挽回男友：分手断联后男人的3种心态

　　chuguidenanrenjiushizhizheixiefangqilehunyinshenghuochengnuo，beililehunyinshenghuolunlidaodedenanshi。tamenzhuizhuzhesatuodereqing，linshidelequ，quehulvelejiatingdewendingxingheyouqingdeguanjian。zheizhongnanshengquefazerenxinhechengshishouxin，jibanlvhejiatingdailailejidadetongkuyusunhai。haizidexingweiyefanyingchubugouchengshuhezisizili。keshibeichuguidebanlvmendouyaoxuehuijianqiangheyingdui，zaicizhenshiziwoshiyongjiazhi，buhuibeizheizhongchuguinanrendepanbiansuofu，jizijihejiatingchuangzaogengmeihaodemingtian。

　　沉溺在冲动涡旋中

　　zaizheiyangyigefuzadeshijieli，chuguidenanrenhaosineixindeyuwangfuhuo，yibuxiaoxinbianchennizaineixindeyuwangwoxuanzhong。tamenjingchanghuiyinweiduibanlvqiangliebuman、didangbuzhuyouhuohuoneixinshenchudezaodongbuanerxuanzelebeilihunyinshenghuochengnuo。

　　引诱陷阱，难以自拔

　　chuguidenanrentongchangzaoshouyinyouxianjing，nanyikangjuxinliyinnidechongdong。kenengshiwaibudeyinyouhuaxuewuzhi，yekenengshiyigeduanzanxingkuaigan，danshizheizhongtiaoxuanjingchangshidetamennanyizibadedibu。tamenmanmanmituyuqingganshangdemiwuzhizhong，buhuizaikeguandesikaotamendexingwei。

　　背离服务承诺，毁坏家庭

　　dangchuguidenanrentiaoxuantaochuhunyindeshufushi，tamenyewuxingzhizhongpohuaijiatingwending。banlvyuhaizimenbeishousunhai，tadexinlaibeisipo，jiatingguanlianyaoyaoyuzhui。chuguinanrendezisiziligerenxingwei，rangjiatingshenxiandongdangbuanyutongkudangzhong。

　　义务和自我的比拼

　　meigerenliyingchengdanqizijidezeren，zaihunyinshenghuozhongweihubaoyangbicidezhongshiyuxinren。chuguidenanrenbixurenqingtamendexingwei，zhongxinsikaoziyidejiatingrenwujiaoseyijiduibanlvhexiaopengyoudeyiwu。taxuyaodangmianduichongdongshi，baochilixing，shenshizijijueceduijiatingchanshengdeyingxiang。

　　伴侣坚强与重构

　　beichuguinanrenpanbiandebanlvmenbixuyongganjianqiangdijieshouxianshi。tamennenggenjuxunzhaoxinliguanhuai、gaibianziwojiqijizijiyuhaizimenkaichuangmeihaoweilaierxiufuzixinxin。tamendegangyihenulibabianchengzhongxinqichengdequdongli，zhonggouxingfuderensheng。

　　思考与悔约，恢复与新建

　　chuguinanrenyeyinggaishenshizijigerenxingwei，ganyumianduibinggaiguozixin。weiyoutongguoshencengciziwofansibingqieyuanyicaiyongxunsuxingdong，caikeyixiangbanlvzhanxianzijidechengxin，xiangdedaokuanrongyufujian。fujianjiatingxuyaoyiduanshijian、nuliyubicizhijiandeyitongxianghupeihe，danzhiyaoniyuanyiqinfen，fujianxingfukuailedejiatingyiranbushibukeneng。

　　警告与经验教训，守护爱情

　　chuguidenanrengushinenggoudaijiwomenjinggaoyujingyanjiaoxun。ganqingxuyaoaixiheshouwei，bunengsuixinsuoyudibeilifuwuchengnuo。dangmianduiwaibuyinyoushi，womenyaobaochitounaoqingxingdedanao，sisuoziwodejiazhiyuduijiatingdezhize。jinyoujianshouxinyang，caikeyishouhuaiqingbubeichuguiyinyinglongzhaozhe。