相亲技巧：怎么判断相亲是否成功？

　　mianduizhangfuchuguidekuchu，qizimenjingchanggandaowulihedanyou。danshi，zuizhongyaodeshiyaozhaodaojiejuewentidefangfa，erfeishenxianwujindetongkuzhong。dangmianduizheiyangdeshiqingshi，xifuyingdangningjingsisuo，chongzubiaoshuzijideqingxu，binghezhangfukaizhanwanshandeduitan。genjugoutongyulingting，zhangwozaochengchuguidezhuyaoyuanyin，binggongtongtanxunjiejuefangfa。yucitongshi，qizihaiyingdangguanxinzijineixinyaoqiu，yikaoyujiatinggerenshiyongguanlitixi，fujianzizunxinhexinren，weijiarenxunzhaoyigegenghexiehexingfudeweilai。neiyang，cainengzuodaozhenzhengmianduibingchuli“nanrenzaiwaimianchuguilaopoyinggaizenmeban”dejiongjing。

　　婚后出轨叛变：妻子的内心重挫

　　nanrenzaiwaimianchugui，duiqizieryan，zheishiyicixinlingshenchudezhongcuo。takenengqinshenjinglinaonu、xinhan、youshangheneijiudenggezhongqingxu。mianduizheizhongjushi，qiziyingruheyingduini？zenyangzaikunanzhongzhaodaoshuyuzijidefazhanfangxiang？

　　保持冷静：调节情绪，心平气和的面对实际

　　dangqizifajuezhangfuchuguishi，diyifanyingtongchangshishiwanghexingfen。danshi，weilenengjiejuezheiyangdeshiqing，qizibixubaochilengjing。taxuyaoyouyiduanshijianduziyirenpingjingxialai，kongzhihaozijideqingxu，fangzhizuochupianjidejudonghuoyanyu。zhihuizailizhizhuangtaixia，tacainenggenghaodemianduishiji，zuochumingzhidexuanzeguanlijuece。

　　交流和聆听：坦诚相见地聊一聊

　　mianduichuguidezhangfu，qiziyingdanghetakaizhanzhenxinshiyierduiwaikaifangdeduitan。tanengbiaoshuzijidexiangfahegulv，tongshihaiyaolingtingzhangfudemiaoshu。zaizheiguochengzhong，qizibixubaochilengjing，zuihaoyilixingdexingshijinxinggoutongjiaoliu。biciyingdangchangshilejieduifanglichanghetihui，bingtanxunjiejuewentidebanfa。

　　找到根本原因：探索出轨的主要原因

　　chuguibingbujinjinshiyigebiaocengdenanti，takenengshishencengcidewentitixian。qiziyingdangchangshizhaodaozaochengchuguidezhuyaoyuanyin，youkenengshifuqiganqingchuwenti、hunyinshenghuoshenxianrichanglingsuizhonghuozhegerentishenghefazhandexuyao。genjushenrufenxiyulijie，qizihezhangfukeyigenghaodelejiebicizhijian，bingchedijiejue。

　　复建信任：一个持久的全过程

　　chuguipanbianhuisunhaifuqizhijiandexinren，erxinrendegaizaoxuyaoyiduanshijianyunuli。qizibixuduizhangfumingquetichuquelideqidaihejiexian，tongshiyaoqiutafuzhuxingdonglaizaicihuodexinren。bicinenggouyitongzhidingguize、tishengyouhaoduheqingxidu，genjuzhangshijianjianchiyuyouxiaodegoutong，manmanfujianheqianghuaxianghujiandexinren。

　　关心个人需求：探寻本人平衡与快乐

　　dangqizimianduizhangfudechuguishi，taxuyaokaolvzijineixinyaoqiu。tanengtanxundalizhichihekuanweiziyuan，ruqinren、pengyouhuozhezhuanyexinlizixun。yucitongshi，tanengfazhanqushigerenxingquaihao，tishengzishendezizunxinhezijuexing。genjuguanxingerenxuqiu，qizikeyizaitongchudeguochengdangzhongxunzhaoyidingpinghengyukuaile。

　　重构关联：为家人寻找和睦和幸福的未来

　　mianduichugui，qizihezhangfudouyaoxiangzheruhezhonggouliangrendeguanxi。tamennenggougongtongfendou，xunzhaofuqiganqingdegaishanhetisheng。zhuyaobaokuoxianghuzhijianlingting、baorongyushiyong，bingtongguoyitongzhengtiguihua、chuangjiangongtongdemubiaolaijiaqiangfuqizhijiandelianluo。weiyoutongguobicizhijiandeqinfen，caikeyiweijiarenxunzhaoyigegenghexiehexingfudeweilai。

　　zaimiandui“nanrenzaiwaimianchuguilaopoyinggaizenmeban”dekunjingshi，qizibixubaochilengjing、goutongyulingting、zhaodaogenbenyuanyin、fujianxinren、guanxingerenxuqiujiqizhonggouguanlian。zheishiyiduanjianxinlvcheng，danshiyeshiqizizhongshizishendehaojihui，weijiarenchuangzaoyigegenghaodemingtian。