“剩女”之所以剩下的七大心态成因

年关将至，“剩女”又成为热门的话题。有人说北京“剩女”超过 50 万，又有人说南京“剩女”排排看，更有计生委等政府部门欲“英雄救美”，动用宣传手段改变择偶观念，以解决这个“严重的社会问题”。

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二、 nvquanzhuyiyishishenqiang，xiangchuzhong，nanfangyidanyouyuzijiguannianbutongdedifang，tamenbianlijichanshengfanganqingxu。

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六、  shiyeshangyaozhuiqiuchenggong，bujinjintazijizheiyangrenwei，jiuliantadejiaren、pengyouhetongshiyerucigulita。jiashangqingganshangdeshanghaihekongxu，daozhitaduozaizijideshiyezhong，yiciweijituo。

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