nanrenchuguihoubupenglaopodeyuanyin,shiyizhongxintaibianhuadeyizhongtixian。dangnanrenpanbianbanlvshi,tadeneixindedaolesunhai,tihuidaolefuzuiganhekuijiu。zheileixinliyalirangtamenduibanlvlakaijuli,zaiyebuganjiechu,yifangzhijinyibudeshanghaikuiqiangan。chucizhiwai,waiyuyeyoukenengshinanrenduibanlvxingchengleyanfanhebumanyi,zaochenglejingshencengmiandeshengshu。yiner,zaichuguizhihou,nanrenbuganpenglaopodezhuyaoyuanyintongchangshilaiyuanyuxinlishangdefangyuliheqingganshangdezhuanbian。
nanrenhunhouchugui,waiyuchengweileyigezhenxinchengyiyinmideyinmi。dandangyigemimibeijiekaishi,dadongdebujinshibanlvdexinren,yeyouliangrenzhijiandehunyinguanxi。xiamian,rangwomenyiqilaitanxun,weihenanrenzaichuguizhihouhuihebanlvshuyuan,buhuizaijiechutamendeyuangu。
1. 负罪感和愧疚
nanrenchuguihoubupenglaopodeyuanyin,nanrenchuguizhihouchangchanghuibeifuzuiganhekuijiusuolongzhaozhe。tamenshenshendirenshidaozijidepanbiangerenxingweiduibanlvdaozhilesunhai,zheishitamenhaipahuozhewufazaihebanlvweichiqinjin。shentijiechunengrangtamenxinlishanggandaoshifendekuijiu,naizhidailaigengduotongchu。
2. 无法释怀的叛变不良影响
panbiangerenxingweikenengzaochengbanlvfanyinghebuliangyingxiang,birunaonu、youshangheyihan。nanrenhenyoukenengbuganmianduibanlvdeqingxubengkui,buyuanyizaijiechutamenyifangzhijinyibudemaodunhefenqi。tamenxiwangtongguolakaijuli,nenggoujianshaoshuangfangdejiaolvqingxu,jinliangjianshaoshanghaijiazhong。
3. 情绪疲劳和冷漠
chuguijingchanglaiyuanyuduibanlvfuqiguanxidebumanyiheyanfan。nanrenkenenghuiduihunyinlidemoufangmianfeichangshiwang,huoshijuedehunyinshenghuoduiyutameneryanyijingshiquyouhuoli。zheileiqingxupilaohelengmoshidetamenbuhuizaiyouxingquaihaoyubanlvyoushentilideqinjin,shenzhiyoukenengxiwangcongwaibutansuoxindecijixingbingmanzu。
4. 防范意识和自我惩罚
nanrenkeyitongguobuganpenglaopodexingshijinxingfangfanyishiheziwochengfa。tamenkenengrenwei,lakaijulinenggoubimianjinyibudeshanghaituijinfenqi。chucizhiwai,tamenyeyoukenengxinlingshenchujuedezijiduibanlvyouyidingdekuijiu,yinergenjubujiechulaishixianziwochengfaxiaoguo。
5. 复建信任的难题
chuguipohuaibanlvjiandexinrenjiben,fujianxinrenxuyaoyiduanshijian、nuliyuzhencheng。nanrenhenyoukenengyishidaozheiyidian,suoyixuanzezaiyiduanshijianneibuhebanlvyoushentilidechupeng,qidaiyongzheizhongfangshibiaodazijichengxinheyongqi。tamenxiwangyongduozhongfangshixiufubanlvduiyutamendexinren,zaicijianliguanxi。
结束语
nanrenchuguihoubupenglaopodeyuanyin,nanrenzaichuguizhihoubuganpenglaopodezhuyaoyuanyin,shiyizhongjingshenshangdefanyingqingxubianhua。fuzuiganhekuijiu、panbianbuliangyingxiang、qingxupilaohelengmo、fangfanyishiheziwochengfa,jiqifujianxinrendenanti,douchenglenanrenbuhuizaijiechubanlvdezhuyaoyuanyin。danshi,fujianhunyinguanxihehuifubanlvjiandexinren,bixubicizhijiandegongtongfendouheshijianmoheqi。
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