春节相亲成功的指数有多高？测试一下就知道

　　nanpengyoushengqiyaofenshouzenmewanhui，dangnanyouyouyuzhongzhongyuanyinqifenbingqiebiaoshiyaofenshoushi，womenyexukunhuobuyihexinteng。danshi，wanhuiyiduanganqingbingbushigenbenbukeneng。dangmianduicizhuangkuangshi，dajiaxuyaocaiqujijizhudongduicequjiejuewenti，baohan：tanchengjiaoliu，qingtingbierendeganshouhejianyi；sikaozishenwentibingzuochudiaozheng；zhongjianxinrenyuhudong，bingzhanxianchuduibicideguanhuaihelejie。genjuzhenchengyunulidexingshi，womennengjiejinquanliwanhuiqifenfenshoudenanyou，jianlixindeshenxinjiankangerxiangduiwendingdeganqing。

　　挽回气愤分手的男友——保持冷静，呈现真心实意

　　nanpengyoushengqiyaofenshouzenmewanhui，zaiyiduanganqingzhong，maodunhechaojiashiwufabimiande。dangnanyouyouyuzhongzhongyuanyinqifenbingjichuyaofenshoushi，nikenenghuijuedexinhuiyilenghetongku。danshi，wanhuitadeneixinbingxunzhaofujianganqingdehaojihuibingbushigenbenbukeneng。zaiduiyuzheiyangdezhuangkuangshi，dajiashouxianjiuyaobaochilengjing。

　　zuoweiyigeairen，womenzijidexintaihuoxushoudaoyingxiang，danbunengrangchongdongxintaicaozongzishen。cike，womenyaodiaojieqingxu，fangzhijiduanxingweiheshuohuasunhai，youyuqingxingdesikaoyuxingwei，cainengrangzijihuifuguolaigoutongjiaoliu，congergenghaodijiejuezheizhongqingkuang。

　　倾听她的感受——了解对方立场

　　zaibaochilengjingdeqiantixia，dajiayidingyaozhaodaoheshideshijianyunanyouzhenchengdikaizhanzhenzhidegoutongjiaoliu。bingbuyiweizhewomenyaoyiweizhiqianhuodisanxiasi。fanguolai，womenyaochuandachuduiyutadeqifenhefenshoujuedingdelejie，erqiezhanxianduitaganzhideguanxin。

　　zaizheiyangyigetanhuazhong，zuizhongyaodeshiyaoqingtingnanyoudelichanghetihui。womenyinggaizhenxinchengyijienatadejianyi，jinkenenglizaitadejiaodulailejietadeguandian。genjuqingting，womenkeyigenghaodelejietadexinliyaoqiu，yincixunzhaojiejuewentifangwei。

　　思考自身问题——成长与改变

　　yiyangzuizhongyaodeshi，womenyinggaifanshengzijizaineiduanganqingzhongcunzaidewenti。yexuwomenzijideyantanjuzhizaihenduofangmianyouyidingdebuheli，jinanyoudaozhilekunhuohuosunhai。yiner，womenyaoyongyuchengrenzijidewenti，bingjichushizhishangdegenggai。

　　ziwofanshengbingbushiweilekuijiuhuofangqilezijideyuanzedixian，ershiyinggaizhuixunziwofazhan，chengweigenghaoderen。dangnanyoukandaoweilegaishanerfendoushi，huoxunenggouganshoudaowomenzijidechengxinbingshenzhongkaolvfenshoudejuece。

　　重建信任与互动——呈现对于他的关注

　　zaiwanhuinanyoudeguochengdangzhong，zhongjianxinrenyuhudongshizhongyaohuanjie。womenyinggaijijizhudongnulidequhetaqudelianxi，zhongxinhuidaoguoqushuxideyouhaoheqinmideguanxixiangchumoshixia。

　　genjutitajiyuzhichi、guanhuaihelejie，womenjiangyaomanmanhuodetadexinlai。chucizhiwai，womenyekeyizhaoyixieyitongdereqinghuodong，tishengbicizhijianzhijiandegoutong，shiganqinghuodejinyibujiashen。

　　汇总

　　nanpengyoushengqiyaofenshouzenmewanhui，zaiganqingpengdaoquzheshi，womenyinggaibaochilengjingbingqieyichengkendetaiduqumiandui。genjuqingtingtadeganshou，sikaozishenwenti，zhongjianxinrenyuhudong，dajiakeyishizhewanhuiqifenfenshoudenanyou。renjiguanxixiubuxuyaoyiduanshijianyunuli，danshizhiyaoshizhongjianchibingweizhierfendou，huoxukeyizhaohuishiqudeaiyuxingfu。