历经四个月的努力付出 最终挽回前男友

　　fuqixiangchuqigeyuanzejiushiweilexiezhufufujianlipinganwendingzhijiandeguanxi。zheiqigeyuanzehangailexianghulijie、youxiaodegoutong、huxiangbaorongdengduogefangmian。genjuzunzhaozheizhongyuanze，fufunengyouxiaohuajiemaodunhekunhuo，tigaobicizhijiandexianghuxinrenhemoqi。zunzhongshisuzaoyouliangguanliandeqianti，erjiaoliushiweichixinlingjiaoliudeguanjiansuozai。zaihuxiangbaorongdeqiantixia，fufubixuzhanxianguanaihelejie，jianligongtongdemubiaohejihua，bingxianghufuchihemanzulingyifang。zheizhongyuanzeshijiantansuojiangdaozhifuqideshenghuogengweichongmankuailehemeihao。

　　建立平安稳定的夫妻关系

　　fuqixiangchuqigeyuanzejiushiweilexiezhufufujianlipinganwendingzhijiandeguanxi，shibicizhijiandeganqingshenghuogengweixingfukuaile。zairichangrichangshenghuo，womenkeyizunzhaoxialieyuanze：

　　相互理解与尊重个体差异

　　zaifuqiguanxizhong，xianghulijieshihenzhongyaode。womenyaozhongshibierendeganshou、jianyihetiaoxuan，busuibianzhizehuowumielingyifang。yucitongshi，womenyeyinggaizunzhongduifangdechabie，yishidaorenrendouyoubuyiyangxiangfaheaihao，dongdexianghuzhijianzunzhonghelijie。

　　积极主动且有效沟通

　　jiaoliushifuqiguanxizhongdezhongyaoyinsuzhiyi。womenyinggaiqingtingduifangjianyiyuxuqiu，biaoshuzijidexiangfaheqidai。liyongjijizhudongqiegaoxiaodigoutongjiaoliu，womenkeyigengqieshijiejuenanti、qingchuwuhui，tigaofuqijiandelejieherenke。

　　建立共同目标和计划

　　fuqijiandeguanliangengjinmizhangqiwending，dangtamenyougongtongmubiaohejihua。womenkeyiyitongzhidingbenrenyujiatingmubiao，bingqieweiwanchengzheigemubiaoerfendou。zheimezuobudankeyizengqiangfuqijiandejindu，yekeyizengqiangbicizhijiandequdonglituanduihezuojingshen。

　　相互扶持和讨好

　　zaifuqiguanxizhong，xianghufuchishihenzhongyaode。womenyaoxianghuxinrenduifangmengxiangyulixiang，bulunshizaigongzuoshanghaishigerenchengzhangshang。yucitongshi，womenyeyinggaijiejinquanlitaohaolingyifang，guanzhubicizhijiandexuyao，bingbuduanweibicizaojiuxingfudeshenghuoziranhuanjing。

　　塑造默契和忍受

　　fuqijiandemoqiherenshouyaozaixiangchuguochengzhongmanmanpeiyuhetigaode。dajiabixuxuehuilijielingyifang，lejiebicizhijiandeyaoqiuhegongzuoyali，bingrenzhenjiejuemaodunhezhengduan。genjusuzaomoqiherenshou，fuqiguanxinenggougengwendinghehemu。

　　维持爱的激情

　　fuqiguanxizhongdezhongyaoyinsuzhiyishiweichiaidejiqing。womenyaomiqieguanzhuduifangjingshenxuqiu，weichiaidebiaodafangshiheqinmijiechu。genjuzhangjiudeaidejiqing，fuqijiandeguanliankeyigengjiangudijianlixiaqu。

　　定期开展回望和优化

　　fuqiguanxiyaodingqikaizhanhuiwangheyouhua。womenkeyianshihuiwangliangrendeguanxi，pingdingwomenzijidejinduhecunzaidewenti。genjubuduanwanshanyufazhan，womenkeyijianligengjiankang、wendingqiexingfukuailedefuqiguanxi。

　　zongeryanzhi，fuqixiangchuqigeyuanzeshijianlipinganwendingdefuqiguanxideguanjiansuozai。bingchizhexianghulijie、miqiegoutong、gongtongdemubiao、xianghufuchi、moqirenshou、weichiaidejiqingjiqianshihuiwangheyouhuazheizhongyuanze，womenkeyigoujianyigexingfukuailedeganqingshenghuo。