花镇情感咨询：LES爱情

　　dangliangrenzaichaojiazhongwufadachengyizhi，fenshoukenengbianchengleweiyidexuanze。keshi，chaojiafenshoudefangfaheguandianyeshiyaoshenzhongxuanzede。zenyangyongshiyideyanlun，rangairenlejiebingjinliangbusunhaibicizhijianni？chaojiafenshouzenmeshuochengweileyigezhongyaohuanjie。zaizheiguochengzhong，genjuzhenchengdejiaoliu、zhongshibierendeganshou、lizhikeguanxintai，dajiayexukeyijinliangbimiansunhai，jiduifangyigegongpingerpinghedebiaoshu。buguanzenyang，zuizhongyaodeshinengbaochizhongshi，bingqieyiyigechengshudexintaiyingduifenshoudejuece。

　　内心深处的担心：挣脱于吵架和分手

　　chaojiafenshouzenmeshuo，chaojiashiyizhongqingxufaxiedefangshi，danzaimouxieshihou，tajianghuichengweiliangrenmaixiangfenshoudedaohuosuo。dangwomenyudaozhengchao、bumanyihewujieshi，feichangrongyichenjinyuchaojiadexuanwozhong。xinlizishizhizhongdanxin，jiujingyinggaizenyangzaichaojiazhongbiaoshufenshoudexiangfa，neiyouzenyangzaifenshoushibimiangengduodeshanghaini？

　　柔和表述：用客观细腻语言交流

　　zaiquedingfenshoushi，yongkeguanxiniyuyanlaibiaodaguandianshishifenzhongyaode。jinliangshiyongchongdonghejuliedeyongyu，fanershiyiyizhonglizhi、keguanxintaixushuxinlidemimanghebumanyi。tongguogoutong，nengrangduifanglijieniqueding，bingyishidaochaojiayiduinimenzhijiandeguanxizaochengleshanghai。jinliangjianshaopipinghejingong，ershiyonghuihuadexingshichengxianziyideganshouhexiangfa，yiqiudadaoxiangduixingdiaojiededaodejieguo。

　　尊重对方：给对方空间和自尊

　　zaichaojiafenshoudeguochengdangzhong，zhongshibierendeganshouhezunyanshihenzhongyaode。quelibiaodanidequeding，danxuyaojibiciyidingkongjianheshijianlaijieshouzheizhongqueding。buyaoguoduzhuzhongzijidexiangfahezihaogan，fanguolai，yaochangshilejieduifanglichangyuqinggan，guanzhuyuzunzhongduifangdetiyan。weiyouruci，caikeyizaifenshoudeguochengdangzhong，baochiyidingdehepingyulijie，bimianjiangxianghuzhijiandezhengchaoshengjichengsunhai。

　　冷静分析：用理性来确定分手

　　chaojiatongchangshiqingxufaxie，danfenshouyeshixuyaolixingsuojuedingde。zaiquedingfenshouyiqian，yidingyaolengjingfenxi，sisuozheigeguanxihaiyoumeiyouwanliudekongjian，cunbucunzaizhangjiudenantinanyijiejue。ruguozhenqujueyufenshou，neijiuxuyaojiandingzijixinxin，erqiezaiquedingyiqianjiangudaofenshoudedaijia。lengjingfenxikeyibangzhuwomenlizhidiyingduifenshou，erqieyiyizhonggengchengshudefangshihelingyifangkaizhandaobie。

　　成长和学习：从吵架分手中吸取教训

　　chaojiafenshouyoukenengshiyiduanganqingdejieshu，danyeshiyicirenshengzhongdechengzhangyuxuexi。bulunshichaojiahuoshifenshou，doukeyirangwomencongzhongjiqujingyanjiaoxun，fanshengzijizaiganqingshangdebiaoxian，congzhongfaxianzishendebuzuyuchengzhangdehaojihui。chaojiafenshourangwomenyoujihuizhongxinshenshizijideguannianyuqidai，bangwomennenggougenghaodilejieziji，bianyuzaijiexialaideganqingzhonggengchengshuhelixingdijiejuenanti。

　　和平解决：友善的完毕争执与分手

　　chaojiafenshousuiranshiyizhongtongkuyunanyijieshoudekeguanshishi，danwomenrengrankeyitongguohepingdexingshiwanbizheiyiduanganqing。hepingjiejuebaohanjieshouduifangdejueceyuguandian，tanxunbicizhijiandexiangtongdian，yiyoushandexintaidaobie。bimianzhangqideguyidikanghezenghenxintai，ershizhijiejiangguoqushizuoyiduanhuiyi，jixuqianjin，tanxunxindexingfuyujihui。

　　自我疗愈：寻找适用和自我成长

　　zaichaojiafenshoudeguochengdangzhong，womenyebixujizijixunzhaozhichihezhiyu。zheijiangbaokuotanxunqinqipengyoudeshiyong，huoshixunqiuzhuanyedexinlishudao。genjuyutarenfenxiangzijidexiangfahegushi，womenkeyidedaojingshencengmiandeshiyong，bingyoujihuikaizhanziwofansihechengzhang。yucitongshi，yexuyaojizijiyixieshijianyukongjian，xunqiuxindeganqingjiyu，zaicixingchengzijiderichangshenghuo。

　　chaojiafenshouzenmeshuo，chaojiafenshoushiyiduanganqinglidetongchushishikeke，danwomentongguokeguangoutongjiaoliu、zunzhongduifang、lengjingfenxi、chengzhanghexuexi、hepingjiejueheziwoliaoyudefangshiqujiejue。fenshoujinguanshitongkude，danshiyeshichengzhangdehaojihui，yerangwomenjianqianghewanshandimianduiweilaideganqingkaoyan。