冷爱受邀参加《谁在说》 教你如何挽回爱情

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　　情感的缺失：婚姻里的苦闷

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　　自尊心的渴望：男人的自我认可

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　　诱惑的引起：外部诱惑和机遇

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　　沟通交流的疏远：婚姻里的溝通障礙

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　　自我调控的缺失：对内心的欲望放肆

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