12星座女如何应对男友变心

　　nanrenhenifenshoushibuailema，dangnanrenhenifenshoushi，nishibushicengyihuoguoduifangshifouhaiaizheni？zheizhongqingkuangkunraozhehenduonvxingpengyou。danshi，ganqingbingbushiweiyizaochengfenshoudezhuyaoyuanyin。fenshoukenengshiyinweigezhongxingzhuangdezhibiaohezhuangkuangerzhi。youshihou，nanrenfenshoujiushiyinweitamenbuhuizaiaini，danshiyeyoukenengshiyinweitamenshenchukunjinghuozhuixungerentisheng。zhangwonanrenhenifenshoudegenbenyuanyinxuyaogengduogoutongjiaoliuyusikao。zhenchengdeduitannenggoujieluchuzheilimiandedongyinhezhenshitiyan。weiyoutongguolejiebicizhijiandeyaoqiuheqingxu，dajiacainengzuodaozhenzhengfenbiannanrenfenshoushibushibiaomingbuhuizaiaini。

　　nanrenfenshoudeyuanyinshiyinweigezhonggeyangde，youshikenengbingbushiyouyubuhuizaiaini。jiexialaijiangtaolunnanrenfenshouzheijizhonghenyoukenengyuangu。

　　1. 理性决策：自我提升

　　nanrenhenifenshoushibuailema，youshihounanrendouhuixuanzefenshouchuyulizhituibiandekaolvdao。tamenkenengjuedezheihuiduibicigengqiang，yinweitamenbixuzhuanzhuzijishiye、keyehuogerentisheng。bingbuyiweizhetamenbingbuaini，ershixiangzhuiqiudemubiaohelixiang。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，fenshoujiushiweilezhuixunziwofazhanqushigengjiachengshu。

　　2. 并没有共同的目标：价值观差异

　　youshihounanrenhenifenshoushiyouyufajuebicizhijiandeguannianyousuochayi。zheikenengshiyouguangongzuo、jiazhong、hunyinshenghuohuoqitaguanjianguanlijuececengmiandechabie。dangliangrenbukeyizaizheizhongguanjianzheigewentishangdachengyizhishi，tamenwangwanghuixuanzefenli，yifangzhijianglaidemaodunhebuyue。

　　3. 没有沟通与支持：欠缺情绪相互连接

　　zhenduiyiduanguanxieryan，goutongyushiyongshishifenzhongyaode。jiarunanrenjuedezaizheiyifangmianqianquedadaohuowufadedaochongzudelijieyuzhichi，tamenwangwanghuixuanzefenshou。tamenyexuganjuedajiajiandeganqingxianghulianjiezaoyishengshu，huoshibunengmanzubicizhijiandexuyao。

　　4. 诚信和尊重：爱的表达

　　youshihounanrenfenshoujiushiyinweitamenzaiganqingshangbuhuizaizijintouru。tamenkenengjuedetamenwufajiyuniyinggaiyoudeaiyuguanzhu，suoyixuanzelefenshou。tamenyexurenweizheishiduizijidegengqiangdexingshi，youyutamenbuyuanyirangnidailaigengduosunhaihuoxinhan。

　　5.热情消退：爱的损耗

　　ganqingquzhuxingwuchang，youshihounanrendereqinghenyoukenengsuizheshijiantuiyierjiangdi。bingbuyiweizhetamenbuhuizaiaini，fanershiduiaiqingdejuedemanmanxiaochu。tamenyexuzhujianzhongxinshenshilianggerendeganqing，bingzuizhongxuanzeleliqu。

　　6. 不可避免造成的伤害：无法挽救问题

　　youshihounanrentiaoxuanfenshouzheishiyinweizaiguanxilichuxianlewufawanhuizaochengdeshanghaihuonanti，zaiyewufaxiubu。zheihuishejidaopanbian、mengpianhuoqitaganqingzhongdexingweizhangai。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，nanrenkenengrenweizheishizuihaodexuanze，yifangzhijinyibudekuchuxingshanghai。

　　nanrenhenifenshoushibuailema，zongtilaishuo，nanrenfenshoubingbuyidingdaibiaotamenbuhuizaiaini。fenshoudezhuyaoyuanyinkenengshigegefangmiande，baohangerentisheng、jiazhiguanchayi、goutongyushiyongdequeshi、aidesunhaojiqiwufawanjiuwenti。lejienanrenfenshoudezhuyaoyuanyinbixushencengcidesikaoyutanxun，weiyoutongguozhenzhenzhengzhengdejiaoliuheshujugongxianglejie，cainengzhenzhengdezhangwobicizhijiandezhenzhenzhengzhengtihuiheyaoqiu，jinyibufenbianduifangshifouhaiaini。