqianbingbuzhishijinqianshangdegongzuojiaojie，gengshiyizhongqingganderonghehejietuodeyisi。tanengjiangzheiyidabiqiankanzuoqiannanyoulianrenzuihoudedaobieyuzhufu，jiushitamenzhongjianzhenggegushijudian。nanfangmanmanjienazheiyishishi，bingzhujianxuehuifangxia，taruyigexinderenshengzhilv。

　　fenshouhounanfangshouleqian，meiyiduanrongzamiaoshuqianguinajukezuoweixiaobiaoti，yishangsuoxianshi。