zailianaiguochengzhong,chaojiashizaisuonanmiande。dangchaojiayuelaiyuejilie,xintaiwufakongzhishi,fenshousihuchengweileweiyidechukou。keshizaizheigeshunjian,renmentongchangwujikeshi,buzhidaoruheheduifangkaizhanzuihoudedaobie。chaojiafenshouzenmeshuo?zheizhongqingkuangzishizhizhongyingxiangzhehenduoren。zhongjiu,fenshoushiyizhongjiqimingandewenti,yidingyaojinshendibiaodaguandian,tongshihaixuyaozhongshibierendeganshou。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia,xuanzeqiadangdeyanyu,lizhiertanchengdigoutongjiaoliu,yexukeyihuajiefenshoudejiongjing,chanshengneixindeningjing。wulunxuanzezenyangdefangshi,jianxinjinyouzhenzhihezhongshicaikeyirangbicijikeyilejiebicizhijiandejuece,youkezaijianglaiderilitouchixubaochiyouxiaodegoutongheyouqing。chaojiafenshou,suiranshiyigetongkudeguocheng,danshiyeshirenshengzhongxuehuichengzhanghetuoshanchuzhiganqingdezhongyaoshike。
处理吵架里的分手难点
chaojiafenshouzenmeshuo,chaojiashiqinglvjianbijiaochangjiandefenqiyoulai,dangchaojiashengjichengmeifashuhuandechengdushi,fenshousihuchengweilezaisuonanmianjieguo。danshi,yingduifenshouzheiyimingancihui,henduorenbuzhidaogairuhetuodangbiaodaguandian,zaochengfenshouquanguochengbiandeyuelaiyuetongchu。zaizheipianwenzhangzhong,womenjiangyaotantaoruhechulichaojialidefenshounandian,weinintigonghaoduogekexingdefangfa。
1. 冷静分析与情感互动
zaifenshouhuanjiezhong,lengjingfenxishishifenzhongyaode。dangchaojiagengxinshi,xintaitongchanghuishangzhang,bicinanyijinxingyouxiaogoutong。zheishi,dajiabixuxuehuimanxialai,lengjingfenxizijidexiangfayuxuqiu,weixiayibugoutongjiaoliuchongfenzhunbei。ranhou,dajiakeyixuanzeyigexiangduipinghedeshishikekeheduifangkaizhangoutongjiaoliu。zaizheiguochengzhong,womenyinggaitanchengdibiaodazijideganshouhegulv,yucitongshilingtinglingyifangdeshengxiang,yitongtanxunjiejuewentidefangfa。
2. 理解对方的决策
fenshoushiyizhongbenrenqueding,ruguoduifangbiaoxianlefenshoudexiangfa,womenyinggailijieduifangdejuece。jinguanzheigequedinghenyoukenengrangwomengandaonanguoheyihan,danshiwomenyinggaizhidao,renrendouyouzhaodaozijixingfudequanli。biebaoyuanhuoshizeguailingyifang,ershiyongzhongshidexintaijieshouzheizhongqueding。yucitongshi,womenyeyaokeshouyuanzehedixianzunxunyuanze,weihuzishendeliyiheshenxinjiankang。
3. 寻找第三方的协助
youshihou,zaichaojiafenshoudeqingxingxia,fuqiliangrenkenenghennanlizhidimianduikunnan。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia,xunzhaodisanfangdexiezhuhenyoukenengshiyigebucuodexuanze。nengtongguosouxungengzhuanyedeqingganzhuanjiahuofuqiganqingquanweizhuanjia,rangdajiazaizhongliderenwujiaosexiabangzhubicijinxingjiaoliuhejiejuewenti。tamennenggoutigongkeguanjianjieyujianyi,xiezhufuqiliangrengenghaodilejiebicizhijiandeyaoqiuhequedingshihebushihefenshou。
4. 维持尊重与友善
fenshoubingbudengyunenggoueyanxiangxianghuozhechengweiduishou。fanguolai,womenyaoyizunzhongyuyoushandexintaiwanbizheiyiduanganqing。zheiyangdexingweiyouzhuyubaochiyouxiaodegoutongheyouqing,tebieshizaigongtongyongyouzichanhuoshihaizidebiaoxianxia。chucizhiwai,weichizhongshidexintaishiduizijituibiandeyizhongzhongshi,shiwomenkeyigenghaodebaituozheiyiduanganqing,jixuqianjin。
汇总
chaojiafenshouzenmeshuo,chaojiafenshoushiyizhongkunhuohenduorendeyidananti,danwomentongguolengjingfenxi、qingganhudong、lijieduifanghexunzhaodisanfangxiezhudefangshilaijiejuezheiyiwenti。zuizhongyaodeshi,buguanzenyangqueding,womendouyaoyizhongshi、youshandexintaiwanbiganqing,jixuqianjin。fenshoujinjinganqingzhongyiduanwanbi,erbingbudaibiaorenshengchedijieshu,womenyinggaijianxin,weilaihaiyougengmeihaodexingfuzaidengdaizhedajia。
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