情感故事：不是一结婚就会万事大吉了

　　nanpengyoubushuofenshou，haoxiangyifangdexinxubeiyanmaixiaqu，qiaowushengxidixunsumanyan。yiduanganqingdebuming，lingrencaixianghedanxinwanfen。zheishihou，dajiasisuotadechenmoshishayisi？shiwujikeshi，huoshihenbuxiaxinsunhai？yexu，taxuanzelemomopeiban，yexu，yongyouxianweirenzhideshenkehanyi。buguanzenyang，yonggandemiandui，yongxingoutong，huoxunengbokaimiwu，jiandaobicizhijianneixinshenchudeneixinxiangfa。youyu，zhenzhengdeaiqing，bixuzhenchenghexinrendezhongyaoqianti。

　　1. 沉默承担

　　nanpengyoubushuofenshou，tadechenmowuyanhaosiyimianlengbingbingdeqiang，lijiyingmianerlai。nikenenghuizhiyizijiyouhuoli，neixinchongchizhekongjuhezaodongbuan。nixiwangtazhenchengjinerdui，duinishuofashengshenmeshi，dantaxuanzelezhuanglongzuoya。nikeyiganshoudaowujinwoxuan，kunyuzaluandezhuangtaizhong，changshilijietaxinlizhuangtai。zheileichenmochengdan，shinidedaolecongweiyouguodemolian，xiangyaonigengweiwanqianghelizhilaimiandui。

　　2. 藏于的情绪

　　nanpengyoubushuofenshou，yexutawangwangbaochichenmo，shiyouyuzaitaxinlingshenchuyiranyongyoushenshendiqingxu。huoxutamishileziwo，huoxutazhengzaoshouzhenanaohezhengtuo。bushuofenshou，bingbushidaibiaotaxiangwanbizheiyiduanganqing，fanershiduifangduiniyongyouteshuyilaihezhenxi。tahuoxuxiangxiufuguanxi，huoshitanxunyizhongxinderenzhihexiangtongdian。yiner，yaodongdeyongxinqulejietademomodi，quchuaicetaxindideshengyin，shichuzuiwennuandeguanaiyubaorong。

　　3. 沟通的必要性

　　nanpengyoubushuofenshou，zheiyichangchenmozhanshixiangyaonizaicishulilianxideyundongguiji。goutongbianchenglezhongyaodeyihuan，bulunshibiciyichengxiangdai，huoshihuihualideyongxinqingting。changkaixinfei，yingyongtichuwentihedanxin，yiqiuquxianghuzhijiandelijiedegongshi。huoxu，taduizheiyiduanganqingdemimanghechiyi，weiyoutongguochengxinyouhenchongchizhenongnongdeaiyihuihua，caihuidedaojieshi。qingxiangxin，goutonghelijiejiushisuoyouguanximaixiangjiankangyupingwendeqiantitiaojian。

　　4. 维持自我独立

　　nanpengyoubushuofenshou，budaibiaoniyaoquanmianxianrumimanghewufakongzhi。dangmianduizheizhongjumianshi，weichiziwodulihexuehuisikaoshishifenzhongyaode。bubichediyilaitadehuifuhequeding，ershiyinggaixuehuizhaoguzijidetiyanyuxuqiu。fengfuzijiderichangshenghuo，tanxunyifenguishuyuzijidexingfuhechengjiugan。nanpengyoudechenmowuyanbushiniduiganqingdeweiyixuanze，bawozijideaiqingyuweilai，caikeyibaituomiwu，zhaodaozijidehuida。

　　5. 恪守信任和情意

　　nanpengyoubushuofenshou，bingbudengyutapanbianhuoshifangqini。fanguolai，zheileichenmowuyankenengshiwochangshishouhunigenziji。zaizheigeshike，yaoyuanyixiangxintadeyongyihedongyin，jiyuduifangchongzukongjianheshijianqujiejueneixinshenchudeenyuan。yucitongshi，yaokeshouxinrenheaiyi，buyaobacaiyihezhizeqingxuewaitashenshang。jianxinaideliliang，jianxinnimendeguanxichengzhiganqing，yiqimianduikunjing，yiqitanxundaodabiandelu。

　　nanpengyoubushuofenshou，zheishiyizhongwushenganshizhe，shiyiduanganqingjiangyaozuochujuedingxinhao。zaizheiyangyigezhongyaoguantou，yidingyaoxuehuilixingsikaohenaixindedengdai。genjugoutongyulijie，quzhaoxunhuidahejiejuefangfa。buguanjieguoruhe，womendouhuixiangxinyuanfennengjiwomenshangtiandeanpai，jinyoujiandingdeaiyuxinyang，caikeyitaguozheiyikunnan，mairugengmeihaodemingtian。