duiyuchuguidenanrenzenmechuli,zhenduichuguidenansheng,chulifangfabixuchongfenkaolvzhuangkuangyuzishentihui。shouxianlengjingfenxi,zhangwochuguideyuanyinjiqibeihoudenanti。suihou,nenggouheduifangkaizhanzhenchengdegoutong,biaodazijijianjiehetihui,bingxunqiujiejuewentifangshi。yucitongshi,baochilixinghelixing,jinliangbuyaozuochujueding。zhongjianxinrenshiyigezhangqideguocheng,danyexuyaokaolvdaozijideaiqinggenduifangdezhenxinshiyigenggai。zuihou,jiejuechuguiwentijianshoudixian,tongshihaiyaoweilenengbicizhijianxingfuyujiatingweilaidefazhanerfendou。
1. 认清客观事实,接受现实
duiyuchuguidenanrenzenmechuli,ruguofaxiannanshengchuguideshishishi,shouxianyaopingjingxialai,renqingcunzaidezhuangkuang,bingyishidaolezheishiyigeshijicunzaidebuzu。
2. 查找原因,寻求答案
zaiduidaichuguiwentideshihou,bixuxiangxifenxichuguidezhuyaoyuanyin。zheijiangbaokuoqueshaogoutong、quefaaiqingdadao、hunyinshenghuozhongcunzaidewentideng。tongguofenxishenhoudongji,cainenggenghaodexunzhaochulizhengquededaan。
3. 开启会话,平等交流
zailengjingfenxiyihou,yuchuguidenanshengkaizhanpingdengjiaoliushishifenzhongyaode。genjuhuihua,biaodazijijianjiehetihui,bingqieyelingtingduifangdejieshi。zheiyouliyucujinbicidelijiedegongshi。
4. 寻求帮助技术专业,寻求提议
duiyuzheiyangdejiongjing,tongchangwomenyinggaizhuanyerenyuandezhichiheyindao。nenggouxunqiuhunyinzixunshihuoxinlizixunshitiyi,tamenhuitigongzhuanyedexiangfahehelijiejuefangan。
5. 防范意识,保持独立
zaiduidaichuguiwentideshihou,bunengwangzishendeliyiheliyi。yaobaochidulibingfangfanyishi,baozhengzijideqingxuheshenxinjiankang。youshihou,kenenghaixuyaolinshiliangdifenjuhuoweichiyidingjuli,yibaohuzijimianzaojinyibuzaochengdeshanghai。
6. 重新思考关联,彻底改变标准
chuguishiqingshirenmenpobudeyizhongxinsikaohechedigaibianganqingzhongdebiaozhun。zheishiyigejihuiqusikaohunyinzhongdewenti,binggongtongshangdingyigexindezhiduheqidai,keyibangzhufujianfushangderenke。
7. 考虑到离异,保护自己
mouxieqingkuangxia,chuguikenengzaochengyuanxiandehunyinshenghuowufawanjiu,zheishihouyinggaikaolvliyiyibaohuzijideliyihemeihao。liyiyoukenengshibeishangde,danyoushihoushibaohuzijideweiyixuanze。
8. 始终保持期待,给予机会
buguanjixuhunyinshenghuohuoshijieshuhunyin,douxuyaoshizhongbaochiqidai。jiaruquedingjiyuchuguidenanshengjiyu,keyijianlijianguanhepingjiajizhi,kankanshifoukeyigenghaodegenggaibingzhongjianxinren。
9. 寻求心理指导,复建自尊心
jiejuechuguinantitongchanghuijibeipanbiandeyifangdailaihendadejingshenshanghai。weilenengfujianzizunxinhexinlijiankangjiaoyu,kenenghaixuyaoxunqiuxinlizhidaoyuzhichi,yizouchuyinying。
10. 自我提升,积极主动面对挑战
duiyuchuguidenanrenzenmechuli,zuizhuyaodeshi,wulunxuanqunayitiaolumian,beichuguijuebuyingchengweibeijiedingdesuoyou。zaiduidaichuguinantideqiantixia,yaozhuzhongziwotisheng,jijizhudongmianduitiaozhan,zhaodaozijidexingfukuaile。buguanzenyang,dajiadoushizhideyongyouyiduanjiankangyuchongmanaiderichangshenghuo。
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