怎样使自己的情商变高？

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一、怎样使自己的情商变高？

1、duogenbizijinianzhangderenjiaotan

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2、要有自己的原则

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3、yaoxuehuichushiwaiyuanneifang

 womenzairichangshenghuozhongyaojinliangbimianhebierenchanshengmoca，yinweichaojiahenshangganqing，tongshiyeshangshenti，womenyaoxuehuichushiyuanhuayidian，zheiyangcainengyubierenxiangchuhao，dangranyebushiyiweidirenrang，womenbixuhaiyaoyouzijideyuanzehedixian。

4、多听父母的话

 fumushiquantianxiazuiaiwomenderen，duotingfumudehuameiyoucuo，yinweitamenshuodemeiyijuhuadoushishishizaizaideweiwomenzhexiang，suoyiwomenyaojingchanghefumuliaotian，xuehuifumuzuoshifangfadeyoushi。

5、要学会感恩

 zuorenyaoxuehuiyongyouyikeganendexin，buyaoduibierenyaoqiudetaiduo，zheiyangzijibujinhuilei，bierenyehuigenzhehenlei。womenyinggaixuehuifaxianbierenduiwomendehaoranhouquganenbierenweiwomensuozuodeyiqie，zheiyangbierenhuifeichangleyibangzhuwomende，zheimezuoyehuizengjiawomendeqingshang。

6、yaoyouzijizhengquederenshengguanhejiazhiguan

 zenyangshizijideqingshangbiangao？meigerendouxuyaolejiezijixiangyaoshenme，bingqiegaizenmezuocainengdedaota，bixuyouzijizhengquederenshengguanhejiazhiguan，zheixiehuibangzhuwomenchengweiyigegengyouxiuderen。ruguobuzhidaozijixiangyaoshenme，womenkeyimeitianhuashangyigexiaoshiwenwenzijijiujingxiangyaoshenme，zheiyangwomenlejiezijixiangyaoshenmele。

7、学会看人

 qingshanggaoderenshifeichangshanyuhezuode，suoyiwomenwomenyidingyaoxuehuikanren，xuehuikanrenshiyigefeichanghuanmandexuexiguocheng，youderenkenengyibeizidoumeiyouxuehui，danshihaishiyaonulixue，xuehuikanrenkeyibangwomenjiaodaozhiyou，xuehuikanrenshiyigexixipinweideguocheng，xiangjiuyiyang，zhiyouhedaozuihoucainengpinweichutadechunxiang。