花镇情感第三者劝退师 打响婚姻保卫战

　　fenshouhounanshengbuxianghehaozenmeban，zaimianduifenshouhounanshengbuyuanyihehaoqingkuangshi，womenyaoyilijiehezunzhongweidaoxiang，zhidingheshideyingduicuoshi。zuixian，miqiegoutongcaishiguanjian，genjutanchengdibiaodazijideganshouhekanfa，jiqilingting、lejieduifanglichang，youliyucujinbicizhijiandeqingganhudong。yucitongshi，weichishidangdeweizhihezishiqiliyeshibixude，jiduifangchongzukongjianheshijianqusikaohejieshoufenshoudeshiji。chucizhiwai，xunqiuzhuanyedexiezhu，ruzixunguwenhuoxinlizixunshi，nenggoutigonggengjuyoushenrudezhidaohezhichi。zongeryanzhi，jiejuefenshouhounanshengbuyuanhehaodexianxiangbixuhenyounaixin、zhihuiyushidangdejiaoliufangshi，congerdadaodiaojiehechengzhang。

　　以认知和接受彼此之间的情绪为载体

　　fenshouhounanshengbuxianghehaozenmeban，fenshouduimeigerenlaishuodoushiyizhongtongkudejingli，dandangnanshengbuyuanyihehaoshi，duiyuzheiyangdejiongjing，womenyinggaiyirenzhihejieshoubicizhijiandeqingxuweizaiti，zhaodaoheshidefangshilaijiejue。

　　合作是重要

　　zaiduidainanshengbuyuanyihehaoqingkuangshi，jijizhudongdejiaoliushizhiguanzhongyaode。yuqishuocaiyongqiangzhiwanliudegerenxingwei，womenyaosheshenchudide，lingtingtadexiangfaheganshou。tongguogoutong，biaodaguandianhexinyuan，bingqieyelejieduifangweihebukenhehao，xunzhaofenqidegenbenyuanyin，weichuliwentitanxunyouxiaojiejuefangan。

　　维持适当的间距

　　dangnanshengbuyuanhehaoshi，jiduifangchongzukongjianheshijianlailengjingfenxishifeichangyoubiyaode。weichishidangdejianjunenggoubimianxinlishangdemaodunhesunhai，tongshiyeyouzhuyubicinenggougenghaodidulisikaoheziwofansi。zheiduanshijiannei，womenkeyiqulejiezijichengzhanghegerenaihao，zhaodaoheshidezishen。

　　寻求专业的协助

　　youshi，womenyexuxuyaoyidingdexiezhuqujiejuefenshouhounanshengbukenhehaowenti。zixunguwenhuoxinlizixunshinenggoutigonggengshencengcidezhidaohezhichi，bangwomengenghaodilejieyuchulifuzadeqingxunanti。tamennenggoutigongkeguanjianjieyujianyi，bangwomenxunzhaojiejuewentidebanfa。

　　重新建立友情

　　dangnanshengbuyuanyihehaoshi，womenkeyishizheheduifangzhongxinjianliyouqing，zhaodaoxindexiangtongdian。genjugongtonghuatihuozheyiqicanyuhuodong，womenkeyijianjiandifujianxianghuxinrenheyoushandeguanlian，tuidongdiaojieyuhehaodehaojihui。

　　自我反思与成长

　　fenshouhounanshengbukenhehaoyeyoukenengshidajiazishencunzaidewenti。zaiyudaozheiyangdeqingkuangshi，womenyaoganyukaizhanziwofansi，xunzhaozijicunzaidebuzu，erqiexiashoujiuzheng。jinyoutongguobuduandifazhanziwogaibian，womencainenggouxiyinduifangfanhuiwomendeshenghuozhong。

　　面对现实和忘记过去

　　zuizhuyaodeshi，yidingyaoxuehuimianduixianshihewangjiguoqu。youshi，fenshoushibukenizhuande，jinguanwomenzainuli，yebuyidingnengrangnanshengxiangyaohehao。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，womenyinggaixuehuishihuai，xiangqianzou，tanxunxindexingfuhejiyu。

　　fenshouhounanshengbuxianghehaozenmeban，zongeryanzhi，dangmianduifenshouhounanshengbuyuanyihehaoqingkuangshi，womenyinggaiyilejie、goutongjiaoliu、jienahefazhanchengweijiben，tanxunjiejuewentidebanfa。buguanzuihoujieguozenmeyang，shiwomenweichilianghaodexintai，jizijigenduifangzaojiugenghaodemingtian。