情感故事：我挽回前男友的真实故事

　　chaojiadongbudongjiufenshou，chixuchaojiabingsuibianfenshoudelianrenguanxi，jingchangbeizhideshishijianlizaimingandejichushangde。bulunshisuoshihuoshidashier，zaichongtuyanqiantongchangquefagoutongyuditoudenengli。pinfandizhengzhibudansunhaiaiqing，gengshirangliangminxinshengyanfanhepibei，jinerdaozhifenshoubianchengweiyixuanze。danshi，zheizhongguanximeifasuzaononghouderenkehewendingdeqingxujiben，wufazhangqi。yiner，weilenengchuangjianlaogudeganqing，dajiaxuyaoxuehuijibaizhengzhi，suzaozhencheng、renzhihebaorongdexintai，yiyuairenyitongchengzhangyushouhuo。

　　吵架经常的另一半：爱情的摆动边沿

　　zaihenduolianrenshenghuozhizhong，chaojiashiwufabimiande。danshi，youyixieqinglvqueyangchengchaojiadongbudongjiufenshoudehaoxiguan，zheizhongguanxijingchangbaidongzaifenshoubianyan。chaojiasuiranshiyizhonggoutongdefangfa，danzenmekandaizheileichongtushishifenzhongyaode。

　　1. 并没有有效沟通的方式和处理冲突的能力

　　yifanghuoshuangfangzaichaojiashijingchangbingmeiyoudiaojieqingxudenengli，yuyanbiaodamenglie，yancizhishang。chaojiazhihou，tamenyinggaimeiyouchangshizhelejieduifanglichanghuojianjie，yebuhuixunzhaojiejuewentidebanfa。quefayouxiaogoutongfangfahechulichongtudenengli，cushichaojiajinjinyicicideqingxiexintai，meiyouwanquanchuliwenti。

　　2. 爱情缺乏相对稳定的基本

　　yigejiankangdelianaiguanxikeyijianlizaiwendingdeqingxuqiantixia。danshi，chaojiadongbudongjiufenshoudelingyibantongchangmeiyouzheigejiben。zhengchaohechongtubuduanqinshizhetamenzhijianderentongheqinmigan，rangshuangfangdeqingxuchixushoushanghai。bingmeiyoupingwendeqingxujiben，ganqingwufazhagenfaya，gengnanchengshoushijiandexili。

　　3. 独立性和成熟情况的欠缺

　　chaojiawuyuanwugufenshoudexiaoqinglvjingchangquefadulixinghechengshuqingkuang。tamenyexuyikaolingyifanglaimanzuzijideyaoqiu，erbuyuanyijijichuliwentihuofuzeren。zheileibugouchengshuzuoshitaidugerenxingweijingchanghuijiazhongchaojiadechongtu，jinerzaochengfenshoudejuece。xuehuizili、wanshandichulishiqing，yeyouzhuyuchuangjiangengjiajiankang、laogudelianaiguanxi。

　　4. 缺乏耐心与了解

　　chaojiawuyuanwugufenshoudelingyibanhenrongyiyinweiqingxudebodongerquefareqinghelejie。tamentongchangzhizhuzhongzijidexiangfahetihui，meifasheshenchudidesikaowenti。quefareqinghelejie，cushitamenzhijiandemaodunyeyuelaiyueda，fenshoujihuchengleweiyidejiejuefangan。

　　5. 塑造健康的生活吵架方法

　　xiangyaogaibianchaojiawuyuanwugufenshoudeexingxunhuan，nannvxuyaopeiyangjiankangdeshenghuochaojiafangfa。zhuyaobaokuobawoshidudejiaoliufangshi，lingtingduifangjianjie，tanxunxiangtongdian。chucizhiwai，qinglvzhijianyeyingdangdongdeshidangdebaoronghekuanrong，jiqiruhebawozishenxuqiugenduifangyaoqiu。zaixuexizhongzheixiefangfa，tamennenggougenghaodiyingduichongtu，cujinguanxijiankangyouxufazhan。

　　zongdelaishuo，chaojiadongbudongjiufenshoudelingyibanchangzaigoutongjiaoliu、qingganyuchengshuqingkuangdengfangmiancunzainanti，zaochenglianxidelaoguxingmianlinweixian。jinyouzaixuexizhongyouxiaodegoutongfangfa，suzaozouxiangchengshudandudexintai，yijizengjiareqinghelejie，cainengbaituozheiyiexunhuan，jianliyigewendingerjiankangdeshenghuolianaiguanxi。