你爱上凤凰男的概率有多高？

　　chuguidenanrenhaihuiaizijidelaopoma，zaihunyinguanxili，chuguidenanrenshibushihaihuixiangyouduilaopodeqingyichengweileyigebaoshouzhengyidechuti。henduorenhuaiyi，panbianhewaiyushifouyiweizheduihunyindebeichi，danshiyeyouxiangshengjuede，waiyubingfeiquanpanfoudingletaduiqizideqing。zheizhongqingkuangyinqileshenrufenxi，qianshedaorenxingdefuzayumaodun，yebangdajiajichulesisuo、sikaoyijiduiyuhunyinlianxidezhongxinsikaodehaojihui。

　　前言： hunyinshiyizhongfuwuchengnuohehetong，danshi，waiyuyibanbeichengzuopanbianhunyindejudong。zheiyinqileyigeyouyisierfuzawenti：chuguidenanrenshibushiyiranduizishendeqizihuaizheqingyi？zheizhongqingkuangyinqileguangfantantao，qianshedaorendebenxing、daodeyuaiqingdeduofangmiannanti。

　　随着受伤的叛变：

　　chuguidenanrenhaihuiaizijidelaopoma，waiyuyibanduishoushangqizizaochengjidadetongkuyusunhai。panbianshitamenzhiyizijizaihunyinzhongdezhongyaoxingyujiazhi。danshi，chuguidenanrenhenyoukenengyiranaitadeqizi。kenengjiushiyinweitamenhaizaixunzhaosuoquefadewupin，huozheyinweitamenxianruyizhongziwoqipianqingxu，woxiwangninengbingqieyongyou2geguanlian。wulunshinazhongyuangu，aideneimeshenyibanbeiyanmaizaipanbiandejudonghejiahuadeyinyingzhixia，biandefuzaercuoluan。

　　自私自利和责任的矛盾：

　　waiyutongchangbeichengzuozisiziligerenxingwei，yinweitajianggerendebenxingfangdaohunyinyujiatingliyiyishang。danshi，jibianchuguidenanrenduizishendeqizirengranxingfu，tamenyeyoukenengchennizaineixindeyuwanghezerenjiandemaodunzhong。tamenyexuchangshiweichierzhedejunheng，erwangwangjinerdaozhiqizidekuchuxingshanghai。zheileimaoduntixianlerenxingdefuzaxingyuduigexinghuaxuqiudexiangwang。

　　冲动与满足引诱：

　　waiyuyibanqianshedaoduibierendeyingxianglihexingyuwangyouhuo。nanshenghenyoukenengxianruyizhongchimizhuangtai，xiwangyongheqitarenchuangjianfangshilaimanzuzijiwulixuehejingshenxuqiu。danshi，bingbuyiweizhetamenbuzaiaiqizi。aigenchongdongbingbuyidingshiwanquanpipei，ganqingbunengwanquancaozonghexiaochurenleideyuwang。chuguidenanrenhenyoukenengyiranaiqizi，danzaihenduofangmianquenanyididangyouhuo。

　　复建与自我提升的好机会：

　　suiranpanbianjiqizidailailejidadetongchu，danshiduiyuchuguidenanreneryan，zheiyeshiyigefujianzijiyuhunyindehaojihui。yingduihouhuimojiheneijiu，takenenghuishizherenqingzijibuzhengquebingfuzeren，yucitongshitongguodiaojieyuchengzhanglaifujianhunyin。zheizhongqinfenyoukenengshijiyuduiqizidezhenchengqingyi，yijiduiyuhunyinyujiatingjianglaideqidai。

　　结束语：

　　chuguidenanrenhaihuiaizijidelaopoma，chuguidenanrenshibushiyiranaiqizishiyigefuzawenti，bingmeiyoujiandanhuida。meiyigeshilidouyaochongfenkaolvduozhongyaosu，baohanchengxin、zhongshi、zerenxinheduihunyinchengnuo。hunyinbixulejie、baoronghenulidequxiufufujian。zuihou，zaicigoujianqixianghuzhijiandexinrenheaiyihenyoukenengxuyaoyiduanshijian、nuliyuzhenchenggenggai。