经营高攀的婚姻，降低PU才是王道

　　zhichuguinanrenzuihaodebanfa，liyingconggenyuanshangxiashou，shencengcijiepouxuechuguideyuanyin，yucitongshizhongshiduiqishenglixinliqingganshangdeliaoyu。zuixian，chuangjianzhenchenghexinlaidexiediaojizhi，suzaoshenxinjiankangdejiaoliuxiguanxing，rangnanrendakaixinfeibiaoshuneixinqiangliebumanyuxuqiu。cizhi，tishengyujiatingfuqiganqingdejibenjianshe，cujinganqingheyouhaodu，zaojiuhemudejiatingziranhuanjing。yucitongshi，yexuyaosuzaonanrendezerenxinhezerenyishi，tishengqiduiyuhunyindezhenxiyuzunzhong。zuizhong，tigongzhuanyedexinlifudaohezhidaoshiyong，xiezhunanrenchulineixindemimanghemaodun，bianchenggengqiangdelaogongyufuqin，wanchenghunyindehemuhemeihao。

　　探索内心动因：鉴别深层原因

　　zhichuguinanrenzuihaodebanfa，duizhiliaowaiyunanrenzuiyouxiaodefangfa，womenyaocongtansuoqineixindongyinxiashou。panbiantongchangbudandanshiyishidechongdong，tayibanshenhouyunzangzheshencengcidenanti。yiner，womenyinggaijianbieshencengyuanyin，cainengfaxianshihedeliaoyufangshi。

　　waiyuzhuangkuanghenyoukenengyuanyuhegerenjingshenxuqiudebuyizhihuohunyinlianxidenanti。yixienanrenhenyoukenengqipantansuoxindecijixing、tansuozishendequanli。zheiyangdeqingkuangxia，dajiayingtongguojilinanrenfengfuzijidesirenshenghuo，tanxunshenxinpinghengqumanzuyonghudexuqiu。

　　biedenanrenkenenghuizaihunyinzhongjuedebeihulve、bumanyihuobubeirenlijie。yiner，dajiayingjiaqiangxianghuzhijiandegoutongyulejie，yingzaoyigeduiwaikaifangerzhenshiqifen。chuangjianchuanqizhifuchengxuhegongtongaihao，nenggoubangzhunanrenchongfenmanzutadejingshenxuqiu，binghelingyibanchuangjianshencengcideguanlian。

　　重建信任：搭建牢固的前提

　　chuguitongchangzaochengxinlailiekai。yiner，zhongjianxinrenshiquanyubingbimianzaicichuxianwaiyudezhongyao。zuixian，kuanrongshifujianxinrendeqianti。lingyibanbixulingtingnanrendeneixinxuqiu，bingbiaoshulijiehebaorong。yucitongshi，nanrenyeyidingyaoduibuzhengquechengdan，qieyaochixuzhengmingzijigenggai。

　　chuangjianqueliguizehejiexianyeshifeichangzhongyaode。chedigaibianhunyindeguannianhewanshan，quelibicizhijiandeyiwuhezeren，yijiduichuguidelingrongrentaidu。zheikeyiweihunyinguanliantigongyigelaogudeqianti，bingbimianzaicichuxianpanbiangerenxingwei。

　　心理状态疗愈：帮助其应对内心的疑惑

　　panbiangerenxingweinengjinanrenchanshengneixindemimanghefuzuigan。yiner，xinlizhuangtailiaoyushibangzhuqijiejuechuguideguanjiansuozaizhiyi。tongguozishenxinlifudaohexinliliaofa，nanrenkeyitansuoneixindongji、chuliqingxujiaolv，bingsuzaogengjiankangdeqingganjiazhiguan。

　　xinlizhuangtailiaoyudeyigeguochengbixulejienanrenzaipanbiangerenxingweizhonghuijingliguodezhengtuohebuliangyingxiang，yindaoxueshengtanxunziworentongganhechedigaibianzishenshenfenjiyu。jilinanrenjienazijidenanti，bingjiyuzhichiheyindao，bangzhuqizhujianfujianzixinyuneixinpingheng。

　　塑造积极主动转变：迈向和睦和幸福

　　zuihou，quanyuwaiyunanrendezuihaofangshiweipeiyangjijizhudongdegaibianyuchengzhang。nanrenyingdangjijixunzhaoziwotishengdehaojihui，zaixuexizhonghexuexi，tishengzishenjiazhiyujineng。yucitongshi，yexuyaosuzaojijizhudongdegerenaihao，yujiatingzhuyaochengyuanyitongchuandikuailehegushi。

　　zaihunyinzhong，nanrenbixudongdegaoduzhongshihunyindebiyaoxing，bingzijintourushijianjinglilaiweichiyufazhanhunyinguanlian。jijikaizhanjiatingwenti、guanxinbanlvdeyaoqiu，bingzaojiumeihaohewenxindeshikedounenggouxiezhunanrenwanchenghemuerxingfudehunyin。

　　汇总

　　zhichuguinanrenzuihaodebanfa，quanyuwaiyunanrenzuihaodefangfashiduocengcide，bixucongneixindongyinxiashou，zhongjianxinren，kaizhanxinlizhuangtailiaoyu，bingsuzaojijizhudongdegaibian。zheigefangfalianhezuoyong，keyibangzhunanrenyishidaozijidebuzhengquebingxunzhaogenggai，wanchenghunyindehemuhexingfu。