约会技巧：女生必看约会宝典

　　chaojiashiqingxujidonggennvpengyoutichufenshouhou，liangrenguanxixianrujiongjing。zheishi，qingyiyijingbeizhengzhihemaodunlongzhaozhe，qingxuyuelaiyuegengjiafanza。yinweiqingxudexiangfa，bianjuedingmingquetichufenshou，buguanbugubicizhijiandetiyanheweilaigailv。zheiyijuedingshidetamenxianrutongkuhewujinsisuo。cengjingdetianmiheqinmiwujianhaoxiangyixiazixiaotui，suizhierlaideshixianghujiandeshengshuhexintong。xianrujin，womenbixujienazijideqingxuhequeding，qinshenjinglitongkudefenshouquanguocheng，yexuzuizhongdouhuixunzhaofenbiechukou，congtoukaishizijishenghuo。

　　时钟频率反转：重回吵架在现场进行

　　zaiaiqingdelvxingzhong，chaojiashiwukebimiandeyibufen。bulunshiyouyusuoshisuoyinfadexiaozhengchao，yeshiyinweiwufadiaohedezhengyizaochengdazhengchao，chaojiashihoudeqingxujidongshiwomenchangchangzuochuchongdongqueding。yiqian，dangwomenqingxubeifengkuangnaonujianjiekongzhi，womencengbuguyiqiediduiyuwomendeairenjichulefenshou。danshi，rujin，shiwomenyiguanrendeshenfenfanzhuanshizhongpinlv，fanhuineiyigechaojiazaixianchangjinxing，shenruyanjiuzheigeshunjiandeneixinshenchu。

　　歪曲情绪：情绪起伏的导火线

　　chaojiashihoudeqingxujidonghaosiyikedaohuoxian，dianranledajiaxinlingshenchuyinnixujiudeqingxu。bulunshinaonu、xinhanhuoshibiequ，zheizhongwaiquqingxuzaimaodunxianghupengzhuangzhongyuelaiyuebunengcaozong。zaizheigeshunjian，dajiashiqulixingheningjing，guangguzheduilingyibandechizebaoyuanhe。fenshouzheiyijuedingrutongyijizhongquan，yishunjiancuihuilebenlaixiangduiwendingdeguanlian，erqiedaozhilewufaxiufuliefeng。

　　内心撕破：爱和分手的交错

　　dangqingxulveweihuifuchulai，rangwomenyiqilaishenshizijiqueding。fenshoudejuecehaoxianghaosichaojiaguochengdeyichangemeng，shiwomenneixinjuedesipo。dajiakaishikaolvshibushizhendexiangwanbizheiduanganqing，shibushizheigexuanzechuyuzhenshixinliyaoqiu，huoshizhishiyinweineiyikedeshiwanghebumanyisuozuochudebulizhizhishi。danshi，huiyihecaiyizengtianleshencengcideyihuo，shiwomenchennizaizishenmaodundexinxuzhong。

　　有效思考：分手的激发与根本原因

　　zaibingrongxiangjiandeqifenzhong，fenshouhaoxiangshiweiyidejiejuefangfa。keshi，zaiwomenpingjingxialai，huishouguoqudezhengzhihezhenglun，womenbunanfaxianfenshoujinjinzhishiduimaodunhekunhuobiaomianzhengzhi。dajiatihuidaolezheixiekaiqifenshoudenanti，yekaishikaolvtamendegenbenyuanyin。yexu，huodegengduolejiehejiaoliu，xunzhaojiejuewentifangshi，bidanyidefenshougengnengconggenbenshangjiejuetamensuomianlindewenti。

　　挥其他痛苦：放开手与从头开始

　　fenshousuodailaidetongkuheyihanshiwufataobide。womenbuzaishiairen、pengyouhuoqinmideguanxixiaohuoban。dajiamianduishenghuodangzhongkongqueyubumingque，wubijiandingdimaichuxiayibu。fenshoujiyuwomenzhongxinkaishidehaojihui，suirantongkuhezhengtuorengrancunzai，dajiazaimanmandongdehetamengongchu。zaizheiyangyigexindelvtuzhong，dajiayehuigengjiadongxizishen、tigaoziji，bingzhubuzhaodaoneixindeningjinghekuaile。

　　心存缺憾：重思与将来的概率

　　jibianfenshouyishikeguanshishi，womenxinliyirancunzaiquehan。dajiakukusisuo，ruguodangchuwomenpingjingxialai，kaizhangengshencengcidehuihuahetaolun，yexuyiqiedouhuibiandebuyiyang。danshi，huiguotouyibuhenyoukeneng，womenyinggaizhaodaoxindefangweiheweilaigailv。xuerunishuixingzhou，nishuixingzhou，aixicongqiandeyucitongshi，dajiayewubixiangqianzou，yonggandemianduiweizhidelvcheng。

　　chaojiashiqingxujidonggennvpengyoutichufenshouhou，womenyexuwufayuzhiweilaifazhan，danwomentongguosikaoyufazhan，maixianggenghaodemingtian。bulunshizaicixiufuguanxi、weichiyouqing，huoshixunmibenrendexinshidai，zheixiejinglijianghuichengweidajiachengzhangyuxuexichenggongjingyan。